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i never used the term "slut" you did....This is what i am referring to.
you are clearly ignorant of sexuality whether male or female.

And you reach this conclusion, how?

Because of use of the word 'slut'?

You are clearly, then, ignorant of the recent moves to 'reclaim' the word slut, and cease to view being slutty as a shameful thing, as embodied in the global slut walk campaigns of this year.

I feel embarrassed for you.
 

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Hey again Quiet!

I don't think he's trying to say that all men here think we women are sluts, or that being sluts is a bad thing... I used to be one, and I'm not ashamed to admit that!

I'll give you some personal history which may help understand why some of the women are somewhat skeptical and tired of their treatment (I'm not saying they are right or wrong in how they react or behave in general, but I think a little personal experience sharing might at least go some way to both sides seeing things a little easier!)

I joined LPSG 5 years ago, and spent several months of that being called fake, mainly by men when I refused to cyber with them. I didn't care about that, but then the insults became very personal, which did hurt a great deal at times. Still I kept on being me, and made use of ignore, until I became a mod and wasn't really allowed to ignore people any more.

I shared some information about my past, which was abusive to say the least, and involved some pretty horrific things... This was met by one woman telling me "shit happens, get over it" and several men hitting me up via PM for more details because it was so "hot" - These comments were some of the most vulgar, depraved comments I've ever seen, and 5 years of throwing people off this site has yet to throw up anything that comes close to the things I got that week.

Earlier today we had a man in chat calling us all hookers and telling us to "get to work for him" in various forms.

We are called every name imaginable on a near daily basis for some of us. Not only are we attacked if we don't give the right answers (based on what they want to believe is true) but when we decline cyber offers and the likes, we have people chain starting accounts to keep up the abuse.

I've had at least 3 members start accounts using my name to attack me for various things. Lies spread about me because I wouldn't get my cunt out on cam. Told I only like women because I've not been fucked right yet. Repeatedly told I need to be hurt, destroyed and ruined by big dicks, and how fucking hot it would be to make me cry in pain.

I know women here who have had members try to track them down in real life, contact family members and employers.

All of that is just what has happened on an individual basis and doesn't even touch the things said in a general manner to all women in the world, and as I said, for some of us, it's a daily occurrence.

That doesn't mean to say that we think all men are like that, not even all the men on here. It does however make many of us a little hesitant to give the benefit of the doubt when we read something so similar to something previously read when we know how it panned out last time.

The vast majority of the men on this site are completely harmless, then you've got some amazingly insightful men who make this site a real pleasure to visit, then you've got the complete cunts who don't actually deserve oxygen and just as bad imo, the ones who'll agree with anything said by someone with a nice pair of tits, no matter what it is, just because they happen to be female.

It is really truly unfortunate, but those who fall into the cunt group are so often the loudest and most prolific (while they last) posters in the WI forum, which leaves the majority of prolific female posters with a really bad taste in their mouths.

All anyone really wants on here is respect and to be treated as an individual, even if you hate them as an individual, something which in my opinion needs to be worked on by both sides.
 

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you were using it in a clearly derogatory manner...not in the "ethical" manner.

kinda like how guys can rip on each other but once a girl makes the same comments it changes the meaning.

i am ignorant of very little, some yes, but my spinal cord is aeons ahead of your gray matter.
 

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I posted this in the thread that's going on in the Etc Forum. I think it has just as much validity here, so I'm reposting it.....

AAARGH!

The thing about this thread is that it's really starting to become so full of sound and fury signifiying absolutely NOTHING that there's not really a point to it anymore. Any valid points that Chinagirl, Arkfarmbear, and Quiet_man may once have had are all gone.

Yes, the women's issue is cliquish. But, this is a site about penises and sex. It's dominated by men. I cannot imagine what it'd be like to be a woman on here, getting constantly hit up with requests to cam, etc., and being constantly harassed with things like let me see your pix, oh you have nice XYZ and I'd like to do ABC and 123 to you.

Then, even in the women's issues forum, there's a lot of insanity. Very thinly veiled threads that are all about cock and whatnot. And some of the questions that are asked....when I saw one about that it was a common fact that many women have orgasmed while in labor....I was like OK. Then, some topics that are rather intersting tend to get monopolized by men. There was a cum facial thread in there, and 90% of the posts were from men, when it was asking women if they found facials degrading.

So, in short, sometimes it's the law of the jungle. Kill or be killed; Snark or be snarked. So....sometimes you gotta be stronger. Not nice, but it's human nature, and It happens.

Oh, and BTW, ITA about the situation with Madamoiselle Rouge. We were at each others' throats completely. It was to the point of WTF are you babbling on about, child? But, we were able to agree to disagree, and we can respect each others' opinions.

In short, this site is what you make it. If you go in looking for trouble, then, you'll find it.

Oh, and BTW, I think most people can take care of themselves. Yes, I'm talking to you, quiet_man since you have to be such a champion for the oppressed, bullied masses, yearning to breathe freely. No one on here needs a martyr.
 

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havent been here long, but aside from chinas weird threads and posts, most of the women on here seem real and chill.

one of the more outspoken ones even PM'd me cause she realized i had screwed my profile up and listed myself as gay, but she had seen me post about my GF... I thought it was a really nice gesture.
 

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Hey again Quiet!

I don't think he's trying to say that all men here think we women are sluts, or that being sluts is a bad thing... I used to be one, and I'm not ashamed to admit that!

I'll give you some personal history which may help understand why some of the women are somewhat skeptical and tired of their treatment (I'm not saying they are right or wrong in how they react or behave in general, but I think a little personal experience sharing might at least go some way to both sides seeing things a little easier!)

I joined LPSG 5 years ago, and spent several months of that being called fake, mainly by men when I refused to cyber with them. I didn't care about that, but then the insults became very personal, which did hurt a great deal at times. Still I kept on being me, and made use of ignore, until I became a mod and wasn't really allowed to ignore people any more.

I shared some information about my past, which was abusive to say the least, and involved some pretty horrific things... This was met by one woman telling me "shit happens, get over it" and several men hitting me up via PM for more details because it was so "hot" - These comments were some of the most vulgar, depraved comments I've ever seen, and 5 years of throwing people off this site has yet to throw up anything that comes close to the things I got that week.

Earlier today we had a man in chat calling us all hookers and telling us to "get to work for him" in various forms.

We are called every name imaginable on a near daily basis for some of us. Not only are we attacked if we don't give the right answers (based on what they want to believe is true) but when we decline cyber offers and the likes, we have people chain starting accounts to keep up the abuse.

I've had at least 3 members start accounts using my name to attack me for various things. Lies spread about me because I wouldn't get my cunt out on cam. Told I only like women because I've not been fucked right yet. Repeatedly told I need to be hurt, destroyed and ruined by big dicks, and how fucking hot it would be to make me cry in pain.

I know women here who have had members try to track them down in real life, contact family members and employers.

All of that is just what has happened on an individual basis and doesn't even touch the things said in a general manner to all women in the world, and as I said, for some of us, it's a daily occurrence.

That doesn't mean to say that we think all men are like that, not even all the men on here. It does however make many of us a little hesitant to give the benefit of the doubt when we read something so similar to something previously read when we know how it panned out last time.

The vast majority of the men on this site are completely harmless, then you've got some amazingly insightful men who make this site a real pleasure to visit, then you've got the complete cunts who don't actually deserve oxygen and just as bad imo, the ones who'll agree with anything said by someone with a nice pair of tits, no matter what it is, just because they happen to be female.

It is really truly unfortunate, but those who fall into the cunt group are so often the loudest and most prolific (while they last) posters in the WI forum, which leaves the majority of prolific female posters with a really bad taste in their mouths.

All anyone really wants on here is respect and to be treated as an individual, even if you hate them as an individual, something which in my opinion needs to be worked on by both sides.

Chica, I've seen the hatred out there that has been put on you since you've been an Admin and that alone is worth hating, but the thought of someone thinking it's cute, funny or hot to have you be abused against your will is FUBAR.

This makes me even more of a manhater than I already was. I hope he reads what you had to say because everyone here should read this. It should be made a Sticky on the ManHater's Issues forum. Srsly.

He probably won't even respond to this because he's mesmerized by your lovely mammaries. I know I am.
 

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you were using it in a clearly derogatory manner...not in the "ethical" manner.

No I wasn't. How can you tell that from text alone? You're imagining things.

i am ignorant of very little, some yes, but my spinal cord is aeons ahead of your gray matter.

You're imagining things again.

Stop being silly please.
 

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This makes me even more of a manhater than I already was. I hope he reads what you had to say because everyone here should read this. It should be made a Sticky on the ManHater's Issues forum. Srsly.

Please don't hate men. We're not all like that. I'm actually one of the good ones, even if I can be a bit disagreeable on the internets sometimes.... :frown1:

*simper simper, fawn fawn*

Or on the other hand...

HA! So you finally admit you're a man-hater. I was RIGHT ALL ALONG!
 

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Please don't hate men. We're not all like that. I'm actually one of the good ones, even if I can be a bit disagreeable on the internets sometimes.... :frown1:

*simper simper, fawn fawn*

Or on the other hand...

HA! So you finally admit you're a man-hater. I was RIGHT ALL ALONG!

You are indeed correct. I hate men. With a passion. I mean no blog, post or thread could even remotely come close to showing you how much i hate men. I wish I were 100% lesbian and could ditch this whole married scene. Just having to sleep next to a man makes me so angry.

I am so glad I had a daughter so I could train her properly to hate men also. I should have had 10 daughters.

Call me the female version of Henry the VIIIth. I'm bitter and angry that I couldn't have the amount and proper chromosomal progeny to spread and multiply my love for women and disdain for men around this planet.

I am totally going to take down my Xtube videos since they've been used predominately my men to get off and that totally pisses me off since that was not what I was hoping for. The thought of a guy spilling his seed over me makes me spit NAILS.

:eek:wned22:
 

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I'd like to semi-break the rules (ha, double standard, Rob is totally too busy to ban me!) and discuss a PM I sent and had replied to earlier today...

I sent one of quiet_man, to voice some opinions of my own without adding to the masses of back and forth here. He seems very much like myself in as much as he comes across a lot more clear and sane one to one than he does on the forum at large.

He seems to have acknowledged some of the overriding negative experiences we deal with so often on here, and why it may make some of us behave the way we do at times. Likewise, I think we can all acknowledge that we often come off as a bunch of man hating bitches.

If we can all accept that at times, our reactions are justified, and at times simply reactionary and out of line, we could all move on from here...

He isn't the asshole I first thought he was, and I'm not the man hating bitch he may have thought I was, let's spread this knowledge around and see if we can't put these threads to bed until next time!
 

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Yeah, I hate men too now. Fucking men!

I'm going to go cut my dick off, and come back improved.

Instead of quiet_man, expect to meet NOISY_WOMAN!
 

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I agree with the topic title.

Best is to stay out, far away from that fishpool.
It's not the first naive penis, that they have cut into pieces, canned and shipped as food supply to Haiti.
You can talk better to a pool of piranhas. And if you do - be carefull, walk to the pool on your tip toes, because one false move and they all jump on you like hungry piranhas. And I can tell they haven't eaten in a while, those poor little vaginas. :)