As a woman I love being active during sex. Some men are intidimated by a woman who wants to get her groove on.Had a guy with a big cock who knew nothing about rhythm. He would thrust in, leave it for a second, pull out, stop...stop...then thrust in again, over and over. Not even the same amount of time between intervals. I'd prepare myself for the next thrust, it wouldn't come, then it would... Probably when all was said and done, he was a 12 thrust man. He was quiet too, didn't make a noise.
Another one was a lazy fuck. He lied on his back, arms to his side while I road him. All he would say is 'feels good', never thrusted up, never grabbed my ass...nothing.
Women aren't the only ones who can be a dead fuck!
He appeared hurt and confused. I later found out this 51 yr old Sicilian American man couldn't figure out why I didn't love his techniques. After all it was exactly what the porn guys did, and the girls in porn ALWAYS love anything done to them.
worst experience to date is one guy who alternately stuck his tongue in my ear then bit my nipples far too hard. he also thought a sexy kiss was just sticking his tongue into my mouth and then not moving it..... sigh. not a fun night
treat bad sex like a bad movie. heckling for about 5 mins then get up and leave.
Amen to that, sister!!!! a few minutes into bad sex and I say, "this is just not gonna work" I don't do charity sex. it is just too annoying.
Anyone who says there is no such thing as bad sex has not had enough experience or has very low standards.
I try to warn guys, in my subtle manner LOL what I am like in bed then give them plenty of opportunity to avoid being humiliated. I am honest and up front about what I am looking for so, if they don't bring their "A" game it is their own fault. Sex is the ultimate full contact sport.
What makes sex bad? As many things as can make it good. Let's see:
poor hygiene, bad equipment, poor self-esteem, lack of experience, the porn factor already commented on (that has screwed alot of guys up in regards to what women really like), lack of stamina, lack of adventure, lack of a sense of humor, poor communication skills, etc...