I got an awesome gf for over a year, but i am starting to get a little bored of the relationship lately and kind of annoyed. Shes been a great girl, awesome personality, very caring, good sexx, pretty hot, idk you name it.
It just feels like Im putting more than I want to into it. She wants to be around me 24/7 and I just can't take that i need my own space and when shes not around, shes blowing up my phone trying to find a way to get around me. I dont know its just very irritating, i cant get my own space regardless of what i do. Then when i have space i need to fight dearly to keep it. Its rough because I have to host her, a lot of times shell get dropped off at my place and i have to transport her back which is annoying as well considering she always comes over my place.
Another big problem. She gets really insecure when other girls are around me and this has been an ongoing issue. I have a few close family friends that come around occasionally and she just gets insecure and acts all pissed off around them, gets pretty mean with them, then i have to make things right. No matter what we do it hasn't resolved, despite her promising she won't get into it again. Its the same situation with some of my guy friends, shes gotten into arguments with them. Im tired of sorting out her being mean to other people.
I don't know, i just am getting bored and I don't know what to do. She is a great girl but these two main flaws just aren't getting resolved and ive brought them up for months.
The issue with her getting into it with my friends and insecurity towards other girls really pushed the limit recently and I thought about ending the relationship for the first time.
What should i do?
It just feels like Im putting more than I want to into it. She wants to be around me 24/7 and I just can't take that i need my own space and when shes not around, shes blowing up my phone trying to find a way to get around me. I dont know its just very irritating, i cant get my own space regardless of what i do. Then when i have space i need to fight dearly to keep it. Its rough because I have to host her, a lot of times shell get dropped off at my place and i have to transport her back which is annoying as well considering she always comes over my place.
Another big problem. She gets really insecure when other girls are around me and this has been an ongoing issue. I have a few close family friends that come around occasionally and she just gets insecure and acts all pissed off around them, gets pretty mean with them, then i have to make things right. No matter what we do it hasn't resolved, despite her promising she won't get into it again. Its the same situation with some of my guy friends, shes gotten into arguments with them. Im tired of sorting out her being mean to other people.
I don't know, i just am getting bored and I don't know what to do. She is a great girl but these two main flaws just aren't getting resolved and ive brought them up for months.
The issue with her getting into it with my friends and insecurity towards other girls really pushed the limit recently and I thought about ending the relationship for the first time.
What should i do?