A lot of women can't help it; tallness is simply an attractive trait for men.
It bothers me a lot, but there's nothing I can do. A tall man is to women is kind of what a girl with a big, beautiful rack is to most men. Instantly gets attention, and in some cases initial attraction. Short guys never really enter the picture in terms of people a women considers dating, and they have to work pretty damn hard to get in there.
It's still possible, and things like incredible confidence, being in very good shape, and awesome social graces can still get you some attention.
On the same side, though, it's a lot like when someone says it doesn't matter if you have a small penis, because if you're skilled enough, have good enough stamina, and are incredibly talented with your tongue and fingers, you'll be able to get the same reaction. It's comforting to think about and all, but one would still want a bigger dick.
Also, I'm 5'4", which is the shortest male height said so far in this thread, and from what I've read, is the average height for women.
Just realize that there's nothing to be gained from whining, and just adapt. Also, realize that any woman that directly turns you away simply because of height alone isn't worth your time.