Black here but quite a bit bigger than average
Peace and Love
Del
. . . . .And?
Just thought you might have an intelligent contribution to the discourse. But I am glad you are proud of yourself!
Black here but quite a bit bigger than average
Peace and Love
Del
Point well taken. Thanks, I actually meant the United States. I was really trying to put the who's bigger argument into perspective.
Are you sure? Think about it.
Biggest BY FAR - Asian(s).
'European' majority countries: ALL Europe, North and South Americas, Russia, Australasia
Blacks - Sub-sahara Africa, some in the US, a few in the Carribean and Europe, um...
Ethnicity and Race: World Diversity Patterns
I'm from the UK and the perception exists here too. I'm about 6.25 x 5.25 so I'm not huge, but not small either. I always felt under a huge amount of pressure that I wasn't big enough to match the 'expectations' but I think a lot of that was because I didn't fit the other 'expecatations' of a black guy. I imagine its much the same everywhere but people have this idea that 'being black' means talking a certain way (typically with a north london accent if your from down south) dress a certain way, listen to RnB and Rap etc etc. I'm none of those things! I'm quite well spoken, wear pretty much anything that looks good on me but don't care about brands and I hate rap (Iron Maiden is my favourite band!). The pressures of "not being black" in these respects made things worse when I was paranoid everyone was expecting me to be huge in the trouser department.Interesting comment from a brother who is packing and from the United States.
I'm wondering about those from an extra-American perspective who may not be so endowed.
Thanks, these give us a population based on the continents. But don't relate to penis sizes based on race.
I'm from the UK and the perception exists here too. I'm about 6.25 x 5.25 so I'm not huge, but not small either. I always felt under a huge amount of pressure that I wasn't big enough to match the 'expectations' but I think a lot of that was because I didn't fit the other 'expecatations' of a black guy. I imagine its much the same everywhere but people have this idea that 'being black' means talking a certain way (typically with a north london accent if your from down south) dress a certain way, listen to RnB and Rap etc etc. I'm none of those things! I'm quite well spoken, wear pretty much anything that looks good on me but don't care about brands and I hate rap (Iron Maiden is my favourite band!). The pressures of "not being black" in these respects made things worse when I was paranoid everyone was expecting me to be huge in the trouser department.
Some people have that idea, but not all. I've never seen anyone shocked when I come out with my BBC accent, but I like it, because, since I don't fit the stereotype (fav. track at the moment is Maximo Park's Our Velocity), people have to like me for me, rather than liking the image.
Something else I was thinking on the ride to work the other day is about the perception in gyms that all these black guys have bigger dicks that the white guys. Yes I've seen large black cocks in the central London gyms (sadly can't afford them anymore!) but I saw big white ones too. I think the difference is literally the colour. Notice how body builders put on tanning lotion before going to pose. Dark skin enhances definition, light skin diminishes it. So muscular black men (not I!) will probably look more defined than an equivalent untanned white guy, and that will go for his dick as well.
I went to school with a bunch of white kids, and they all had the idea that because i was black my dick was dragging on te floor. I mean i don't consider myself small, but i don't have a horse dick that i can throw over my shoulder.
How many of us Black Men are of average or just above average size. Do you feel the pressure and shame of not 'measuring' up to the stereotype?
I don't permit others that kind of power over me. What can you do about your penis size? Nothing.
Be happy with what you have. You are you for a reason.
Thats true, but its hard not to feel pressure from peers and the media which dictate to you that you are supposed to be a certain thing. To some extent it is no different from girls being told you have to be 90 pounds to be pretty.
Well said.!I don't permit others that kind of power over me. What can you do about your penis size? Nothing.
Be happy with what you have. You are you for a reason.