Attracted to older women

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I love younger men. I have found that most younger guys if they lack experience are very quick studies, and you get the added bonus of molding them to your taste :tongue:

I've always been attracted to younger guys, since my early 20's. I also agree that older women are less likely to play games, are probably better in bed, and definitely have more confidence. I'm just happy that society is finally catching up with the concept of older woman/younger man.
 

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When I was a youngster, I had an early thing for "Mrs. Robinson". And proceeded to continually find 40-something women to be highly attractive on all levels.

Now they're my contemporaries! And I still love 'em.

But I like younger women, too (20's, for example). And my female friends say this is icky. I say it's not, by definition, icky. It does come down to at least a modicum of maturity. Without which, I wouldn't be attracted. And if a 25 year old is mature, why can't they date older men/women without condemnation?
 

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there's a certain point where going for younger, or older, is slightly worrisome...
i think generally when it comes to men and women going for extremely younger partners it bothers me.

there is a majour difference than seeking a partner who is younger, and not being able to or WANTING to surround yourself with people who are your peers. (i'm speaking on every aspect of your life, including friendships...)

there's a point where different ages seek incredibly different goals and their mentality is too drastically different. so yes, some things DO rely on the actual number...when you're above 50 you can't tell me that someone's maturity and mindset is equal to a person under 30. you may feel and ACT young at heart, but you have different goals, and you're more than likely in an extremely different position in your walk of life than the other person.

also...to address the obvious stupidity in all of you who decide to generalize everyone "younger" because of OUR age, (and only because all the men like to agree with whatever the OP says...if i posted a younger woman thread, i'm positive many would follow suit in stating the positives of a younger woman. :rolleyes:), i'd like to point out that since you would like to say that age doesn't matter when it is in reference to your OLDER partners, thanks for being hypocritical and using that mentality when it's convenient for your side of the argument. haha. it's all fairly ammusing.
 

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I love younger men. I have found that most younger guys if they lack experience are very quick studies, and you get the added bonus of molding them to your taste :tongue:

I've always been attracted to younger guys, since my early 20's. I also agree that older women are less likely to play games, are probably better in bed, and definitely have more confidence. I'm just happy that society is finally catching up with the concept of older woman/younger man.


I Lack Experience!!
 

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there's a certain point where going for younger, or older, is slightly worrisome...
i think generally when it comes to men and women going for extremely younger partners it bothers me. *snip*

Is this one of the "games" us younguns play? Are we supposed to seek out older partners? I really can't figure out what all these "games" people are talking about when they say that older women never play "games".

Just putting it out there: older women could have more baggage. Don't tell me that won't mess with your head but a younger girl's inexperience would*. Also, it's been nicely brought up by some of the older ladies here (thank you) that younger men might have less experience but you can teach them how to please you really well... Like breaking in a new pair of shoes or something. Isn't the same true for younger girls? If that's the case, shouldn't all sexual relationships be between people of very different ages so that the younger one can learn something from the older one?

*This is comparing an older woman with baggage to a younger woman who doesn't have the experience. Not that all older woman have baggage and all younger women don't know how to have good sex, I'm just trying to make a fair comparison between two negative situations.
 

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I have been surprised by how younger men don't have to be taught. Totally agree. I'm not into teaching.
I'm not talking really young, but men 10-15 years younger than me (I'm 47). 25-28 is perfect IMO. In my experience, they have pretty much known what they are doing. At least about sex.

I'm open to all ages but, for me, they have to be in great shape and just overall hot:biggrin1: (and let's not forget smart...)

Me too. I don't card them... (well ok I do) Just difficult to find one over 30 who is in great shape, shaved all over, tattooed and "overall hot."
 

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I'm young and have a lot of stamina. I hope this lasts for a long time.

Besides the typical cougar bars, where is the best place to meet older women?
 

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Is this one of the "games" us younguns play? Are we supposed to seek out older partners? I really can't figure out what all these "games" people are talking about when they say that older women never play "games".

of course it's a game! how could a young woman like myself ever be in need of a mature fulfilling relationship???
 

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I love younger men. I have found that most younger guys if they lack experience are very quick studies, and you get the added bonus of molding them to your taste :tongue:

I've always been attracted to younger guys, since my early 20's. I also agree that older women are less likely to play games, are probably better in bed, and definitely have more confidence. I'm just happy that society is finally catching up with the concept of older woman/younger man.

society is far more ahead there then they are with older man younger woman, despite the bs feminists will spout

how young do you like your men :eek: )
 

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I'm young and have a lot of stamina. I hope this lasts for a long time.
Sorry dude but it doesn't last forever. If it did they would never have invented cialis, viagra, etc. :frown1:

Besides the typical cougar bars, where is the best place to meet older women?
Mammogram clinic? :biggrin1: :rofl:
 

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Oh heck yes I do love older women. As a rule they know what I want and I do know what I want and most of the time it matches........wild lusty sex w/out all the drama.
 

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Younger guys are my boy-toys or fuck buddies as people around here call him. Good eye candy, hard bodies, mmmmm and fun to be with. But due to their age they don't make good friends, I need someone closer to my age for friendship, therefore, my FWB's are closer to my age group. Make no mistake about it though both groups serve a much needed purpose in my life.

As for which group is better in bed, there is no correct answer, some guys are naturally very good at sex and some guys aren't, it's more of a talent, you either have it or you don't. I do think that experience helps, but most people will have more than enough experience before they turn 21 and I don't dip below that age group for boy-toy's.
 

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Older women please sex us younger guys up all you want and teach these young, immature, Twilight book reading, sex novice girls how it's done... PLEASE! :tongue:[/QUOTE]


OMG-- this made me laugh. Uh, and we would do this by what? Turning bi? Or maybe having real sex lessons? LOL, I thought guys liked teaching 'girls' about sex?? :)

I like younger guys, somewhat. I don't like being the teacher, and I found a few younger guys to be way too into themselves? Not sure, if that's it, but they were all about ....mmm how to put this nicely? They were all about getting off, but not much about me getting off? Sorry, I'm just being honest, and it was like two guys, so not a fair evaluation of the male sex, I know! And I guess I agree, that I don't see how a long term thing would work out? I mean, I have younger guys coming on to me all the time, I work at a college, so they think I am a student (well, I was a grad. student) and I'm always flattered, but...well, they are so much younger? And older guys, well, they are somewhat bitter, unhappy or jaded. It's a hard one! And of course I don't mean all younger men or all older guys. Not at all. Just my random thoughts. And now I am babbling...I'll stop. :rolleyes:
 

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Fiiiiiiiiiinaly had sex with an older woman. I'm 20, she's 35. One nighter. Was fucking epic, mind.