Average and Smaller Guys

[fortiesfun]

The question was not direct at me, I know Fortiesfun..but I do feel indirectly affected by large penis "dilemas" pointed by LP and as a woman member of this board I do feel being descriminated as some big penis owner here may feel...and even more so because some feels its ok to come here desmiss, despise and disrespect women personal preferences for big sizes penis.

You can answer any question of mine any time you want, Gisella, and I'll never take offense. :wink: In this case, I was just teasing LPD a bit about how hard it is to get the right people to take offense at things. All the wrong ones feel guilty, and typically, the ones you are aiming for don't even realize they are being targeted.

Plus, though I am not record setting, I feel comfortably on the right size of wanting large penises respected, which I inevitably do myself!

 

[Magic 8]

The ones that kill me are the ones that ask "How Big Do You Think I Am?" and then attach a picture of themselves witout andthing to use as a point of reference. Use a fricking tape measure and find out for your self and then just tell us because for the most part we don't care how big you are. And then there's the "Please Rate My Dick @ such-N-such site" I'm listed under so-N-so name. Give us a break, if you want to show your dick, post a picture here.

Also roosevelt, I too wish mine was a normal size at times, but then I don't know if life would be as much fun.

 

[Mobydick]

Gisella

I am new to this place (hi to all!) but would agree to your sentiments and would hope that women like yourself are welcome here. After all If you have a large one then the best scenario is that there are women who enjoy them. And I second the comments regarding negativity, we are her for fun after all. I am nervous about the term size queen, with its negative associations but in my view there is nothing wrong with the idea, you can still be a nice person and like big cocks. But then again some horrible people could be size queens too. Cood luck to you.

 

[b.c.]

Are you being racist?

LOL... racist?? Me? Heavens forbid... No, I think it's called:

fa-ce-tious: intended to be humorous but often silly or inappropriate; not to be taken seriously. syn. tongue in cheek

(I don't know about you, but I'm not about to lose a lot of sleep over who posts here or what they have to say. Plenty enuf room for all I think.)

 

[Ethyl]

MZ and Gisella, I couldn't have said it better. I guess there's a place for the small penis humiliation here if that's what some guys enjoy, however, I don't. It bothers me when those who do take offense at my refusal to participate. It's my choice. I don't understand the desire to be humiliated and find it disturbing; therefore, I won't participate.

 

[Principessa]

Originally Posted by madame_zora

I've used this analogy before, but maybe it's time again. I wouldn't take my 175 pound ethnic looking self on to a Swedish Bikini model website then cry because people weren't fascinated by my fat brown ass. Please, just realise where you are, and act accordingly.
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That is the perfect analogy.

We're all here for a variety of reasons. The only requisite largesse is between your ears.
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I may offend here, but begging for someone to humiliate your small penis on a large penis support site. It's kind of like me looking for a husband at a gay bar. WTF?!?
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[b.c.]

I think he is poofter:smile: He speaks comlete tosh...............

No, I think maybe you're the "poofter"..."mate". I'm not on here whining about the extra large condoms I gotta buy, or my tragic search for big enough undies, or my poor aching back from carrying around all that extra weight. I got a big dick and never had "back problems" from the weight of it. Get real.

 

[Hatched69]

edit by H69
Several points:


4) ALL average size guys are insecure about their dick size. MOST of the large guys are too.

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I disagree with this. I am quite comfortable with my 6.5" X 6" and really don't give a flying fart if anyone else laughs at or loves it. It's mine, what I was was born with and I'll live with it until I die. It functions properly when needed, so what more could I ask in this world of Viagra-induced erections? There are bigger and there are smaller. Being "average" doesn't make me "less" of a man.

 

[madame_zora]

I disagree with this. I am quite comfortable with my 6.5" X 6" and really don't give a flying fart if anyone else laughs at or loves it. It's mine, what I was was born with and I'll live with it until I die. It functions properly when needed, so what more could I ask in this world of Viagra-induced erections? There are bigger and there are smaller. Being "average" doesn't make me "less" of a man.

Yes, I regretted the wording of that after I posted it. There are some men who are comfortable in their own skin, sadly they are not frequently the ones we women hear from, at least here. I hope you and many others like you will post more about being confident and comfortable enough to be in the company of larger guys without feeling the need to be defensive, I think that's all we are all saying.

I also don't feel like less of a woman because I am not a size 5, in that respect I am an "average" American woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't hate myself because I am a bigger size, there are plenty of real men who find my size attractive. The ones who do not simply have different preferences, and it's not an insult to me. I am also not blonde, short, white, or some of the other things some men prefer, so I find the ones who like what I have and go on with my life. I'm glad you agree in regard to what you were born with. Plenty of people will like what you've got, especially if you do!

 

[Lex]

I disagree with this. I am quite comfortable with my 6.5" X 6" and really don't give a flying fart if anyone else laughs at or loves it. It's mine, what I was was born with and I'll live with it until I die. It functions properly when needed, so what more could I ask in this world of Viagra-induced erections? There are bigger and there are smaller. Being "average" doesn't make me "less" of a man.

I am SO glad you said this. Being comfy in your own skin is key. As a larger guy, guys here often expect me to be wowed by cock size and I am not. I am wowed by HEART. I am not, nor will I ever be a size king. I have had my brains fucked out of my head by men with 5" and 6" cocks and it was awesome. I have also been with hung dudes who would not know how to pleasurably fuck if you gave them hand-over-hand guidance.
Dick size is not as big a deal as dick USE. Give me 5.5-6" that is used well over 10" that are clueless ANYday.

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I also don't feel like less of a woman because I am not a size 5, in that respect I am an "average" American woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't hate myself because I am a bigger size, there are plenty of real men who find my size attractive. The ones who do not simply have different preferences, and it's not an insult to me. I am also not blonde, short, white, or some of the other things some men prefer, so I find the ones who like what I have and go on with my life. I'm glad you agree in regard to what you were born with. Plenty of people will like what you've got, especially if you do!

You are, in fact, MORE of a woman since you do not give into the socialized view of what all "pretty" women should look like in order to love youself. The men that prefer you are called independent thinkers and I am sure than you, of all people, appreciate that a hell of a lot!

This this is in stuff is all bullshit. Why do men want women who look like little prepubescent boys? Marilyn Monroe was a sexy as size 16. Blame Twiggy.

 

[elf]

No, I think maybe you're the "poofter"..."mate". I'm not on here whining about the extra large condoms I gotta buy, or my tragic search for big enough undies, or my poor aching back from carrying around all that extra weight. I got a big dick and never had "back problems" from the weight of it. Get real.

For anyone unfamiliar with the term, "poofter" means gay and, in Britain, Australia & NZ at least, has the same tone as "faggot" does in the USA.

If you're going to insult each other, please find a different way of doing it. I'm not acting like the gay thought police here but you'd think twice about calling someone a "nigger" wouldn't you? Same thing.

 

[b.c.]

For anyone unfamiliar with the term, "poofter" means gay and, in Britain, Australia & NZ at least, has the same tone as "faggot" does in the USA.

If you're going to insult each other, please find a different way of doing it. I'm not acting like the gay thought police here but you'd think twice about calling someone a "nigger" wouldn't you? Same thing.

I know what the term means, which is why I found it objectionable, and I agree with you wholeheartedly. But I wasn't the one who used it, wasn't I? I merely suggested that perhaps he was referring to himself.


Let me tell you what my beef is with this thread. I find much of it disingenuous. Some of it smacks of elitism, and I hate elitist bullshit.

The essence of what I got from it is that some have tired of suffering the burden of those regular to average sized guys who "persist" on this site by "whining" about their size, seeking compliments and reassurance, and/or berating larger sized guys. Then the criticism is followed by whining of their own about the horrors of being larger than average, and how insensitive the world has been to our plight (give me a break). One even goes so far as to state that he sometimes wishes he were average sized. In a pig's eye.

I don't think there's anything wrong with average sized guys frequenting the site, in seeking validation or reassurance from others. Then when a few of them were (understandably) put off by the tone of the thread and expressed concern whether or not they were the cause of it, they had to be reassured that all was well.

Why should they be put in the position of having to seek our benevolence? Are we really "all that?" Are we really that put upon to have to suffer the postings of those who are merely trying to relate? Our world so small, our time so valuable? I think I'm going to go now cause I'm starting to get pissed...

 

[Mr. Snakey]

No, I think maybe you're the "poofter"..."mate". I'm not on here whining about the extra large condoms I gotta buy, or my tragic search for big enough undies, or my poor aching back from carrying around all that extra weight. I got a big dick and never had "back problems" from the weight of it. Get real.

Take what i said my friend with a grain of salt. I have crazy sense of humor. Im sorry if i offended you. As for me and my whinning about back problems and condoms and shopping for underware its all true. There are many more posts about problems such as mine. We have a whole section on here just devoted to underware and condoms. This is what this site is about. I am real and yes i can be poofter too. I suffered for years with balance disorder because of it. Only till the reading on my own about the poe of the penis did the problems stop. Im glad you have never had problems such as mine. I have known Lp for a while now and have found him to be a first class gent.. Your type is the one he is talking about. Insulting to the larger members and making them feel unwelcome. I think there is room for big and small and inbetween and we should respect eachother. My friend i have been called ugly, a nigger, a fake, liar etc. There is nothing you can say to me that will even phase me. Also by way i thought poofter meant crazy........

 

[Gisella]

I know what the term means, which is why I found it objectionable, and I agree with you wholeheartedly. But I wasn't the one who used it, wasn't I? I merely suggested that perhaps he was referring to himself.


Let me tell you what my beef is with this thread. I find much of it disingenuous. Some of it smacks of elitism, and I hate elitist bullshit.

The essence of what I got from it is that some have tired of suffering the burden of those regular to average sized guys who "persist" on this site by "whining" about their size, seeking compliments and reassurance, and/or berating larger sized guys. Then the criticism is followed by whining of their own about the horrors of being larger than average, and how insensitive the world has been to our plight (give me a break). One even goes so far as to state that he sometimes wishes he were average sized. In a pig's eye.

I don't think there's anything wrong with average sized guys frequenting the site, in seeking validation or reassurance from others. Then when a few of them were (understandably) put off by the tone of the thread and expressed concern whether or not they were the cause of it, they had to be reassured that all was well.

Why should they be put in the position of having to seek our benevolence? Are we really "all that?" Are we really that put upon to have to suffer the postings of those who are merely trying to relate? Our world so small, our time so valuable? I think I'm going to go now cause I'm starting to get pissed...

If you think is elitist bullshit for sure at least to me you dont get it or know what we are really talking about.

You may even are not here a lot and participating in the threads were what LP asks if he makes sense, he does make sense to us that are around specific situations going on.

Just search the "Small penis humilliation" treads because there are more than one and check...at least what I'm talking about about agressive, bitter etc averages, small penis guys who may come here. And why some of us are tired of those crap.


http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/...ation.html?highlight=small+penis+humilliation

 

[b.c.]

If you think is elitist bullshit for sure at least to me you dont get it or know what we are really talking about.

You may even are not here a lot and participating in the threads were what LP asks if he makes sense, he does make sense to us that are around specific situations going on.

Just search the "Small penis humilliation" treads because there are more than one and check...at least what I'm talking about about agressive, bitter etc averages, small penis guys who may come here. And why some of us are tired of those crap.


http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/...ation.html?highlight=small+penis+humilliation

OKAY. So some are tired of it. Admittedly I never read the thread because I generally don't read threads that are of no interest to me. I've only just read (parts of it) because you referenced it. I stopped reading it the moment I noticed this s**t was like 6 months old (??) Yes, some of the posters are offensive. And he got offended right back. Fair game. Seems the solution now is to turn the page, move on, ignore the posts...

Instead perhaps maybe a few pretty regular posters who've had much to contribute had their feelings hurt or were made to feel unwelcome (whether inadvertently or not) simply because they have average and smaller cocks and post on LPSG.

Was it worth all that?? Am I the only one here who feels this just wasn't right?

 

[Lex]

I have never understood the idea of reading threads and or sections that hold no interest to me. It's like being intellectually self-abusive or something.

 

[Gisella]

OKAY. So some are tired of it. Admittedly I never read the thread because I generally don't read threads that are of no interest to me. I've only just read (parts of it) because you referenced it. I stopped reading it the moment I noticed this s**t was like 6 months old (??) Yes, some of the posters are offensive. And he got offended right back. Fair game. Seems the solution now is to turn the page, move on, ignore the posts...

Instead perhaps maybe a few pretty regular posters who've had much to contribute had their feelings hurt or were made to feel unwelcome (whether inadvertently or not) simply because they have average and smaller cocks and post on LPSG.

Was it worth all that?? Am I the only one here who feels this just wasn't right?

What I have post is about what makes sense to me about LP said...dont know what specifics he has of his own.

They keep poping up, was opened by somebody that was participating in the older one..

http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/43818-small-penis-humiliation.html

Of course the regular well adjusted posters that are small or average will not feel unwelcomed but those who have issues, bc.

You keep forgetting, BC, we are in a large support penis group and as a woman here I dont have to keep explaining why I prefer large penises and that size does matter to me. And while here I dont need to "walk in eggs" as worry to hurt sensitivities because of my preferences...if to some with issues about sizes is so hurtfull to listen women preferences by being here is not me doing any damages but they choose to hurt themselves.

Its worth yes, to talk about issues..if you dont think so sorry, but I hope we talk about this specific issue.

Thank you and goodnight.:wink:

 

[Ethyl]

OKAY. So some are tired of it. Admittedly I never read the thread because I generally don't read threads that are of no interest to me. I've only just read (parts of it) because you referenced it. I stopped reading it the moment I noticed this s**t was like 6 months old (??) Yes, some of the posters are offensive. And he got offended right back. Fair game. Seems the solution now is to turn the page, move on, ignore the posts...

Instead perhaps maybe a few pretty regular posters who've had much to contribute had their feelings hurt or were made to feel unwelcome (whether inadvertently or not) simply because they have average and smaller cocks and post on LPSG.

Was it worth all that?? Am I the only one here who feels this just wasn't right?

IMHO, this isn't about hurting someone's feelings or elitism. I think Lpd's questions were legitimate. I can see how this might smack of elitism to you but I really don't think that's the case here. Have you ever been PM'd by guys begging for compliments about their cocks? I had no idea my membership would include constantly being asked to rate a guy's cock. I take it in stride and try to be as nice as I can, but it gets old after a while. The point is, they're welcome but this is a site with a focus on the Large Penis. No one said anyone with a smaller to average penis is unwelcome. It's only been suggested that this might not be the place to receive the special kind of support they need if that's what they're looking for.

 

[b.c.]

IMHO, this isn't about hurting someone's feelings or elitism. I think Lpd's questions were legitimate. I can see how this might smack of elitism to you but I really don't think that's the case here. Have you ever been PM'd by guys begging for compliments about their cocks? I had no idea my membership would include constantly being asked to rate a guy's cock. I take it in stride and try to be as nice as I can, but it gets old after a while. The point is, they're welcome but this is a site with a focus on the Large Penis. No one said anyone with a smaller to average penis is unwelcome. It's only been suggested that this might not be the place to receive the special kind of support they need if that's what they're looking for.

You're probably right in that last comment about support. However, I would imagine there are various reasons for people to be here, and as I said before there should be room enough for all.

We'll not always agree on an issue or a point of view. But we should all have the right to express it, and to express disagreement.

I am a guy with a somewhat larger than average cock. Not among the biggest, but I do ok. So as such, there are some things that some guys say here that... well... let's just say they don't add up, and leave it at that.

Anyway, I have expressed my opinion on this subject and hopefully can move on.

p.s. Uncut has piqued my curiosity with this "poe of the penis" reference and perhaps I owe him an apology, seeing as how he kinda apologised for that "p" word. I'll see what I can find on it.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

You're probably right in that last comment about support. However, I would imagine there are various reasons for people to be here, and as I said before there should be room enough for all.

We'll not always agree on an issue or a point of view. But we should all have the right to express it, and to express disagreement.

I am a guy with a somewhat larger than average cock. Not among the biggest, but I do ok. So as such, there are some things that some guys say here that... well... let's just say they don't add up, and leave it at that.

Anyway, I have expressed my opinion on this subject and hopefully can move on.

p.s. Uncut has piqued my curiosity with this "poe of the penis" reference and perhaps I owe him an apology, seeing as how he kinda apologised for that "p" word. I'll see what I can find on it.

I was a Monty Python fan for years. I thought poofter meant crazy . Lp isnt talking about you nor am i. You have a nice big cock. Heis talking about the smaller guys who are trolls and go after bigger guys insulting them. Read up on the poe of the penis. It has to do with the over all health and balance of the body........ Im a lumber jack............:tongue: