I'm one of the few members who posts on here occasionally and uses the gallery and PM system more, so allow me to offer the viewpoint of things from outside the dense social network that has become the LPSG forum:
YOU ARE TAKING THIS SITE TOO SERIOUSLY!!! I mean...deviating from PC language for a second...Who really gives a shit. Geez. Why is that every week I sign on here I see some member bitching about who got banned or how the site isn't run to your liking or how the mods/admins are evil demons from the Fourth Dimension.
If you don't like how the site is run and you are pissed your friend got banned for breaking the rules here's a thought: sign off and don't come back. I'm so tired of seeing people bitch and moan about a site.
The ONLY people who have the right to bitch are Gold Members: BECAUSE THEY'RE PAYING FOR THIS SITE. In which case the admins/mods should be in the service of giving them their money's worth.
But non-Gold Members really out to shut the fuck up, because you're enjoying a site for free, a gallery for free, the ability to meet people, chat with them, interact with them, etc, and you aren't paying a fucking dime.
Geez. If a person got banned then APPARENTLY he did something wrong. I don't think the mods or admins sit here banning people for the hell of it. And certainly I doubt they're banning popular members for the fun of it, because the popular members are what keep things going.
Apparently, the people who get banned did something. This is the internet people. Just because someone makes themselves seem one way in a forum, doesn't mean they aren't a weirdo, troll, pedo, psycho, or nutjob. And the mods/admins have insight into certain specifics that we dont. And make their decisions based on their rules.
What REALLY would be helpful is if you all told your friends who get banned to stop breaking the rules. Or stop popping off at the mouth to the people who own the site.
I've been on this for a minute and I haven't had a run in with any mods, admins, or users. I just use it for what it is. But when this site starts to become your REAL LIFE, then that is when you get all annoyed over a simple interface, text, and some binary code. Some of you need to just click the red X and go back to the REAL WORLD and enjoy yourself.
I suggest some of you do something.
It's actually kind of annoying to see people bitching and moaning in a new thread every two days because their "Friend" (who was probably a nutjob pic thief weirdo internet psycho in reality but pretending to be the 'cool guy' in the forum) got banned or because shit isn't going the way they want it.
Administrators/moderators are NOT in your debt. They don't own you anything. This is the ADMINISTRATOR'S site and they can run it the way they want. And the moderators are empowered by them so if they are going by the administrator's rules, this is their world. And unless you're a Gold Member you really don't have much to say because you aren't paying for it.
And NO I'm not just slightly annoyed by this thread because I'm the administrator of a site and moderate two others and have to deal with mouthy assholes tell me how to run my site or make my rules when they
*aren't helping me keep the site on it's servers, aren't doing maintenance,
*aren't paying for bandwidth and servers,
*aren't helping me during the extensive cosmetic restructuring of the site and updates, and who
*haven't given me a fucking dime to support the database that makes their 10,000 posts of bullshit possible
...and thus am able to identify with how the admins/mods might feel with these constantly bullshit threads...
...no it's not that at all. I'd be annoyed regardless. Because it's really NOT that serious for there to be a new thread about "Who got banned" or "The site isn't being run how I want it" every week.