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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dude.4321, May 16, 2008.
Would you stay with someone if the sex was really bad?
Well, she doesn't get-off. She just lays there, no emotion, no nothing. No matter what I do, just nothing. It's really bad. I know it's not me, I've never had a problem getting a women off.
I don't know?
Have you told her about this?
She said she has never gotten off. She knows I get frustrated with her because I will just stop right in the middle of sex. Her lack of sexual interest makes it really hard for me to get-off. It really sucks.
If you give her, or have given her a chance to shape up so to speak and you consider sex an important part of your relationship, I think breaking up is a possible option. Just be tactful.
So, what do you actually like about her? I'd consider things like these as well before you make a decision.
Can you possibly try to teach her what's expected of her? I know what it's like to have an unresponsive lover on line. I find it a total turn-off. I'm a very passionate woman and I find that a total turn off. Although, there are some people simply not capable of passion. I know someone who has a large penis and he seems to expect that to be his ticket for success. You need more then a large penis to turn a woman on. You need to be responsive. Maybe your not stimulating her. It takes two to Tango. If you keep trying and she lays there as if it's a chore what kind of pleasure is that for you? There are plenty of fish in the sea. I'd want to feel the passion of being wanted. I need to know I gave some pleasure to my lover otherwise I'd feel like I was not desirable and definately stray.
I believe this has been discussed before. Correct me if I am mistaken.
Bad sex = NO.
I have dated and had sexs with very hot women including tri-atheletes and Pent House models. I am shocked at how bad these beautiful women were at sex. I did everyting a man can do and yet they were so uncomfortable with themselves and wouldn't let go. It was a waste.
So no. Bad sex=no more of seeing the woman who was bad at sex and would not be good at sex or willing to try.
they would have to have lots of attributes that would be factored in for me to make a decision like that. By far, compassion and intelligence go farther with me than someone who isn't good in bed. Sex can be worked on.
I have stayed with men when the sex was bad. I am so much better in bed now than when I first started out. She is probably just young and inexperienced. I am sure the guy I lost my virginity to would be having a heart attack to hear me say "why don't you fist me and then fuck my ass". Just because a girl is shy and does not know what to do in bed does not mean that she will be that way forever.
sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's still pretty good. --Stephen Baldwin, "Threesome"
maybe these are women with big holes whom need bigger dicks to satisfy them? i wouldn't want to be with a women or guy for that matter who doesn't feel anything..
I had a girl like this once and totally got off on it... but I like the whole cuckold thing.
I have never had bad sex...just some better then others.....
[quote=dude.4321;1484660]Would you stay with someone if the sex was really bad?[/quote] No way!
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