Barber Get Close For Cut

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  1. Omegaman

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    Guys,

    I am sure you get this, you are getting your hair cuts, fade whatever and the barber getting real close when your arm is resting and his manhood is touching you.

    A. Should you move your arm a little

    B. Cough a Little

    C. Say back up buddy.

    D. Leave your arm where it is. Don't want his to mess your hair up.

    What you guys do when you getting your hair cuts?
     
  2. forbiddensociety

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    I have a female hair dresser :biggrin1: Julie's awsome hehe.

    If that happened though, I suppose I'd just deal with it for the moment or move the arm a bit.

    I'm letting my hair grow out so I won't be getting a haircut for a while.
     
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    leave your arm and enjoy the feel if you like the guy if not move your arm.
     
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    I don't have that problem. I figured that I was wasting ridiculous amounts of money on haircuts, so I bought a set of clippers for about the price of two haircuts and for the last seven years I've done my own.
     
  5. DC_DEEP

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    Most of the time, it really does mean nothing at all. Sometimes, it's just really not easy to get where he needs to get with those scissors if he's concentrating on whether or not he brushes against you.

    On the other hand, I guess there may be some occasions when the barber just wants to blow a load on your arm, under the cape, with all that hair sticking to everything.
     
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    Now what a mess that would be.
     
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    In most if not all instamces it means nothing other than the best angle for the cutter. I wouldnt think anything of it and leave my arm where it was.
     
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    *posts a gratuitous video link at this point* :cool: :biggrin1:

    ---> The Barber of Gayville :rolleyes:
     
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    I go to a barber who has been practicing since the 70's and have never had this problem.
     
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    Does one honestly think they could get a good haircut while distracting the barber like that?:rolleyes: :eek:
     
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    That is an incredible hot sceen and the barber is just so cute.
     
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    Just wait until he stops practicing and finally perfects his art... then you'll get an elbow in the groin every time. :rolleyes:

    My main problem in this scenario, actually, has always been having to make sure not to get hard as the barber's leg rubs against one... rather than worrying about any other factors. :redface: :rolleyes:
     
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    In a service industry that requires close "hands-on" contact, barbers and stylists are very aware of their actions. How can they not be? It's what they do for a living!! Look at it this way: A good barber will see 80-100 customers during the week. He could not use that same "technique" on all his customers without someone putting him in check! So, I believe that what happened in your situation was no accident. He was rubbing up against you to see what you would do. It was one of those "DL" signals.

    It happened to me too a long time ago, but I remember it b/c I felt very uncomfortable about it. We were alone in the shop. His crotch, his body, his arms were just way too close. The only thing he didn't do was staddle the chair and give me a lap dance! Plus, it took him 45 minutes!!! All I ever get is a shape-up and trim-- 20 minutes tops. I regret that I did not assert myself then and say something to him. But I was much younger. I just never went back again.

    I've now had the same barber for almost 12 years. He's very professional, and he's never, ever crossed that line of inappropriate closeness. He's cut my hair at the shop, at his house, at my house, and for a while he was coming to my office, too. There is no way I'd ever let someone come to my workplace that acted unprofessional in any way.

    But the real issue here is your comfort level. If you felt wierd or uncomfortable, then you're probably right to do so. Use your sixth sense and trust you instincts!! Move you arm away-- and maybe elbow his nuts in the process. Tell him that you need a little more personal space.
     
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    This has happened to me many times.

    I just appear to be paying no attention
    and let him do his thing. I have moved
    my arm a little as a 'response' to him.
    Nothing ever went any further.:biggrin1:
     
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    100% true story here. afew years back im getting my hair cut in NYC..place on 5th ave and 36th or thereabouts... so the guu who is cutting my hair also washed it.. when he was washing it i sort of felt as though he was leaning into me alot and his package was right at my arm... then when we got to the chair.. there was no doubt the dude had a total boner and we rubbing it on me...my arm.. my hand etc.. at first i was like stiff as a board not moving my arm... but eventually i relaxed and he knew i didnt have a problem with it. now the guy him self was cute.. slim little latin or phillipino ish type guy..not my type really to hook up or anything but cute nonetheless.. he got so ballsy that hed like wipe the hair off the.. my lap over the cape thing....

    anyway the humorous part of all this is that he took way longer to do my hair then was needed.. and he blew dry it which i never do so by the end I had this huge buffount hair that I had to have him re wet and spike just to look normal..

    when i left he gave me his card with his home number.. i never called him back and I never went back to the place to get my hair cut.. lol

    but it was a fun time anyway !
     
  16. No_Strings

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    I've never had a male barber.

    A breast in the face is hard not to smile at. :biggrin1:
     
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    That's what I tell my dentist :wink: and her hygienist. Actually, thinking about it, that applies to the previous two dentists and the previous hygienist.

    I always look forward to a trip to the dentists and always come out smiling. :biggrin1:
     
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    I never had this happen to me with a guy but I had an incident with a female hairdresser. I posted it somewhere else on the board. While I was getting a shampoo, the girl kept bumping her tits against me. I think it was unintentional, but I got a raging boner. Since I was laying back, my boner was pretty obvious down my right leg. Low rise jeans can't really conceal a boner! I looked up to see if she noticed and she was looking at it nonstop. She really started throwing passes at me after this. Commenting on my clothes, and touching my chest as she talked about my tshirt and what not. Embarassing, but funny experience.
     
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    Holy Crap!!! That vid makes me want to run out and get a haircut.........NOW!!!!:eek:
     
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    I want to go to this hair salon from now on!
     
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