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Greetings fellow aussies and lpsg members who have experience living in Oz.

I've recently been baptised with experiencing a night in a gay sauna (twice now in the past month) and I was wondering what other peoples' experiences have been like. I'm still trying to wrap my head around my time there so I can properly structure them into words, I'll post mine shortly.

Do you have any sexy or not so sexy stories, or advice for people who are new or still haven't dived into the experience? Did you meet interesting people or make connections?

This is the place to share your experiences!
 
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I've been to Sydney Sauna on Oxford St twice this year now. Both times have been interesting.

A little background about me.. i'm very much a latebloomer.. never got to explore my sexuality in my 20s due to a family crisis, so my focus was making sure my siblings were loved and well taken care of. Fastforward over 10 years later, I'm now 35 and have given myself experience to start enjoying my life again. Though I'm still quite shy and reserved, so my 1st sauna experience was pretty funny, according to my friend.

A good mate brought me along to Sydney Sauna for my first time. He knew I was nervous but told me that things will only happen if I let them happen, good or bad. His advice was to chill in the spa or sauna and not expect anything. This was around 8pm, so it was quite early and still not busy.

We first went to the steam sauna, it was dark in there, with so much steam you can barely make out anyone's figure. There was a dim light at the back enough to illuminate basic shapes. We sat at the back and chatted for a bit, letting the warmth relax me. Then after a few mins we went out to the main spa, in front was a large screen continuously playing gay porn, and the good kind too... early 2000's seancody, menatplay, corbinfisher, falcon, etc.. the classics.

There was one other guy there but we didnt make eye contact or engage him, he was alright, run of the mill bloke you'd see walking around western sydney.

After some time, we decided to go downstairs in the cruising area. It's basically a maze with different rooms you can use, gloryholes, slings, beds, etc. There were only a few men standing around waiting for their next prey.

Now I've been told a few times I'm a good looking guy with a nice body and I'd get some attention.. walking past these men pretty much guaranteed me getting touched in some form, trying to get my attention. My mate said ignore them if you dont find them appealing, then they'll leave you alone.

We went back upstairs where he said he'll do his own thing and leave me to do whatever. Told me to look out for men that might follow me, and if I want to hang out with them, to make eye contact and nod, and see if they respond.

I walked around a bit.. the 1st floor also had plenty of cruising rooms and areas where men were just standing by... i decided to go back into the sauna area to try the dry sauna.. around this time my friend said he saw around 4 guys follow me into the sauna.. being the shy guy that I am, i didnt even notice.

Sat in the dry sauna, where there was plenty of light to see who comes in and out.. and after me were 4 guys.. 2 of them were old men, the other 2 were small asian men, also old. I got pretty freaked out by this but kept quiet and sat down.. after a few minutes one of them reached out and started playing with my nipples.. i swatted it away and got outa there quickly.. my friend was right outside watching and laughing as he made eye contact with me..

I jumped into the jacuzzi with him and laughed it off. My friend is also a good looking guy, he'd have no trouble navigating the place, but he wanted to make sure I was alright.

That was around an hour after we entered and we started to get hungry, so we showered and got dressed, had dinner at BL burgers and walked around for a bit.. we decided to come back around 10pm when it would be a lot more busy..

And busy it was! A line was starting to form on the stairs to the sauna, and the guys were eyeing people in line to see prospective talent. I kept my eyes to myself, but did see a few good looking guys there.

Finally got in, jumped in the spa to chill and saw a cute guy sitting on the other end. We made eye contact and he swam to where I was and started making small talk, then after some time he got on top of me and started making out. There were other guys there too that tried to join in the action but he swatted them away.

He asked me if I wanted to get a room, to which I agreed and we found a nice quiet spot. Turned on the dim light and had a nice look at his body.. tall, muscle twunk with a bit of chest fluff and a well groomed bikini area. We made out a bit more then he took off my towel and started sucking my cock. I'm just about average.. cut, 6.5" with 6" girth, but his was at least 8" uncut, but not as thick. We just sucked each other for a while until he was about to cum and stopped me. We made out for a bit more and he said to find him later if I wanted to fuck him. Then he left.

I walked back out to see the place bussling with more men, it was quite a diverse group too.. there were the usual old white men and skinny small asian men from earlier, but now there were some built, arabic guys, more of your generic sydney white basic gay (smooth, toned, nice hair), some muscle jocks and bears.

I saw my friend walking around and waved at him.. he didnt recognise me coz it was dark, but he said I had a really good silhouette and my body looked rly ripped in the low light. He also mentioned i had 3 guys following me.. i turned around and there was this napoleon-dynamite looking dude with a skinny asian twink friend.. i didnt vibe with them so i said no, and the other guy was a stocky leb with a good beard. I walked up to him and started making out.. he wasn't a good kisser but his erection was poking out of his towel, which was pretty damn huge. I wasnt ready to deal with this so i bid him goodbye and kept walking around.

One of the main things I noticed that a lot of the good looking men tend to gather about each other, i think they may already be friends. It's difficult to approach someone who's with a group, so maybe that's the point.

I walked out to the main lobby to get a drink of water from the dispenser and watch the regular tv, then someone came up from behind and tapped me. He knew my name and i turned around, it was this guy I used to talk to in grindr. It was a little creepy but sexy at the same time. He looked much better than his photos did. After some small talk, we got into a room and started mucking about.

He's a short (around 5'6") wog, with a really nicely built body, as if he just came from the gym to build a nice pump. A nicely sized cock, around 7.5" and reasonable thickness, and had a freddy mercury-like mo, which worked really well for him.

We made out for a bit and started sucking each other off. I recalled he said he was a top. It's not a problem for me as I'm vers, but I do like the challenge of turning tops into vers. I ate his ass for a bit, the moaning was sexy, and asked if I could fuck him. He said no but would settle for some fingering.. but alas, there was no lube left in the room, so we went to look for another spot but it was already busy so we couldnt go anywhere.

We just found a dark area in the cruising floor and kept making out and jerking each other off.. by then, some guys started gathering around us jerking themselves off. It was hot but also a little discomforting, but it didnt matter. I kept jerking him off until he came loudly all over my leg, and eventually he made me cum too.. we walked off and went straight to the showers before it got too messy with the other guys.

By then my friend was already finished with showering and said he'd meet me in the locker room. I showered and cleaned myself, i didnt even notice my grindr dude disappear, probably looking for round 2 already.

Got cleaned up, had some men watching me shower and i walked past em, they were disappointed I was leaving and asked me to come back next time. I just smiled and nodded and walked out.

It was a fairly tame experience for the first time. It was definitely something new for me.. but the 2nd time was much much much hotter.. to be continued...
 

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It gets easier even by yourself after every visit , maybe check out a few other venues. Ive never visited the ones on oxford street only Sydney City Steam on Hickson Road near China Town , gets a good mixed crowd and lots of Asian guys who are my attraction , Havent been there the last year or so with all this covid crap going on and hope to get back soon , I was a little bit like you didn't start to fill my boots until 35 but have certainly made up for it the last 15 years. have never caught any STD's going to this sauna , seems like guys going to saunas are more likely to test often than just random guys you hook up on apps. I spent 16 hours at City Steam once and have had some great encounters. They also have suds night , towel free night and blackout on one level , blackout and suds seem to be free for all and can be a real orgy of guys hands all over everyone.
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After a long night of drinks and dancing in the city (my first time in a gay club as well.. where every few minutes some random guy or girl will ask me to show my abs or take my shirt off), my mates thought it would be good to jump into the sauna. This was now 2am on a sunday morning.

We went to sydney sauna (oxford st) and saw there was a line, around 6-7 people long. They all eyed us with a few of them lingering at me.. this time I was a bit more confident so I stared at the one who i thought was attractive and winked. He smiled and turned to face the front.

When I got to the counter, I handed my licence to the guy doing check-ins, only to head him say "wow you're cuuuuute", and the rest of the people from his side come out to have a look at me "you're gonna be busy" they said. I just had a smirk on my face as I walked in, I was feeling hella confident this time around.

A bit about me. I'm 100kg, 6' tall, a hefty amount of muscle and around 8% body fat. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week as I found it an amazing way to manage stress and anxiety. 5 years ago i got into a bad car accident, I was 30kg overweight and fell into depression. Fastforward to now, and that's me in my profile pic. Apparently I have a lethal smile too so it helps, and being part euro, part asian definitely is a plus.

I walked into the change area to look for my locker, and there quite a few guys in there getting ready. Im guessing it was because they just finished a long saturday night of partying and want a sexy night cap before heading back home. Some of them stared at me and I nodded in return.

I walked into the main area, noting people were turning and staring as I walked by. At this time I had a pretty good muscle pump going from the dancing and lifting random people jumping onto my arms, so i looked pretty big I guess.

I jumped straight into the steam sauna and could make out around 3 or 4 guys grouped in a corner sucking each other off. I knew I wasnt gna be able to unwind in here so I walked back out and into the dry sauna, where there is only one other guy. I didnt make eye contact as I walked in, but he kept staring. He was good looking but I wasnt looking to get right into it this early into the session, so I closed my eyes and chilled for a bit, and sensed that he's moved right next to me. I opened my eyes and smiled at him and he reached over for a kiss. We made out for a bit then as he reached into my towel, I stopped him and said I just got here and I want to relax. He respected that and walked out of the sauna. I never saw him again that night.

2mins later I jumped out of the dry sauna and into the jacuzzi, and sat a little higher on the corner so I'd have a good vantage point. On one corner there was a group of femme muscle bears chatting and laughing, another corner were a few twinks, and the others looked like bi discrete tradies.

I looked at the staircase heading down into the cruising area and saw a tall, gorgeous anglo twunk walking up. We made eye contact and I smiled. He took this as his invitation to get into the jacuzzi and sat next to me. After a bit of small talk (hey, what's your name, where you from, what's your background), we got into a room and started fucking the brains out of each other for what felt like 40mins. He had this nice smile that appears when I thrust into the right spot and he lets out this small moan.

Now, when I top I like to maintain maximum skin contact, like the classic gay porn I used to grow up with.. I dont get guys who just thrust their cock into another's ass and not do anything else.. so when I was pounding him doggy style, I'd let my chest rest onto his back and hold him closer with one arm while the other supports us.. the sweat and friction magnifies the sensations tremendously. When I got onto my back, I signaled him to fuck me, which he did, and he sucked on my nipples while he did so.. flexible russian men.. am i right?

We didn't finish as the night was too early, so we kissed goodbye. He asked for my insta to keep in contact. Numerous times that night we'd walk past each other and make out before heading our own way.

I got into the showers to cool down and get cleaned up from all the sweat, and another guy came in to do the same. He was gorgeous, and I recognised him from insta, as most of the guys who added me also have him on their list. Some mixed euro-latin dude with a nice beard and a cross-fit body. He looked taller in the photos, must be 5'8" or so in real life.

As we finished showering and dried off, I walked past him and stroked the small of his back to signal my intent. We made eye contact and he smiled in return. Fuckin great smile, I was already into him. We walked past the jacuzzi with my arm around him, and I could sense the stairs as we found a room on the main floor.

What came next was probably one of the best sex encounters of my life. We kissed and foreplayed for about half an hour, and he was as into it as I was. I ate his ass for a bit which he absolutely loved. The view from behind was spectacular.. his ass was well rounded and his back had an amazing v-taper, this man was fit. His cock must have been around 7" with the perfect thickness, and I had a good time sucking him off.. his moans made things even hotter.

We chatted for a bit and got to know each other. He said he'd seen me around the apls and insta but was too shy to swipe right.. that's my excuse. After exhanging details, we got right into it. We were both vers so we had an amazing time flip fucking, hands and feet everywhere, whatever position felt good we could pull off in the room. We were pretty damn loud too.

That whole session took about 90mins, and man were we dehydrated.. we walked out into the lobby to get some water and this guy was even more gorgeous in proper lighting. We just smiled at each other and went off our separate ways after that, unspoken agreement that we had finished things off really well.

As I walked back in, behind the main door there was this well built, irish stud a little shorter than me that pinched my nipples and got my attention. We made out for a bit and looked for a room, but everything was pretty much full so we kept walking. As i turned around, i noticed that he was no longer following me and had started making out with another guy. Oh well, his loss I guess.

It would have been about 5.30am at this time so I had decided to call it quits. I checked my phone back in my locker and saw that my friends had msgd me to say theyve left.. i was the designated driver and I knew this meant they found guys to go home with for the night. The guy with whom I had the hot encounter earlier had also added me on insta.. so much thirst trap photos, and 15k+ followers too (which to me is a big deal, compared to my 100 or so followers.. i had only started using insta a few months earlier).

I decided to do one last circuit on the floor before leaving, and as I walked into the floor, someone tapped my shoulder from behind. There I saw this gorgeous man, same height as me, well built with nice chest hair, mohawked with a short mullet and a really nice beard and moustache.. I smiled and stared into his eyes, and we both just looked at each other, and knew it was gonna be a good night. Let's call him "X".

We started making out on the spot and man was it hot, he knew how I liked it and we just kept going, while I had him up against the wall. During this time a crowd had started to gather around touching us which was a huge turn off. He told them to go away and we went to look for a room downstairs.. eventually after a bit of searching we found a smallish room. And we continued kissing on top of each other on the bed.

X had a really husky voice which turned me on as he said that he got there at 5am after he finished work and saw me. He was about to walk up to me when he saw me with another guy (the same one that ditched me), and wrote it off as a loss and was about to leave til he saw me again. I found this really hot and a bit stalkerish, i just told him I'm glad I didnt spend time with the other guy so I got to meet him. We continued to make out some more, and proceeded to kiss every part of esch other's bodies. This was probably about 40mins of kissing and foreplay, and no cockplay, when we found that we were both rly thirsty. I told him I'd go get some water.. he looked worried for a moment as he thought I might ditch him. I kissed him and asked him to come with me instead, he started blushing and walked out of the room, holding my hand.

What came after was unexpected. A lot of guys knew him.. i was worried as this meant he might have been a regular mansult. He said he's good mates with the guy who manages the place, and that he works in the gay scene on the side, and these guys are his workmates. He would talk with some of them and i'd stand there quietly smiling with his arm around my waist. These men would stare at me and smile at him and say "wow, you did find him! He's cute" Im guessing he told them what happened earlier too. X started kissing me and they told us to get out of there as we're ruining their chances.

We went out to the lobby and got some gatorade and water from the bar. He had his arms around me the whole time and the men-folk were staring. It felt satisfying and so hot. Around this time the irish bloke walked out and saw me, but i didnt interact.

After we got the drinks, we found a bigger room together and chilled for a bit. He rested his head on my chest and we started talking about our lives, what we do, family, work, etc. My life is a sob story but i felt comfortable telling him a light version.. he responded with teary eyes and gave me a tight hug.

From there we continued making out, and got into 69 position. This guy's cock was gorgeous.. uncut, 8", perfect thickness for my mouth. He seemed really into mine either.. we didnt talk for a while and just kept going.. after that he got back on top of me and asked if I was top or bottom. I responded vers and he said perfect, me too. Then i asked him to bend over and proceeded to eat his ass. Man, his moans were fucking hot, and his ass was smooth. He's a very fit man so i had no issues going down on him. After that i put on a condom and some lube and started to get into it.

X's moans drove me wild as I slowly slid into him.. i had to control myself as to not hurt him by rushing into it. When he got comfortable, I started to slowly thrust in and out, and laid on top of his chest, while he wrapped his legs around my back. We continued to make out in this position and man it was intense. I turned him over onto his chest and continued to fuck him, and he got into an upright position while i had my arms around his chest and neck, he looked over his shoulder and made out with me. This is probably my new favourite position.. i wonder what it was called.

We both started to get light headed and took a quick break. We drank some of our drinks and he asked me how regularly i get tested. I responded every 3 months and i'm on prep. He said me too and asked if I minded bareback.. i said i didnt mind so he peeled off my condom and started sucking me off.

We were together for a while, and to cut the long story short.. this was the first time i've ever experienced a handsfree anal orgasm while being fucked by a guy. He just knew how to listen to what made me feel good, and was observant on what worked and what didn't.

X finished inside me while in missionary position and afterwards we both just laid there, catching our breath and twitching from the intense orgasm. He told me that he was really happy that he found me again tonight, and asked if i wanted to meet him outside for a date another time. I of course said yes.. i didn't think i'd make this sort of connection in a gay spa, but i'm not about to pass up an opportunity like this for feeble reasons.

He said he wanted to take a shower with me, we walked to the open showers, turned on the water and started making out some more. After some time he whispered into my ears that we had an audience. I turned around and saw 4 to 5 guys staring at us, one of them his mate from work smiling and shaking his head.

So i faced him against the wall and started to eat his ass.. it was fucking hot, he was moaning loudly, the water was nice and warm, and i didnt care that i couldnt breathe properly. He then proceeded to suck me off and we both continued to put on a show. After a bit of time we dried off and he talked with some of his friends, introseduced me to them and said I was a keeper. They all smiled at me, looked me up and down and said "yeah he is".. then they told him to be cautious as they saw his ex walking around and he's still here. They told me it was a bad breakup and his ex is the jealous type, even though theyre no longer together.

I asked him if he'd be ok, and that I should go before things got awkward but it was too late. This short, muscle latin guy walked up to the group and things got awkwsrd with everyone. At this point my new mate still has his arm around me and his ex saw that too.

I told them Im gonna go get changed, stared at X and he nodded. As I walked off, he whispered in my ear to please wait for him outside. I got dressed, didnt bother looking at any other guys and walked out into the lobby. The guy managing the place who's also X's good friend told me a little about what happened, and told me not to worry, he's a good person, and that I should wait.

I waited a bit outside, it was already 7.30am and the whole city was lit up by the nice warm sun. After some time X got out and found me, gave me a hug and apologised for the awkwardness. I told him not to worry and that he didnt need to explain, we just met and he wasnt obliged to say anything. I told him it was nice meeting him, but he cut me off saying he was serious about wanting to see me more. I blushed at this point, i wasnt prepared for this but it felt nice.

I asked him if he wanted a lift home, and he said it would be nice. In the car he started to explain what happened in the relationship and how it broke down due to the stresses of covid, and that they were coworkers which made it awkward. I stayed quiet and listened as I pulled up in front of his place. He got my phone and saved his details, and opened my insta and followed his profile. This guy had 30k+ followers and has a presence in the sydney gay scene, which was overwhelming to me. He took a selfie photo of both of us in the car afterwards.

He asked if I wanted to stay for a nap, but I had brunch commitments so I had to refuse. He then said to make sure to keep in contact and that he wants to continue speaking with me. That afternoon some of my gay mates from insta blew up my inbox as X had posted a story with me in it saying "made a new friend". They wanted to hear all the goss. Maybe I should just tell them to come here and read about it.

It's been a few weeks since then, and he's the first message i see in the morning, and the last i see before i go to sleep. We've chatted on facetime but have both been unable to line up our schedules to meet up for a proper date, but we're still hopeful.

I didnt think i'd meet someone like that in a sauna, but whatever works right? He would definitely been a 10/10 for me but his current baggage made it difficult for me to suss out if he's just on the rebound or genuine about wanting to see me, not just as a sexy piece of ass.

Every now and then he'd joke about meeting up after work at d same time in the sauna to make everyone jealous and put on a show.. i actually wouldn't mind aye, hehehe.

That sums up my second sauna experience.. came in for some action, walked out with something a bit more substantial.
 

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It gets easier even by yourself after every visit , maybe check out a few other venues. Ive never visited the ones on oxford street only Sydney City Steam on Hickson Road near China Town , gets a good mixed crowd and lots of Asian guys who are my attraction , Havent been there the last year or so with all this covid crap going on and hope to get back soon , I was a little bit like you didn't start to fill my boots until 35 but have certainly made up for it the last 15 years. have never caught any STD's going to this sauna , seems like guys going to saunas are more likely to test often than just random guys you hook up on apps. I spent 16 hours at City Steam once and have had some great encounters. They also have suds night , towel free night and blackout on one level , blackout and suds seem to be free for all and can be a real orgy of guys hands all over everyone.
Relax and enjoy the moment of being with another man , its a wonderful thing.
I havent tried any other place yet besides Sydney Sauna @ Oxford. My mates recommended it as it had a diverse group of customers and apparently I fit in the high tier taste of sydney gays .

16 hrs in one place is intense! Do u get a return ticket for when you need to go out to eat or run errands? The different theme nights are nice, but the blackout is scary for me hahaha.

X did tell me if I was keen on getting together with some of his super hot friends for an orgy.. but that he just wanted to show me off .

I've heard of 357 Sydney City Steam, and that it has a lot of asians due to bring located near chinatown. There's also Aarows in the west, with a bit more westie demographic, but is apparently not as clean as the others.

Looking to check these out in the near future and report back on my experiences.
 
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Any recommendations for saunas that have a lot of masc/muscular men? I'm mostly into white/aussie blokes so 357 is not my scene at all.
Sydney Sauna on Oxford St is pretty much the go to if you wna meet aussie blokes, there's all types there, bears, twinks, jocks, wolves, cubs, etc.

Note that there are also some asians looking for the same thing there so you will have to be a little more aggressive to get their attention.

It tends to start getting busy around 12am and starts to die down around 7am on weekends.
 

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Thanks! Do you see a lot of aussie blokes hooking up with the asians or is it a big competition among the asians for the white guys' attention?

I wonder if a hot white jock would pay me any attention.
I can't really answer that question as I dont pay much attention to what other men are doing.. I tend to have my hands full myself.

If you happen to be there at the right time, there tends to be some good looking, discrete tradies looking to get sucked off and not much more.
 

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I havent tried any other place yet besides Sydney Sauna @ Oxford. My mates recommended it as it had a diverse group of customers and apparently I fit in the high tier taste of sydney gays .

16 hrs in one place is intense! Do u get a return ticket for when you need to go out to eat or run errands? The different theme nights are nice, but the blackout is scary for me hahaha.

X did tell me if I was keen on getting together with some of his super hot friends for an orgy.. but that he just wanted to show me off .

I've heard of 357 Sydney City Steam, and that it has a lot of asians due to bring located near chinatown. There's also Aarows in the west, with a bit more westie demographic, but is apparently not as clean as the others.

Looking to check these out in the near future and report back on my experiences.
What the fork do you mean by "high tier" of Sydney gays? What a ridiculous statement‽
If you've never been to any of the other saunas, how do you know that Sydney Sauna is the best place to meet "Aussie guys" (read; caucasian) ?

357, Trade and Aarows have just as many "Aussie" guys, and 357 is arguably busier more often and more consistently than Sydney Sauna. It's proximity to Chinatown doesn't mean it's mostly Asian guys, it just means they're more likely to go there. It's also the closes sauna to the inner west, Pyrmont, the rest of the City and Major Public Transport hubs.

Sydney Sauna and 357 are absolutely on par, and, if you ask around, many will have had consistently good (or bad) experiences at each.
Sydney Sauna is the new entrant to the market and relies solely on proximity to the strip and the same good management that makes Melbourne's Wet on Wellington a success. It's clean, generally well maintained and close to the gay scene.

357 is very well established and you can absolutely bank on good numbers Thursday and Friday Lunch and Sunday afternoon. They're so confident they put it on their website. It's also very clean and very well maintained, with staff regularly cleaning and happy to take info on anything that needs fixing.

I've been to, and regularly attend 357 and Sydney Sauna, with occasional visits to trade and arrows.
The latter are definitely not your scene based on what you've written. But I suggest you at least head to 357 on a Sunday afternoon if you want to see another busy sauna with a horny, diverse crowd. You might be surprised at how many "Aussie guys" are there.

Sydney Sauna has inherited the default sauna status for Oxford gays who no longer have the option of Bodyline and that's based on proximity to the strip / district only.

I'd you want to write objectively and give advice to others, I recommend you at least visit other venues before passing off one over the other with comments like "pretty much the go to if you wna meet aussie blokes"
 

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Aarows I would also add is quite difficult to get to if you don’t have a car.
What the fork do you mean by "high tier" of Sydney gays? What a ridiculous statement‽
If you've never been to any of the other saunas, how do you know that Sydney Sauna is the best place to meet "Aussie guys" (read; caucasian) ?

357, Trade and Aarows have just as many "Aussie" guys, and 357 is arguably busier more often and more consistently than Sydney Sauna. It's proximity to Chinatown doesn't mean it's mostly Asian guys, it just means they're more likely to go there. It's also the closes sauna to the inner west, Pyrmont, the rest of the City and Major Public Transport hubs.

Sydney Sauna and 357 are absolutely on par, and, if you ask around, many will have had consistently good (or bad) experiences at each.
Sydney Sauna is the new entrant to the market and relies solely on proximity to the strip and the same good management that makes Melbourne's Wet on Wellington a success. It's clean, generally well maintained and close to the gay scene.

357 is very well established and you can absolutely bank on good numbers Thursday and Friday Lunch and Sunday afternoon. They're so confident they put it on their website. It's also very clean and very well maintained, with staff regularly cleaning and happy to take info on anything that needs fixing.

I've been to, and regularly attend 357 and Sydney Sauna, with occasional visits to trade and arrows.
The latter are definitely not your scene based on what you've written. But I suggest you at least head to 357 on a Sunday afternoon if you want to see another busy sauna with a horny, diverse crowd. You might be surprised at how many "Aussie guys" are there.

Sydney Sauna has inherited the default sauna status for Oxford gays who no longer have the option of Bodyline and that's based on proximity to the strip / district only.

I'd you want to write objectively and give advice to others, I recommend you at least visit other venues before passing off one over the other with comments like "pretty much the go to if you wna meet aussie blokes"

What happened to Bodyline been ages since I visited there?
 

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Aarows I would also add is quite difficult to get to if you don’t have a car.


What happened to Bodyline been ages since I visited there?
Yeah that's fair, and its target market isn't city gays generally because of its location and lack of of transport.

Bodyline shut early in the pandemic and posted they were closed until further notice in Jan 2021.
Most rumours are that it's been sold off with Arq for redevelopment. But all listings show as permanantly closed and their socials / website appear abandoned.
 

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Weeknights around 6pm? But what time during the day is good for weeknights and fridays?
357: Thursday and Friday from 12-2pm are busy, feel free to get a pass out on Friday and head back around 7-8pm
~ Weekends: Sunday afternoon from about 3 is very busy. This is when the currently cancelled foam party us usually on.

Sydney Sauna: Busy Friday night, Saturday night from about 9-10 pm. I've never been on a weekday but assume the pandemic and bodyline / signal closing permanently may have given weeknights a boost.
 
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After a long night of drinks and dancing in the city (my first time in a gay club as well.. where every few minutes some random guy or girl will ask me to show my abs or take my shirt off), my mates thought it would be good to jump into the sauna. This was now 2am on a sunday morning.

We went to sydney sauna (oxford st) and saw there was a line, around 6-7 people long. They all eyed us with a few of them lingering at me.. this time I was a bit more confident so I stared at the one who i thought was attractive and winked. He smiled and turned to face the front.

When I got to the counter, I handed my licence to the guy doing check-ins, only to head him say "wow you're cuuuuute", and the rest of the people from his side come out to have a look at me "you're gonna be busy" they said. I just had a smirk on my face as I walked in, I was feeling hella confident this time around.

A bit about me. I'm 100kg, 6' tall, a hefty amount of muscle and around 8% body fat. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week as I found it an amazing way to manage stress and anxiety. 5 years ago i got into a bad car accident, I was 30kg overweight and fell into depression. Fastforward to now, and that's me in my profile pic. Apparently I have a lethal smile too so it helps, and being part euro, part asian definitely is a plus.

I walked into the change area to look for my locker, and there quite a few guys in there getting ready. Im guessing it was because they just finished a long saturday night of partying and want a sexy night cap before heading back home. Some of them stared at me and I nodded in return.

I walked into the main area, noting people were turning and staring as I walked by. At this time I had a pretty good muscle pump going from the dancing and lifting random people jumping onto my arms, so i looked pretty big I guess.

I jumped straight into the steam sauna and could make out around 3 or 4 guys grouped in a corner sucking each other off. I knew I wasnt gna be able to unwind in here so I walked back out and into the dry sauna, where there is only one other guy. I didnt make eye contact as I walked in, but he kept staring. He was good looking but I wasnt looking to get right into it this early into the session, so I closed my eyes and chilled for a bit, and sensed that he's moved right next to me. I opened my eyes and smiled at him and he reached over for a kiss. We made out for a bit then as he reached into my towel, I stopped him and said I just got here and I want to relax. He respected that and walked out of the sauna. I never saw him again that night.

2mins later I jumped out of the dry sauna and into the jacuzzi, and sat a little higher on the corner so I'd have a good vantage point. On one corner there was a group of femme muscle bears chatting and laughing, another corner were a few twinks, and the others looked like bi discrete tradies.

I looked at the staircase heading down into the cruising area and saw a tall, gorgeous anglo twunk walking up. We made eye contact and I smiled. He took this as his invitation to get into the jacuzzi and sat next to me. After a bit of small talk (hey, what's your name, where you from, what's your background), we got into a room and started fucking the brains out of each other for what felt like 40mins. He had this nice smile that appears when I thrust into the right spot and he lets out this small moan.

Now, when I top I like to maintain maximum skin contact, like the classic gay porn I used to grow up with.. I dont get guys who just thrust their cock into another's ass and not do anything else.. so when I was pounding him doggy style, I'd let my chest rest onto his back and hold him closer with one arm while the other supports us.. the sweat and friction magnifies the sensations tremendously. When I got onto my back, I signaled him to fuck me, which he did, and he sucked on my nipples while he did so.. flexible russian men.. am i right?

We didn't finish as the night was too early, so we kissed goodbye. He asked for my insta to keep in contact. Numerous times that night we'd walk past each other and make out before heading our own way.

I got into the showers to cool down and get cleaned up from all the sweat, and another guy came in to do the same. He was gorgeous, and I recognised him from insta, as most of the guys who added me also have him on their list. Some mixed euro-latin dude with a nice beard and a cross-fit body. He looked taller in the photos, must be 5'8" or so in real life.

As we finished showering and dried off, I walked past him and stroked the small of his back to signal my intent. We made eye contact and he smiled in return. Fuckin great smile, I was already into him. We walked past the jacuzzi with my arm around him, and I could sense the stairs as we found a room on the main floor.

What came next was probably one of the best sex encounters of my life. We kissed and foreplayed for about half an hour, and he was as into it as I was. I ate his ass for a bit which he absolutely loved. The view from behind was spectacular.. his ass was well rounded and his back had an amazing v-taper, this man was fit. His cock must have been around 7" with the perfect thickness, and I had a good time sucking him off.. his moans made things even hotter.

We chatted for a bit and got to know each other. He said he'd seen me around the apls and insta but was too shy to swipe right.. that's my excuse. After exhanging details, we got right into it. We were both vers so we had an amazing time flip fucking, hands and feet everywhere, whatever position felt good we could pull off in the room. We were pretty damn loud too.

That whole session took about 90mins, and man were we dehydrated.. we walked out into the lobby to get some water and this guy was even more gorgeous in proper lighting. We just smiled at each other and went off our separate ways after that, unspoken agreement that we had finished things off really well.

As I walked back in, behind the main door there was this well built, irish stud a little shorter than me that pinched my nipples and got my attention. We made out for a bit and looked for a room, but everything was pretty much full so we kept walking. As i turned around, i noticed that he was no longer following me and had started making out with another guy. Oh well, his loss I guess.

It would have been about 5.30am at this time so I had decided to call it quits. I checked my phone back in my locker and saw that my friends had msgd me to say theyve left.. i was the designated driver and I knew this meant they found guys to go home with for the night. The guy with whom I had the hot encounter earlier had also added me on insta.. so much thirst trap photos, and 15k+ followers too (which to me is a big deal, compared to my 100 or so followers.. i had only started using insta a few months earlier).

I decided to do one last circuit on the floor before leaving, and as I walked into the floor, someone tapped my shoulder from behind. There I saw this gorgeous man, same height as me, well built with nice chest hair, mohawked with a short mullet and a really nice beard and moustache.. I smiled and stared into his eyes, and we both just looked at each other, and knew it was gonna be a good night. Let's call him "X".

We started making out on the spot and man was it hot, he knew how I liked it and we just kept going, while I had him up against the wall. During this time a crowd had started to gather around touching us which was a huge turn off. He told them to go away and we went to look for a room downstairs.. eventually after a bit of searching we found a smallish room. And we continued kissing on top of each other on the bed.

X had a really husky voice which turned me on as he said that he got there at 5am after he finished work and saw me. He was about to walk up to me when he saw me with another guy (the same one that ditched me), and wrote it off as a loss and was about to leave til he saw me again. I found this really hot and a bit stalkerish, i just told him I'm glad I didnt spend time with the other guy so I got to meet him. We continued to make out some more, and proceeded to kiss every part of esch other's bodies. This was probably about 40mins of kissing and foreplay, and no cockplay, when we found that we were both rly thirsty. I told him I'd go get some water.. he looked worried for a moment as he thought I might ditch him. I kissed him and asked him to come with me instead, he started blushing and walked out of the room, holding my hand.

What came after was unexpected. A lot of guys knew him.. i was worried as this meant he might have been a regular mansult. He said he's good mates with the guy who manages the place, and that he works in the gay scene on the side, and these guys are his workmates. He would talk with some of them and i'd stand there quietly smiling with his arm around my waist. These men would stare at me and smile at him and say "wow, you did find him! He's cute" Im guessing he told them what happened earlier too. X started kissing me and they told us to get out of there as we're ruining their chances.

We went out to the lobby and got some gatorade and water from the bar. He had his arms around me the whole time and the men-folk were staring. It felt satisfying and so hot. Around this time the irish bloke walked out and saw me, but i didnt interact.

After we got the drinks, we found a bigger room together and chilled for a bit. He rested his head on my chest and we started talking about our lives, what we do, family, work, etc. My life is a sob story but i felt comfortable telling him a light version.. he responded with teary eyes and gave me a tight hug.

From there we continued making out, and got into 69 position. This guy's cock was gorgeous.. uncut, 8", perfect thickness for my mouth. He seemed really into mine either.. we didnt talk for a while and just kept going.. after that he got back on top of me and asked if I was top or bottom. I responded vers and he said perfect, me too. Then i asked him to bend over and proceeded to eat his ass. Man, his moans were fucking hot, and his ass was smooth. He's a very fit man so i had no issues going down on him. After that i put on a condom and some lube and started to get into it.

X's moans drove me wild as I slowly slid into him.. i had to control myself as to not hurt him by rushing into it. When he got comfortable, I started to slowly thrust in and out, and laid on top of his chest, while he wrapped his legs around my back. We continued to make out in this position and man it was intense. I turned him over onto his chest and continued to fuck him, and he got into an upright position while i had my arms around his chest and neck, he looked over his shoulder and made out with me. This is probably my new favourite position.. i wonder what it was called.

We both started to get light headed and took a quick break. We drank some of our drinks and he asked me how regularly i get tested. I responded every 3 months and i'm on prep. He said me too and asked if I minded bareback.. i said i didnt mind so he peeled off my condom and started sucking me off.

We were together for a while, and to cut the long story short.. this was the first time i've ever experienced a handsfree anal orgasm while being fucked by a guy. He just knew how to listen to what made me feel good, and was observant on what worked and what didn't.

X finished inside me while in missionary position and afterwards we both just laid there, catching our breath and twitching from the intense orgasm. He told me that he was really happy that he found me again tonight, and asked if i wanted to meet him outside for a date another time. I of course said yes.. i didn't think i'd make this sort of connection in a gay spa, but i'm not about to pass up an opportunity like this for feeble reasons.

He said he wanted to take a shower with me, we walked to the open showers, turned on the water and started making out some more. After some time he whispered into my ears that we had an audience. I turned around and saw 4 to 5 guys staring at us, one of them his mate from work smiling and shaking his head.

So i faced him against the wall and started to eat his ass.. it was fucking hot, he was moaning loudly, the water was nice and warm, and i didnt care that i couldnt breathe properly. He then proceeded to suck me off and we both continued to put on a show. After a bit of time we dried off and he talked with some of his friends, introseduced me to them and said I was a keeper. They all smiled at me, looked me up and down and said "yeah he is".. then they told him to be cautious as they saw his ex walking around and he's still here. They told me it was a bad breakup and his ex is the jealous type, even though theyre no longer together.

I asked him if he'd be ok, and that I should go before things got awkward but it was too late. This short, muscle latin guy walked up to the group and things got awkwsrd with everyone. At this point my new mate still has his arm around me and his ex saw that too.

I told them Im gonna go get changed, stared at X and he nodded. As I walked off, he whispered in my ear to please wait for him outside. I got dressed, didnt bother looking at any other guys and walked out into the lobby. The guy managing the place who's also X's good friend told me a little about what happened, and told me not to worry, he's a good person, and that I should wait.

I waited a bit outside, it was already 7.30am and the whole city was lit up by the nice warm sun. After some time X got out and found me, gave me a hug and apologised for the awkwardness. I told him not to worry and that he didnt need to explain, we just met and he wasnt obliged to say anything. I told him it was nice meeting him, but he cut me off saying he was serious about wanting to see me more. I blushed at this point, i wasnt prepared for this but it felt nice.

I asked him if he wanted a lift home, and he said it would be nice. In the car he started to explain what happened in the relationship and how it broke down due to the stresses of covid, and that they were coworkers which made it awkward. I stayed quiet and listened as I pulled up in front of his place. He got my phone and saved his details, and opened my insta and followed his profile. This guy had 30k+ followers and has a presence in the sydney gay scene, which was overwhelming to me. He took a selfie photo of both of us in the car afterwards.

He asked if I wanted to stay for a nap, but I had brunch commitments so I had to refuse. He then said to make sure to keep in contact and that he wants to continue speaking with me. That afternoon some of my gay mates from insta blew up my inbox as X had posted a story with me in it saying "made a new friend". They wanted to hear all the goss. Maybe I should just tell them to come here and read about it.

It's been a few weeks since then, and he's the first message i see in the morning, and the last i see before i go to sleep. We've chatted on facetime but have both been unable to line up our schedules to meet up for a proper date, but we're still hopeful.

I didnt think i'd meet someone like that in a sauna, but whatever works right? He would definitely been a 10/10 for me but his current baggage made it difficult for me to suss out if he's just on the rebound or genuine about wanting to see me, not just as a sexy piece of ass.

Every now and then he'd joke about meeting up after work at d same time in the sauna to make everyone jealous and put on a show.. i actually wouldn't mind aye, hehehe.

That sums up my second sauna experience.. came in for some action, walked out with something a bit more substantial.


So glad that you not only had a hot experience at that place but also seemed to have come away with quite a nice prospect for getting to know! Excellent!!
 

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So glad that you not only had a hot experience at that place but also seemed to have come away with quite a nice prospect for getting to know! Excellent!!
Yeah, I know it feels like one in a million, but i’m guessing it’s the same as meeting someone on grindr and hitting it up from there.

For NY day they finally reopened the 3rd floor of Sydney Sauna and had a DJ pumping out tunes on the orgy floor. The owner had asked X and I to dance and perform a few sets from around 11pm to 3am that night and it was pretty damn fun.

Between sets we’d chill in the jacuzzi and bring someone back to our private room for a bit of fun.

If any of you were there that night then you would have probably met me