simcha
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Sorry - to be completely transparent - what I mean is, that it should have absolutely no relevance what you are, who you are, who you like to fuck, what colour you are, what age you are, what religion you are, what nationality you are etc etc etc, it is rather what makes us all the same, namely that we like being here, and those who sadly no longer have that choice. This is what the Moderating team should represent and uphold. Not a list of rules, no matter how well written and thought through.
RobE needs to know this and act upon it.
Amen!
The spirit of the rules should be followed out of what is best for the site, not necessarily the letter of the rules out of what the moderators feel about certain people and statements at the time.
Moderation should be consistent and present, not distant and capricious.
And I've been a moderator more than once on a very busy board before. Yes, it's a thankless job, get used to it. It's one of the reasons I don't do it anymore. One thing I had to do was to remember to be objective even when a member had made me angry or some of my friends angry on the board. I wasn't perfect. I was transparent.
I did let my membership know what was going on and why even when it was unpopular and I felt that I'd rather avoid explaining myself. Staying out of threads that asked me to explain myself did not help the situation at all. All it did was create a resentment between the members and the moderation team.
So, what is this moderation team going to do to avoid the massive mistakes it has made in the past few weeks? That's what I'd like to hear. I've heard plenty from membership about what we are changing amongst ourselves. Now it's time for the moderators to step up and speak out.
Oh, and it's not acceptable to leave a necessary tool of the banning process broken for years. The least the moderators could have done was E-Mail the members who were being warned about the bans. Since the internal tool was broken, the moderators should try the old-fashioned way of reaching members, by e-mail. All of us have to have a working email address to be on this site. Use it.