The worst part of sex for me is AFTER everything is done. He comes, I come and I want him out of my place as soon as possible. I don't know why this happens, I was in an abusive relationship in the past (sleeping with the enemy) so I've gotten used to numbing my emotions during sex. But I like the guys I'm with now and they feel hurt and used after sex. I just can't help it. How do I regain my emotions? Also, do the women here get emotional during and after sex or is there any woman here who also feel like they just want to roll over and go to sleep after the deed?