My wasband had issues with stamina & would always, ALWAYS cum as I was starting to "get there"... he robbed me of thousands of orgasms. But he was exceptional at oral. Would i say he's bad in bed? No. But even divorce and his cheating aside, I have zero interest in a repeat performance. He's just not good enough and my bar is set higher.
Other than that, I would only say I had one that I'd say was a lousy lay. His package was on the smaller side of average and was self conscious about it as a bigger guy. Apparently, his ex berated him about it and told others he was small. I had no issues with his junk. What I DID have issues with was him wanting me to tell huuuuuige he is, and when I didn't and saw him watching Jimmy Kimmel, I decided that was more baggage than I cared to unpack and I got dressed. Not even a 1 and done... more like a 1/3 & done.