Auto Erotic?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by leanman2, Aug 20, 2007.

  1. leanman2

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    Years ago, I read that the writer Paul Bowles said that he was "auto erotic" and he explained that this meant his sexual energy was centered around himself and then sort of radiated out to other people. The minute I read this, I knew it sort of explained how I experienced sex...like it really starts inside of me and then I share it with others.

    But in talking to some of my friends and brother, it's clear that they are more "other erotic"...meaning that for them, sex is really focused on wanting others or getting others or fucking others. It's hard to explain, but I think you are in one camp or the other.

    Sometimes, I think having a bigger dick can move you into the "auto erotic" camp, not sure...just a thought...
     
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