Attraction to tall men...

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I personally would like to meet the people who think 6'0 is short. It might be shorter than someone else but it is well over the average for adult males....thus making them tall. To me short would be anything under the average for adult males, which depending on your source is anywhere from 5'8 to 5'10.

Furthermore it is my right to be choosy. I never have and honestly never can see myself dating anyone under 5'8". Sure I might miss out on some incredibly amazing guy but that is my right....and trust me I won't be missing out in my opinion as height is one of the very few preferences I have in men.
 

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At least I'm taller than you. At least I have a chance. I'm 5'5".:smile:


As AlphaMale stated; height is relative. I can't even see over the counter at my video store! So to me, 6'0 + is MASSIVE. I still have to get on my tippees to kiss anyone that tall.

Feeling protected and safe if probably what my subconscious is guiding me for. Plus I am just amazed at how tall some guys are.


Originally Posted by Modest123
I am not short but I remember, while visiting Australia, attending a night club. Perhaps it's because I don't know how to dance but the only attention I got, from the ladies, was an occasional look of "what the hell do you want?". Meanwhile, every gal (especially the short ones) was trying to rub up against the tall guys and ignoring all the other guys. It was quite pathetic. After a while, I gave up in disgust and found a nice brothel where I enjoyed the company of a very polite Chinese lady... and that's another story
That's because some night clubs here are for lamers. Prissy little princesses that basically want to get a thrill out of flashing their coouch for the night. It's their ego I'd say because there is no excuse for rudeness if someone has made an effort to say hello (unless you were clearly intoxicated or sleazing on them and/or possibly left a stain while doing that :tongue:)

As for those 'pathetic' short women, now, now, you just sound bitter. They can't help that they're attracted to tall men. It's like someone making you sit down and watch 'Pretty in Pink' movie when all you want is 'Pulp Fiction'. You can't help what you like, you just like it. haha
 

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As a matter of fact, it was in Sydney:biggrin1:. Yeah, I know, you can't blame a person for what they're attracted to - even if that person is a pedophile. You can only judge them by their actions (when those actions are criminal).

As AlphaMale stated; height is relative. I can't even see over the counter at my video store! So to me, 6'0 + is MASSIVE. I still have to get on my tippees to kiss anyone that tall.

Feeling protected and safe if probably what my subconscious is guiding me for. Plus I am just amazed at how tall some guys are.


That's because some night clubs here are for lamers. Prissy little princesses that basically want to get a thrill out of flashing their coouch for the night. It's their ego I'd say because there is no excuse for rudeness if someone has made an effort to say hello (unless you were clearly intoxicated or sleazing on them and/or possibly left a stain while doing that :tongue:)

As for those 'pathetic' short women, now, now, you just sound bitter. They can't help that they're attracted to tall men. It's like someone making you sit down and watch 'Pretty in Pink' movie when all you want is 'Pulp Fiction'. You can't help what you like, you just like it. haha
 

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Yeah I found that Sydney night clubs (to me) are very, very sad. You have to find a good pub (it's the aussie way) to actually find the somewhat normal ppl.

Pedophile??
I think that's heading down a complicated and angry path. Which is why I am jumping ship here.
 

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It was only an extreme example. But okay...

Yeah I found that Sydney night clubs (to me) are very, very sad. You have to find a good pub (it's the aussie way) to actually find the somewhat normal ppl.

Pedophile??
I think that's heading down a complicated and angry path. Which is why I am jumping ship here.
 

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I personally would like to meet the people who think 6'0 is short. It might be shorter than someone else but it is well over the average for adult males....thus making them tall. To me short would be anything under the average for adult males, which depending on your source is anywhere from 5'8 to 5'10.

Furthermore it is my right to be choosy. I never have and honestly never can see myself dating anyone under 5'8". Sure I might miss out on some incredibly amazing guy but that is my right....and trust me I won't be missing out in my opinion as height is one of the very few preferences I have in men.

Maybe women should ask men out more often as I am tired of weeding out the ones that don't prefer shorter guys. Glad I have the porn biz. I'm done with the dating scene. I'll stay single until we get progress here. Women are so judgemental. Can we help it if we are genetically short? Even racial preferences should be sin.
 

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Maybe some (Asian) guy will invent a virus that kills off all the tall guys! Of course 5' 11" will have to be the break off point - 'cause that's my height.

Maybe women should ask men out more often as I am tired of weeding out the ones that don't prefer shorter guys. Glad I have the porn biz. I'm done with the dating scene. I'll stay single until we get progress here. Women are so judgemental. Can we help it if we are genetically short? Even racial preferences should be sin.
 

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A lot of women can't help it; tallness is simply an attractive trait for men.

It bothers me a lot, but there's nothing I can do. A tall man is to women is kind of what a girl with a big, beautiful rack is to most men. Instantly gets attention, and in some cases initial attraction. Short guys never really enter the picture in terms of people a women considers dating, and they have to work pretty damn hard to get in there.

It's still possible, and things like incredible confidence, being in very good shape, and awesome social graces can still get you some attention.

On the same side, though, it's a lot like when someone says it doesn't matter if you have a small penis, because if you're skilled enough, have good enough stamina, and are incredibly talented with your tongue and fingers, you'll be able to get the same reaction. It's comforting to think about and all, but one would still want a bigger dick.

Also, I'm 5'4", which is the shortest male height said so far in this thread, and from what I've read, is the average height for women.

Just realize that there's nothing to be gained from whining, and just adapt. Also, realize that any woman that directly turns you away simply because of height alone isn't worth your time.
 

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A lot of women can't help it; tallness is simply an attractive trait for men.

It bothers me a lot, but there's nothing I can do. A tall man is to women is kind of what a girl with a big, beautiful rack is to most men. Instantly gets attention, and in some cases initial attraction. Short guys never really enter the picture in terms of people a women considers dating, and they have to work pretty damn hard to get in there.

It's still possible, and things like incredible confidence, being in very good shape, and awesome social graces can still get you some attention.

On the same side, though, it's a lot like when someone says it doesn't matter if you have a small penis, because if you're skilled enough, have good enough stamina, and are incredibly talented with your tongue and fingers, you'll be able to get the same reaction. It's comforting to think about and all, but one would still want a bigger dick.

Also, I'm 5'4", which is the shortest male height said so far in this thread, and from what I've read, is the average height for women.

Just realize that there's nothing to be gained from whining, and just adapt. Also, realize that any woman that directly turns you away simply because of height alone isn't worth your time.


I concur. It's nature. Don't hate the playa, hate the game. :biggrin1:

I'm done with the dating scene.

Good luck with that. :wink:
 

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I guess ladies here rather date a tall broke abusive asshole rather than date a short courteous wealthy dude that would treat them well. I guess it is their nature as well. Too bad ladies. I'm keeping my wealth to myself.
 

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I guess ladies here rather date a tall broke abusive asshole rather than date a short courteous wealthy dude that would treat them well. I guess it is their nature as well. Too bad ladies. I'm keeping my wealth to myself.
:popcorn::rofl:
 

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Exactly! Most women I know want a man at least as tall as them.... That shouldn't be too hard to find. Just means that you have a few less options if you are vertically challenged, move on and find one!

You have some mad generalisations going on there ;)

1. Not all tall men are abusive arseholes
2. Not all women are into money. I am certainly not.
 

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Maybe women should ask men out more often as I am tired of weeding out the ones that don't prefer shorter guys. Glad I have the porn biz. I'm done with the dating scene. I'll stay single until we get progress here. Women are so judgemental. Can we help it if we are genetically short? Even racial preferences should be sin.


Boo Hoo! I don't see why a woman is judgemental because she has a preferece for taller men. Sure height is a genetic thing but there are plenty of other people who crucify women for being too chubby or fat even. Sure maybe we could change those things about ourselves but why should we change ourselves for anybody but ourselves??? If somebody doesn't like me because I'm fat then whatever that is their preference. You don't see me bashing them. If women don't like you because you're shorter than they prefer then guess what....that's their choice. You shouldn't crucify them for that because it's a waste of time. Simply find somebody who doesn't mind your height. And if you're tired of weeding through women maybe you should be more direct about it. Ask women straight out if they have a problem with your height and boom....no time wasted.
 

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I guess ladies here rather date a tall broke abusive asshole rather than date a short courteous wealthy dude that would treat them well. I guess it is their nature as well. Too bad ladies. I'm keeping my wealth to myself.


A. You just made yourself look like an asshole in thinking that women should like you just because you have money.

B. Just because a man is tall doesn't mean he is broke, abusive or an asshole.

C. Not all short men are courteous, wealthy or treat women nice.

D. You sound very bitter. I suggest you stop wasting your time being bitter and spend more of it focusing on finding someone who likes you for who you are.
 

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Exactly! Most women I know want a man at least as tall as them.... That shouldn't be too hard to find. Just means that you have a few less options if you are vertically challenged, move on and find one!


Honestly it shouldn't be that hard for him. The average height of women depending on the source is 5'4 to 5'6. That means those women at that height or less are in the majority. It just so happens (for some unknown reason) that most of the women here are taller than average. Not all of us of course....so maybe we as a subset of women are biased. I think you make a good point though....most women just want someone who is at least as tall as them or at least within an inch or two. And quite honestly I don't think that is too much to ask or an unreasonable preference. It's not like anybody here is saying that all 5'4" women want a man who is a foot taller than her.
 

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I'm 6'4", and after reading some of the replies in this thread, I almost feel like I should apologize for it or something, even though I have no more control over my height than does anyone else. I've never really felt like I've been the target of female attraction because of my height, but then again, I can be pretty dense about such things, or so I've been told. There are a few instances where I've been hit on by tall women, but usually I don't pay too much attention as I prefer short gals for some odd reason.