Bad erection?

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  1. Wanttogrowbigger

    Wanttogrowbigger New Member

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    This is my background:
    I watch porn, maby every second day and masterubate 2-3 times a week.

    When I try to measure/stop stroking, its semi erect by the time the ruler is at the right place, and if im not start to stroke it agien it will be flaccid in like 5 seconds.
    And most of the time the erection is pretty soft.

    I have imbalans in the immune defence at the moment, maby thats the reason, or is it mental


    What do you think, is it common for a 19 year old ?

    Does someone know what the cause can be and how to make things better?

    Hope you understand my english
     
  2. unabear09

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    i have the same problem with measuring and taking pics. Go to grab the tape measure of the camera, and my little guy gets a touch of performance anxiety. Got to be mental
     
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    do kegels for a couple of weeks
     
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    Couldn't resist! Down boy!!! Bad Erection, Bad, Bad Bad Erection!Sit! Go Lie Down!!! And I mean Now! LOL
     
  5. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    I masturbate almost every day. Some days I am harder than others, especially if I work out beforehand. I know what you mean though, maybe it's a blood flow thing. I've read that if you are laying down, they blood won't flow as well to your cock. Sit straight up and it's better.
     
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    thats gotta be true, ive noticed the same thing, if im sitting up its rock hard, like so hard it hurts, when i lay down on my back, its not as hard
     
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    I know its difficult but stop watching porn and wanking for a week or two. Then try...it will be solid
     
  8. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    If you look at the little diagrams on the back or inside of condom boxes, they will say to get on your knees while on the bed, that this draws the most blood to your cock and keeps you hard to get the condom on, and as a better "attack" position.:biggrin1: I think this was in the durex directions or something.
     
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    If we have sex too much he gets the Jelly Cock Syndrome too.
     
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    Kinda reminds me of a rubbery feeling boner when you say that. I had one last night, when I wasn't fully hard yet. Felt awesome to play with, difficult to explain though. Then it got really hard, and slightly thicker than usual. It rocked, what a good night.:biggrin1:
     
  11. Wanttogrowbigger

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    I tried discos advice. It has just been a couple of days, and still today I got a hard boner 3 times at the gym while training, that lasted for some minutes. Even if I dident want a boner at the time.

    I suspect this got to be something mental and maby the blood flow is involved.

    What do you say guys?
     
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    I have this same problem when I watch porn or try to measure. Kegels sound like a good idea to fix this, ill try it and let you know how it goes
     
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    mental, good rest, good exercise and of course, good foods..
     
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    Nobody said anything about their age, and I'm about to be officially "mid-40s" later this year, but I've noticed a steady decline in rigidity. It's never interfered with any functionality, but I get concerned anyway.

    Did the little blue pill and that certainly perked it right up, but it became a bad erection in the other extreme. It was too hard and too rough. Felt like a damn billy club and detached from me, like a foreign object. My doc said to try to cut the pill in half, but that didn't make a difference.

    Maybe you might need "daddy's little helper" to perk it up again. Make sure you get medical advice before you do anything about it, though.
     
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    i have the same problem. im 21. i used to get erections like crazy, and now i think i have mentally built up too much mental control over them and dont allow myself to relax enough to stay hard. I was watching "Talk Sex with Sue" if you are familiar with the show, and somone called in asking about this same topic. She said it is very very very normal and common. She said that it is natural for the penis to go from hard to semi hard continuously throughout intercourse due to the blood vessels trapping and then releasing blood. It is annoying though, i take some supplements sometimes that i think help a little, but i think the biggest thing is in the mind. also going without cumming for a few days helps too.
     
  16. pooz

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    I've got the same thing
    I For me I think its a bit of both, when you're with someone there's performance anxiety especially if you expect yourself to go flaccid alfway though because you'e ejaculating too much.
    For me I'm chronic masturbator, maybe twice a day but suffer anxiety really bad when it comes to the crunch
     
  17. pooz

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    How do u get rid of the mind thing mate??
    Ill try that Kegels exercise but I'm still not keen to try it on a girl (especially one I know) and disappoint
     
  18. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    I went at it three times last night within about a two hour timeframe, and my erections stayed consistently hard. I did notice that after a while, I had this extremely rigid little vein pop up right by the head. So rigid, it was almost painful to touch. Not really painful, but very weird feeling when I stroked it. It felt like a little piece of steel under the skin.:eek:
     
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    I was pretty much hard as a rock at 19, but today, I think people see so much porn that they get bored easily, and need new stuff all the time. No telling how much I'd have jerked if I had had the internet in my youth. HA, I'd have needed a retread for my cock. Your fine.
     
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    Take Viagra
     
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