So I'm running into a problem...I'm typically a home goer - not a reclusive but not exactly one that goes out partying, drinking etc. I prefer the more refined aspects of life...so getting boozed out of my mind doesn't make me happy. Then again all the "good" opportunities are at those places...I'm finding that I'm missing out on something. This isn't a question on well...how do I change that...it's obvious I'll need to bring myself to terms and learn to enjoy those things in my own way. The main question is how do I attract girls (and guys) to me. Can I use my "package" as incentive and if so...how? haha. Corny questions, but it's really been bothering me lately.