I'm a gay guy who is often romantically attracted to str8 dudes. How do I go about getting a str8 guy to show me affection--like hugging me or kissing me and letting me do the same to him? Has any other (mostly) gay guy ever been in this situation? The first guy I ever loved was my college roommate. He was str8 but very open-minded and understanding. By the end of the semester, he let me kiss him on the lips and later he let me perform oral sex on his penis. Later I was romatically attracted to a guy in my same military unit, then a guy in graduate school, and now a man with whom I work at my job. I dig gay men for sexual fulfillment, but when it comes to romance, for some reason I seem to latch on the str8 dudes who are handsome, well built, intelligent, sensitive--and, of course, being well-endowed helps a lot too. I'd be interested in your advice and experience in this area. Thanks!