Banning Guys Who Shame Sph Fetish

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Hey guys - I've noticed it is very common on here for guys to shame us guys with small penises who happen to be into SPH. SPH is looked down on as a joke, or something less than a fetish for guys with big dicks. SPH is a legitimate fetish and should be treated as one on this board just as every single other fetish is. You'd be banned immediately if you shamed a guy for having a fetish for big cocks. Why is it acceptable to shame guys who are into SPH? I think this board and it's moderators really need to have a fresh look at this issue and how discriminated against guys who are into SPH are here. People are afraid to post because of the backlash they receive from guys with normal or big dicks who may not understand the fetish. It isn't cool, and it isn't ok. I think this board needs to look deeply at its internalized views that small penises are inferior and therefore so is sph. I believe people who shame people with this fetish should be banned, just as people who shame people for other fetishes are banned.
 
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There is literally a guy whose TAGLINE is:

Would it be acceptable to troll annoying SPH neurotics by persistently complimenting them on how awesome their dicks are?

How would it be acceptable if I put in my tagline the intention to invalidate any of your fetishes? Say "Would it be acceptable to troll annoying large penis neurotics by persistently telling them how small their dicks are?"

That tagline would be banned immediately. It really isn't cool. This board and it's moderators really need to do something about this.
 

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Maybe your fetish is to put down small-penis humiliation fetishists? Or is your fetish to put down people who put down other fetishists? Etc., etc. Infinite regress.
 
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SPH is a pretty common fetish around here. Kink-shaming is frowned upon in general here. Other than the tagline you're referring to, I've not seen any of the supposed SPH-shaming you're referring to.

And I'm quite sure that the proprietors of LPSG do not believe small penises are inferior as you are suggesting. All sizes are welcomed here.
 

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I think this board and it's moderators really need to have a fresh look at this issue and how discriminated against guys who are into SPH are here.

You should probably tag or PM them (especially Mr. LPSG) if you think this is such a big issue, and you want to see something done about it.
 
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Ive not seen anyone banned for shaming big dicks so not sure where you've seen that and also what you probably see as people shaming those into sph are people fed up with it being pushed by certain members who do it without saying it
 

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It is happening straight up in this thread. If someone wants to be humiliated then don't tell them something opposite of what they want to hear. I think guys here are afraid to post about SPH because of the stigma you guys attach to it. And yes there are MANY guys here who put down guys or try to get rid them off this board (banish them) because they like SPH. That isn't cool. All should be welcome here. Nobody should be made to feel bad or told they aren't good enough to be here. Being humiliated because of cock size and being humiliated because you like that fetish are completely different things. It is obvious from many posters that they are not welcome because they have a particular fetish. Of course this board is going to get people who have that fetish - it is a board about cock size for god's sake. I really think the moderators need to think about really monitoring how people react to SPH threads or how people jump on a thread to accuse the person of "just being a sph troll" or "just looking for sph" - maybe they are, but that isn't for you to decide or to put down.
 
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I really think the moderators need to think about really monitoring how people react to SPH threads...

Well, you haven't tagged any of them, so unless you have PM'd them in addition to posting to this thread, then you haven't really addressed them yet. Many of us understand that the mods miss most threads on this site, and so their attention has to be drawn to what we deem it important that they see. You may not be aware of this. It's also possible that you are aware of it, and are doing something other than sincerely trying to convince the mods to do something. Maybe you have some ulterior reason for making a show with this thread.
 

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Well, you haven't tagged any of them, so unless you have PM'd them in addition to posting to this thread, then you haven't really addressed them yet. Many of us understand that the mods miss most threads on this site, and so their attention has to be drawn to what we deem it important that they see. You may not be aware of this. It's also possible that you are aware of it, and are doing something other than sincerely trying to convince the mods to do something. Maybe you have some ulterior reason for making a show with this thread.
A few points of information to clarify how this site is modded:

Given the sheer size of LPSG, it would be impossible to monitor all posts in all threads in all the fora here. Several million posts. We can't miss what we don't see.

LPSG, like other similar social media sites, is Report-driven. That means when we receive a Report, it is reviewed and appropriate action is taken commensurate with our Terms and Rules.

It is important to remember that not everything Reported is found to violate our Terms and Rules.

Hope this clears up any misconceptions on how LPSG is modded.

Thanks
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Speaking as a member, my problem with sph, is that many members into that sort of thing try to trick other members into indulging that particular kink. I never gave my consent to participate. I don’t indulge in any kink without consent.

Speaking as a mod, if something breaches the TOS, report it. Things either break the rules or they don’t. It’s got nothing to do with internalized views.
 
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Hey guys - I've noticed it is very common on here for guys to shame us guys with small penises who happen to be into SPH. SPH is looked down on as a joke, or something less than a fetish for guys with big dicks. SPH is a legitimate fetish and should be treated as one on this board just as every single other fetish is. You'd be banned immediately if you shamed a guy for having a fetish for big cocks. Why is it acceptable to shame guys who are into SPH? I think this board and it's moderators really need to have a fresh look at this issue and how discriminated against guys who are into SPH are here. People are afraid to post because of the backlash they receive from guys with normal or big dicks who may not understand the fetish. It isn't cool, and it isn't ok. I think this board needs to look deeply at its internalized views that small penises are inferior and therefore so is sph. I believe people who shame people with this fetish should be banned, just as people who shame people for other fetishes are banned.

I won't echo what MisterB or the others said about bringing an offending post to someone's attention, because you've been given that advice in spades.

What I will say, given the reading I just did on 2 of your threads on this topic, in particular this one:

The Injustice Of Having A Tiny Dick

Is that you come off as very aggressive, and participated very frequently in large cock shaming towards the people who contributed to your discussion.

Also, having read through that thread, my impression isn't that people are against SPH in itself, but against you and how you were communicating and presenting yourself.

Two sides to every story, right?

There are some well known and prolific contributors here who make it their life's work to add to the SPH discussions. Generally, their threads are well received. From what I have seen over the years, there hasn't been the anti-SPH movement you are suggesting. Certainly nothing that would be described as "common".

Just my 2c.
 
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Speaking as a member, my problem with sph, is that many members into that sort of thing try to trick other members into indulging that particular kink. I never gave my consent to participate. I don’t indulge in any kink without consent.
^ This.

For myself, this is my issue. Consent.

If you want to indulge in shaming, or SPH, or humiliation, or whatever.. let it be know from the get-go, or go to an appropriate forum where everyone who enters and participates does so with full knowledge of what they are getting into.

Being deceitful, and leading your readers down a garden path, making them think they are helping you in some way, while in fact it is a trail of breadcrumbs for your own amusement is not cool at all. It is duplicitous, disingenuous, and preys upon the people who contribute here..just for your own pleasure and kink.

(when I say you, I don't mean YOU the OP, just the people that do that)
 
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I would have to occur with @Sunshine and Happiness. I was a brief participant in that thread and erroneously believed you were in pain and lashing out, and needed some kind words. But based on some of the other threads you've posted, that one comes off as disingenuous and manipulative now.

I have to also agree with another person's previous message; either you're playing games or you need professional help.
 
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