The other day my eye fell on a book called 'Goedele Liekens, Her Sex Bible'. Goedele Liekens is a famous Belgian sexologist. She never studied sexology, but it's not a protected trade, so she can call herself a sexologist. In Belgium she is regarded as an authority on this matter. I skimmed through the book and noticed how a lot of the things she says are bogus and even harmfull for a modern relationship. I told this to a student of sexology, and she said this woman is always regarded as a dumb bimbo among real sexologists. She also told me that the tips on 'how to please please your man' or 'how to get a man' in women's magazines could easily be placed under the same denominator as astrology. She also said that, and this should not surprise you, almost all of those articles are written by women. I myself often get this wtf feeling when I read the hints in those 'how to please your man' things. Sometimes there are even things that are, in my opinion, harmfull for a relationship were both man and woman are totally satisfied. So I thought, maybe a man should write advice on 'how to please your man'. I haven't done any research yet, and I'm not sure if I will go through with it, but I've got the intention. I would like to get a nice discussion going here about the most used tips in those articles. For the women: which advice do you use, what's the effect, do you disregard the advice more often with getting older and more experienced? For the men: what is your advice, and what are the most ridiculous things you've hear/read?