Ask women straight out if they have a problem with your height and boom....no time wasted.
Uhm, really, no, I can't see any real reason how you could ask if someone mind's your height or not. If someone looking to date you outright asked if you minded a particular inferiority of theirs... it's really unattractive. Really, the only good way to compensate for height is to be so fuckawesome at everything else with your appearance and mannerisms that your height or lackthereof isn't really noticed.
Also, Scorpio, while what you said is quite thoughtful, it's unfortunately a bit incorrect. You say that he shouldn't get mad at women for rejecting him based on height, as you don't get mad at men for rejecting you based on body size. There is a key difference in your situations, though: You could change if you wanted. You could lose weight, and so, at least in a way, you're overweight by choice. There's a big difference between someone rejecting you based on your preferences and someone rejecting you based on something over which you have no control.
Also, to everyone who made a point of saying that not all tall men are assholes and not all short men are generous, please note that darkseid1998, uh, never said they were. He was just saying that, given a choice between a tall person and a short person, a woman would choose the tall person regardless of how much better of a person the short man could be. That, in most cases, is false, of course.
Speaking of which, darkseid1998, holy fuck you are being so incredibly bitter and angry. If you demonstrate such frustration and insecurity in real life as you do here, it's probably playing into your misfortune with women just as much as, if not more than, your actual lack of height.