Awkward

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by SMP, Jul 22, 2006.

  1. SMP

    SMP New Member

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    I don't know if this is the approporiate section to post this on, but here goes..

    I recently broke up with my last girlfriend (who will be referred to as Betty from herein) because she was overly sexual (it was a turn off, not to mention annoying after six months) and I've recently been dating this one girl.. she's amazing.. I'm a down-to-earth, realistic guy and I would never normally say this but I can see it going even into Marriage..

    Anyway, I have this problem.. because Betty was so sexual all of the damn time, I've come to associate anything sexual with her, and it weirds me out. I mean, I have sex with my new girlfriend anyway, but it feels awkward at times.. like previous association, you know?

    I know it's weird, but does anyone have any remedies, comments or suggestions?
     
  2. dongalong

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    Have sex more often with your new girlfriend and you'll soon forget Betty.
    Sounds like Betty was good, maybe a bit of gentle encouragement will make your new love even better.
     
  3. headbang8

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    This is a tough one, SMP. What "overtly sexual" stuff did Betty do that made you feel uncomfortable? And which you feel you ought to find comfortable with your new girl?
     
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    Time is probably the best remedy. After a few non-Betty orgasms you'll be in good shape.
     
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