Bare backed for 1st time!

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I agree. In two weeks, I will be bottoming for the first time, my BF and I are in a long distance relationship and going on 18 months. We have taken it very slow. Both of us are disease free, tested many times. But he has only topped a couple of times in the past (years ago). So we plan to fuck bareback. Let the firing squad begin...:biggrin1:

This is a very different scenario. You guys are much older than the OP and his beau, and you've been involved much longer. After 18 months, you most probably know your BF warts and all.

As I mentioned above, you're taking an educated risk: I say good for you. Have fun.
 

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This is a very different scenario. You guys are much older than the OP and his beau, and you've been involved much longer. After 18 months, you most probably know your BF warts and all.

As I mentioned above, you're taking an educated risk: I say good for you. Have fun.
Thank you. :) That is true:smile:
 

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Silly inconstancies... Either was a virgin, or had sex with you before...

Now, me myself, I never wear a condom.
Then, again, I don't have sex while not wearing one.
Hmmm, that seems to cause a problem for me...
 

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It is an incredible feeling isn't it. I just discovered the incredible and different feeling of fucking him from behind while he lays on his stomach. Orgasmic.
 

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This is great! How am I younger than the OP yet more mature??

You are 24? most people are college graduates by then/in the working force/past their teen days into something more mature.

You are dating an 18 year old, who is probably still in highschool/has just passed highschool. The point being that he around that age/mindset. Theres a 6 year difference.

He mentioned that he has been his 18-year-old bf's longest relationship! a whopping two months! and theyre already jumping to unprotected sex because they "trust each other".

Not only that, both are "straight acting" gay guys and the OP even had a fiancee. So both were fucking around with girls meaning NOT VIRGINS. Who knew what those girls were fucking.

Why would he lie to you? to get some cock. Maybe he doesnt even know....and apparently the OP isnt even sure of his own bf, and apparently, they already have issues, I guess two months IS a lifetime. Theyre already arguing in the most infactuated phase of the relationship. sweet.

Btw, why is everyone talking to this guy like he's an inexperienced 15 year old? the guy is 24. Hes old! He should know better by now. I get that hes coming to terms with his sexuality/bla bla, but at a physical/sex level, its still the same thing!

If he wants to do stuff, balls to him.
Congrats, on your first relationship. But seriously, the dude is 18.
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hmm, and to think I came here for the erotic stories. OP, your recollections arent hot enough. Needs more hot details.
 

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7"24;3787880 said:
He said it didn't hurt as much as with a condom? Lol.

Condoms don't hurt if you use more lube. Even the ones that proclaim they are lubricated need more lube, especially if your cock is thick and he's relatively inexperienced at bottom.

I always have some condoms in the glove box of my car. When I go on a date (even if I'm not expecting sex), I always have a few condoms in my jeans pocket. Even if you're already naked in the back seat, it only takes a few seconds of feeling around on the car floor to find your jeans and put a condom on.
 

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Yes, people should be carefull, and no, barebacking is not nec. stupid. It depends on the person you are with. My only gay encounter was safe and fun, it lasted some time, and it was a close friend. I am still friends with him, though we never fool around. I know I could and can trust him, so I don't think that was a risk. None of us can determine if the case the OP tells about was risky, so it is always clever to advice him to not do it again, but we should go on a rampage about how his bf is a dog, or how stupid he is. Ultimately he is the judge in this case. He is taking a risk, but not nec. a great risk. But use a condom, then you don't have to ponder.
 

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WOW the perception of the Internet. How about a little back story. Yea I'm 24 and dated a girl when I was 19 who I thought I loved I hadn't become comfortable enough to know I was bi, I thought the feelings would go away. I ended with her and came out to her. I didn't want to lead her on. I am an incredible person Who is honest and faithful. I Had never had sex with a guy before him, and he had never had sex with a guy before me. He is young but who the fuck cares, I sure as hell know when I was 18 I still made good decisions. He likes older guys who cares. It's funny cougars can go around fucking teens but if it's a guy it's a HUGE deal. Guess what we have been together almost 3 months, LOVE each other. Are learning about and exploring what being gay means to us, and we don't need another fucking asshole judging us. I have been on this board since 2007, and on September 20, 2012 I'll be sure to remind you that it's our one year anniversary.