Autoerotic asphyxiation

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I like a bit of autoerotic asphyxiation from time to time. I'm strong enough that I can just hold a belt around my neck without looping it through the buckle, so I'm sure it's perfectly safe when I do it. I have a few questions to anyone else who likes this activity.

Is there anything special you do to heighten the experience even further?

Also, when David Carradine's corpse was found hanging in that Bangkok hotel closet, he had wrope tied around his neck, genitals, and wrist. The neck and genitals, I understand. But why the wrist? Anybody have some insight on this?

Thanks ^_^
 

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I like a bit of autoerotic asphyxiation from time to time. I'm strong enough that I can just hold a belt around my neck without looping it through the buckle, so I'm sure it's perfectly safe when I do it. I have a few questions to anyone else who likes this activity.

Is there anything special you do to heighten the experience even further?

Also, when David Carradine's corpse was found hanging in that Bangkok hotel closet, he had wrope tied around his neck, genitals, and wrist. The neck and genitals, I understand. But why the wrist? Anybody have some insight on this?

Thanks ^_^
I've highlighted the important word for you.
 

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I like a bit of autoerotic asphyxiation from time to time. I'm strong enough that I can just hold a belt around my neck without looping it through the buckle, so I'm sure it's perfectly safe when I do it. I have a few questions to anyone else who likes this activity.

Is there anything special you do to heighten the experience even further?

Also, when David Carradine's corpse was found hanging in that Bangkok hotel closet, he had wrope tied around his neck, genitals, and wrist. The neck and genitals, I understand. But why the wrist? Anybody have some insight on this?

Thanks ^_^


I think you missed a more important one. :wink:
 

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N2O works better for by yourself...
http://www.goodasgold.com/catalog/images/silver whip cream dispenser.jpg
ez-whips and you get the same high but it is safer.
(imo)

erotoasphyxia is safest preformed with a lover who has CPR training.
not a prostitute or a pornstar.

i preform it kinda regularly with my gf,i use gasmasks though.

(not rope or string,or plastic bags.lol.)

:smile:
 

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What the hell! You don't like watching horses mate. You don't choke yourself for sexual gratification. Next you'll tell me that you've never dresses up as a fox and had sex with someone in a leopard costume! What are you, some kind of prude?!
 

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When I worked as a mortician, I handled funerals on two different occasions for people who died of autoerotic asphyxiation. Both cases were terrible for the families who had to not only deal with the death of their son/husband/uncle, but also with the humiliation of how the men died.

In both cases, the men were alone (one man was travelling on business), and obviously, the pleasure went awry. In one case, the man was not found until the day after he died. In the other case, the man was found with a belt around his neck, tied to the door handle, a porno magazine in one hand and his dick in his other. When we got him at the funeral home, he was already in rigor mortis and his hand was formed into a closed fist. We worked to try to get his hand to loosen up a little, but it was obvious which hand he was jacking with when he died.

Anyone who tries this is gambling with their life. It's stupid, it's unsafe, and is inviting a fatal orgasm. I don't think these people die happy, I think they probably die in a state of confusion and panic, and in some cases, probably terror as they can't get out of their nooses.
 

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*SNIP* Anyone who tries this is gambling with their life. It's stupid, it's unsafe, and is inviting a fatal orgasm. I don't think these people die happy, I think they probably die in a state of confusion and panic, and in some cases, probably terror as they can't get out of their nooses.
QFT! There are many fetish acts in which I choose not to participate because I find them vile or disgusting; but to me autoerotic asphyxiation is just stupid. IMHO - If you have to cut off the flow of oxygen to your brain to enjoy sex, there is something wrong with you and you need to seek professional help. :yup:
 

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If you're going to do it, don't do it alone. Something can happen regardless of how "strong" you are or whether you're using wrope or a belt.
 

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I don't think you understand. I don't hang myself.

I sit in front of my computer, watch porn, and masturbate with my right hand. In my left hand, I hold a doubled-over belt. I put my neck in the loop of this doubled over belt, pull it tight, and apply additional pressure by squeezing the two pieces of belt in my left fist.

Were I to pass out, I would let go of the belt and regain the ability to breathe.

I only mention my strength because I don't think that most people could comfortably hold a strap tightly enough in one hand to get the strangling effect while still being able to concentrate on the task at hand. I presume that's why people resort to hanging themselves.

Sorry if I didn't make that clear enough in the original post. This was not intended to be a thread about whether or not hanging yourself is dangerous.
 

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N2O works better for by yourself...
http://www.goodasgold.com/catalog/images/silver%20whip%20cream%20dispenser.jpg
ez-whips and you get the same high but it is safer.
(imo)

erotoasphyxia is safest preformed with a lover who has CPR training.
not a prostitute or a pornstar.

i preform it kinda regularly with my gf,i use gasmasks though.

(not rope or string,or plastic bags.lol.)

:smile:
You're my favorite. :biggrin1:
While I do not go that far, a hand wrapped around my throat with a little squeeze as I near orgasm feels very nice.
 

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I sit in front of my computer, watch porn, and masturbate with my right hand. In my left hand, I hold a doubled-over belt. I put my neck in the loop of this doubled over belt, pull it tight, and apply additional pressure by squeezing the two pieces of belt in my left fist.

Were I to pass out, I would let go of the belt and regain the ability to breathe.
It's much easier to simply hold your breath, and won't leave welts or hickeys on your neck. The effect is the same.
 

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A thought to all.

There are members here who have experienced this act either first or second hand. Some results have been positive, others have been negative. I personally feel that gambling with one's life, in order to receive some form of sexual outcome is risky beyond consideration. You may think you are in control, only to lose control in the heat of the moment.

OP, please take the time to consider this, and if at all possible, find a better way to explore yourself sexually, as there doesn't need to be another person who goes too far. It's not fair to their family and friends.
 

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I never thought I'd say this, but "can't y'all just stick with scat and watersports." :confused: I may not want to party with you but that doesn't mean I want you to die. :frown1:


Autoerotic asphyxiation is NOT safe!

 

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It's much easier to simply hold your breath, and won't leave welts or hickeys on your neck. The effect is the same.


It may be different for others, but I find that it's the actual flow of oxygenated blood to my brain that enhances my pleasure. Squeezing the arteries, not closing the windpipe, is what does it for me.

And it's really hard to hold my breath for that long.



And for those who express concern for my safety:

"Autoerotic asphyxiation, or AEA, is typically performed in the following way: A man... loops a belt or rope around his neck, attaches the other end to a door knob or pipe, and lowers himself into a controlled suspension. Sex or masturbation ensues. The pressure from the belt cuts off the flow of blood through the veins in his neck, causing blood to congest in the brain. Oxygen levels drop and carbon dioxide levels increase, producing lightheadedness and, for some, intensifying erotic pleasure.
When death occurs, it's usually because of pressure on a part of the neck called the carotid body, a small cluster of chemoreceptors located near the fork of the carotid artery. Pressure on the carotid body causes a discharge from the vagus nerve. This slows down the heart and can make a person pass out instantaneously. (That's why karate chops and the Vulcan nerve pinch target the vagus nerve.) Losing consciousness causes the person to go limp, which tightens the choke and decreases circulation through the neck arteries, causing asphyxiation. Rarely is there enough pressure to block the windpipe—rather, it's the lack of blood flow that causes death."


Considering that, as I have stated twice, I do NOT hang myself, but rather use pressure from my own grip (which would be loosened as my body went limp in the event of my passing out), can you tell me what is unsafe about this activity for me?

Thanks for the concern, btw... I guess? But back to David Carradine. Why did he have the wrope tied around his wrist???
 
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