Bad drinking experience...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by southernstud, Apr 30, 2010.

  1. southernstud

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    So, I went out last night with a buddy of mine at a local bar. I got heavily intoxicated, well, blackout. I remember bits and pieces of the ride home. Anyway, after I left his place this morning, he was as drunk as I was, he said I tried to kiss his side and my head was in his lap....I can't see that 1) happening 2) going on unprovoked...so I dunno what's up. He said we were cool but it was awkward and he'd prefer it not happen again, however, I don't remember it happening to begin with...it kinda sucks, but I feel like a tool for having that happen allegedly.
     
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    check the security video cam?? yul probably never know.
     
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    That sucks Bud :frown1:. Next time you should go drinking with me :wink:

    Seriously, stuff like that happens when you're sleeping. I don't know your orientation, but if your primarily straight and that's what's bothering you and/or him, chaulk it up to dreaming about some chick.

    Really, the fact that he is upset, says more about him than you. You know how many times I've heard "straight" guys joke about so and so passed out next to them (on the floor or whatever after a party) and spooning or hugging in their sleep. They laugh it off, make jokes, etc.

    Don't make a big deal about it and it will soon be forgotten history.

    Sorry to hear that you're feeling down about it. It'll get better

    Now about our drinking night.....:biggrin1: :cool:
     
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    life lesson here:

    don't drink until you're blotto. drink until you're merry, then switch to soft drinks for a while, only going back to booze when you need to top up that merry feeling.

    it's better for your liver, safer and less likely to cause blushes the next day.

    i'm a mother, so i know best.
     
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    Dumb guy..he shouldve taken you up on it... I wouldve! :D
     
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    Well, I'm feelin' better after reading your responses. I'm trying to ignore it happened. It's still odd though.

    As far as drinking goes, I usually don't drink that much, but it was a night out w/ friends and a bartender that made delicious happen. However, my problem is I don't get buzzed or "drunk" I go from normal to brick-wall. It's kinda strange, but who knows, I'm new to drinking, so I'll work on pacing myself some.

    Thanks for the advice peeps.
     
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    Me too! Love his dick....looks like it could tear me up! HOT! :biggrin1:
     
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