Average Black Man

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  1. eldeld

    eldeld New Member

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    How many of us Black Men are of average or just above average size. Do you feel the pressure and shame of not 'measuring' up to the stereotype?
     
  2. danerain

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    Hmm, I think the average black man would have an average size dick.

    But that's just me.
     
  3. SpeX

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    Yes.
    I've found that,in spite of the fact it's supposedly a myth;being black,I'm expected to be well endowed.
    I hate being naked with someone for the first time,and seeing that they're disappointed by what I've got.
    I'm pretty good in bed,though. I'm not 'Studly Studdington',but I know how to work it,and I know a lot of other tricks,too.
    I always make my sex partners happy.

    But,that initial disappointment,does suck.
     
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    Yes,, the average black man is average in penis size.
     
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    i would say im pretty average but i dont consider myself back as in afro american....im dominican
     
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    Im sorry. I dont understand... Did you say you dont consider yourself a black man? OK....
     
  7. eldeld

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    Dominicandan, what is your size. You don't appear to be average and yours seems to be close to my dimensions.
     
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    He doesn't consider himself black as in African American/black, he's black as in he's a Dominican with dark skin. I remeber reading about this not to long ago. Many latino consider black to be a color not an ethnic background. He could be trying to say that his skin is dark in color and/but he is Dominican.
     
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    ok enough already,,, wish there was a thread about white men being average,, give the black man a break
     
  10. eldeld

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    Tru African, That is easy for you to say. You are well-endowed. You may not understand the pressure many of us feel.
     
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    Love me for who I am, not what's between my legs. I'm a it tired of the "Big Dick Stereotype" also. It's more about how one uses what one has anyway. LOL (Yeah right) However if you got it Flaunt it! Flaunt it!
     
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    I do have the presure that people expect me to be "hung". It sux :frown1:
     
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    Sleepiboi you have nothing to be ashamed of :wink:
     
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    This is a stereotype that has gone entirely too far. Most of us as black men grow up trying to figure out how we measure up to other black men and end up with lower confidence becuse you think that your partner may have had bigger. it is more to it than size. though size is a great benefit, i am sure tha most women will agree that it is the vibe that you put in a bed with you. you can be huge and suck when it comes to sex. you have to know what you are doing with what you have. Personally i was 19 before i realized that I was above the average size and even still then i felt like i wasnt big enough. I am now 25 and just becomming more content with the size that i am. This is a myth that needs to be stopped.
     
  15. kon4el

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    This is my first response to a thread on this site. This is totally cool. My question is what does eldeld consider big and what does he consider small when it comes to penis size?

    My self being a black man, I have been told by a quite a few women that I have a big dick (7 1/2 inches long , 4.7 inches round - I will eventually upload some pics of myself), even though I consider myself completely average. I remember one girl I was having some fun with, told me that I have a big dick. I told her that I am just average, her response is something I will never ever forget. She said "I 've seen a lot of dicks and trust me you have a big dick". So it is a matter of persective when it comes to size.
     
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    In my varied experiences, I've met Black men and Italian men who were 'average' hung, fucking GORGEOUS from head to toe. Some of them were actually apologetic about not fufilling that big-cock stereotype. I hope that changes one of these days...but I've always enjoyed demonstrating my appreciation for the physical beauty of the 'average' men!
     
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    Thanks Kon4el! You have just given me a lot of confidence. Your dimensions are exactly my own! I just never thought of myself as being adequate!
     
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    i find this hilarious that most of the black men that agreed that they feel avg and cant get up to standards....all seem to have big penises...thats great. whats even more funny is i am 8-8.5 (depending on whether its for measure or pleasure) and 5.75-6 and i am only 5x4 and i feel only slightly above avg when i look at myself in the mirror...most of my friends as well tend to report that they are anywhere from 7-9 so i dont really know how to feel all that big...but i guess were all just different sizes...either way, it IS how you work it. big penis does not equal instant orgasm. for any guy that DOES feel really shitty about the entire situation, just know that you have hands and tongues and toys and technique and good music, food, smells to help you out...i know for a fact that size doesnt matter THAT much...
     
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    It might seem funny to you, but you gotta remember that most guys don't really have much to measure themselves against growing up. Not every guy hangs the same soft either, so places like locker rooms can also give guys a unrealistic perspective. Then you have things like porn, stories, and talk. 7.5 inches may indeed be big, but when it comes to what's generally portrayed of black men in the media, literature, porn, and other places, 7.5 inches generally isn't cutting it.

    It used to worry or bother me a lot, especially when I was growing up. Almost every story I heard or picture I saw, depicted a black male hugely hung. I always felt like the smallest guy in the school locker room too, which didn't help matters. As I got older, educated, and really got out in the real world, I've noticed that the myths simply aren't true. And as this site can attest to size really mattering to some, I know it's not as big an issue with others. I now know that I have what I have. Far as I'm concerned, I can't change it, and now wouldn't want too. Gotta admit that the initial reveal doesn't excite me quite as much as it used to, but still it doesn't take much.
     
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    THIS is the type of open convo i like to see :)
     
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