Average and Below Average Guys: How did you make peace with your penis size and overcome envy/insecurity.

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Lately I've been experiencing some deep disdain for my penis size (I'm roughly 5-6 inches) and it's led to me having a lot of penis envy and jealously toward guys that are well-hung. It feels unfair quite frankly. It's like some guys hit the genetic lottery (big dick, great body, great face) and others like myself lost out in every department. Any tips for overcoming this, especially in a gay community that is becoming increasingly driven by looks and physical attributes?
Dude, truuust meee woman are more critical they just are more emotional and won't say it to your face. They don't want to hurt our feelings. As far as getting over it, you won't. Its like having a deep ass scar on your face that will never go away. Sure you can have all the confidence in the world but it won't cure our small penises. All we can do is pump it till we cope. It is what it is. It sucks cause we all want to be big. Even big guys wanna be bigger. Its stupid but it's something most of us can't help. I flip flop between accepting it and down right drinking myself silly to forget about it.
 
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When I was younger I lied a lot about my dick size and had mixed feelings of jealousy and admiration for better hung guys.

I had a gay friend the same age as me, whom I was jealous of. He was more successful than me in life (work, friends, love), he was more good-looking, and of course he had a bigger cock, about 19cm, even if he was not at all cocky about it. I was a bit taller than him but I didn't see that as an advantage.

So, to save face, I lied about many things, including dick size.
In fact, I lied so much about the size of my dick that until today I was sure it was 17cm. I hadn't measured it since I was 20, and it happens to be closer to 15cm. But when I learned the 'news' today, I didn't make a big deal out of it. I waited until I was 31 to know the real size. :p

I don't know what changed but I lost the feeling of jealousy to keep only that of admiration for men better built than me. As a gay man, it seems easier.
 
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When I was younger I lied a lot about my dick size and had mixed feelings of jealousy and admiration for better hung guys.

I had a gay friend the same age as me, whom I was jealous of. He was more successful than me in life (work, friends, love), he was more good-looking, and of course he had a bigger cock, about 19cm, even if he was not at all cocky about it. I was a bit taller than him but I didn't see that as an advantage.

So, to save face, I lied about many things, including dick size.
In fact, I lied so much about the size of my dick that until today I was sure it was 17cm. I hadn't measured it since I was 20, and it happens to be closer to 15cm. But when I learned the 'news' today, I didn't make a big deal out of it. I waited until I was 31 to know the real size. :p

I don't know what changed but I lost the feeling of jealousy to keep only that of admiration for men better built than me. As a gay man, it seems easier.
That's the worst thing you can do to yourself man. I used to measure from the side. Put the ruler way beside my cock an even beneath to measure bigger. I even used to push it so deep into my fupa that it would draw blood damn near. Properly measured on top...it's less than 5.5 inches. It truly sucks out in the real world. Average is NOT AVERAGE.
 
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As far as sex goes, I love my size. Even though it is in the 10th percentile. But I do sometimes wish I had a big dick to show off in the locker rooms and make other guys feel inferior. I have enough confidence to not feel inferior any more, but I have been with big dicked guys at showers, bath houses, gyms etc, and I would like to know what it's like if the tables were turned.
 
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