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Well, she doesn't get-off. She just lays there, no emotion, no nothing. No matter what I do, just nothing. It's really bad. I know it's not me, I've never had a problem getting a women off.

I don't know?:confused:
 

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She said she has never gotten off. She knows I get frustrated with her because I will just stop right in the middle of sex. Her lack of sexual interest makes it really hard for me to get-off. It really sucks.
 

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If you give her, or have given her a chance to shape up so to speak and you consider sex an important part of your relationship, I think breaking up is a possible option. Just be tactful. :p

So, what do you actually like about her? I'd consider things like these as well before you make a decision.
 

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Can you possibly try to teach her what's expected of her? I know what it's like to have an unresponsive lover on line. I find it a total turn-off. I'm a very passionate woman and I find that a total turn off. Although, there are some people simply not capable of passion. I know someone who has a large penis and he seems to expect that to be his ticket for success. You need more then a large penis to turn a woman on. You need to be responsive. Maybe your not stimulating her. It takes two to Tango. If you keep trying and she lays there as if it's a chore what kind of pleasure is that for you? There are plenty of fish in the sea. I'd want to feel the passion of being wanted. I need to know I gave some pleasure to my lover otherwise I'd feel like I was not desirable and definately stray.
 

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I believe this has been discussed before. Correct me if I am mistaken.
Bad sex = NO.
I have dated and had sexs with very hot women including tri-atheletes and Pent House models. I am shocked at how bad these beautiful women were at sex. I did everyting a man can do and yet they were so uncomfortable with themselves and wouldn't let go. It was a waste.
So no. Bad sex=no more of seeing the woman who was bad at sex and would not be good at sex or willing to try.
 

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they would have to have lots of attributes that would be factored in for me to make a decision like that. By far, compassion and intelligence go farther with me than someone who isn't good in bed. Sex can be worked on.
 

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I have stayed with men when the sex was bad. I am so much better in bed now than when I first started out. She is probably just young and inexperienced. I am sure the guy I lost my virginity to would be having a heart attack to hear me say "why don't you fist me and then fuck my ass". Just because a girl is shy and does not know what to do in bed does not mean that she will be that way forever.
 

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maybe these are women with big holes whom need bigger dicks to satisfy them? i wouldn't want to be with a women or guy for that matter who doesn't feel anything..
 

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[quote=dude.4321;1484660]Would you stay with someone if the sex was really bad?[/quote] No way!


maybe these are women with big holes whom need bigger dicks to satisfy them? i wouldn't want to be with a women or guy for that matter who doesn't feel anything..[/quote] Ignorant much? It's more likely that she suffered some sexual or physical abuse when she was younger that has left emotional scars. rendering her unable to climax. Often even a repressive or conservative religious upbringing will produce the same result in men and women.