I'm sort of the same. I'm definitely only attracted to very feminine women that are petite and girly, but not necessarily submissive. When it comes to men I'm mostly attracted to very masculine and dominant, but I've also been attracted to feminine twinks. I consider myself a vers bottom, because I usually prefer to bottom and be submissive. I'm not totally masculine or feminine, most people assume I'm straight while a few probably suspect I'm gay or bi. The thing is, I'm not versatile with any one person, so if I'm with a woman or feminine guy, I only want to be dominant/top with them. I don't think I would even want to suck off a feminine guy, only eat ass and top. But if I'm with a masculine/ dominant guy, I will only really want to bottom for them, rarely would I want to top them, although I don't mind getting head from a masculine guy, but I would prefer to blow them. Its kinda confusing and toxic lol but that's just what I'm into for now.. Its been a problem for me because I often meet masculine "tops" that end up wanting to "try" bottoming or only suck me off and it doesn't really turn me on :/ also Ive been with twinks that want me to suck them off or bottom for them and I'm just not into that.. I actually hope that I can sort of loosen up on these preferences a bit as I get older