Bareback anal? Difference?

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Any bottoms ever used the female condoms? Do the tops like them better? It seems like they might add a different dimension to fucking for the top.
 

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Might be better for the top, but the bottom, if properly lubed (which you better be anyway) shouldn't be able to tell the difference. Great deal for the top, lousy deal for the bottom, who's the one at risk anyway. Moral of the story: use rubbers.

I'll admit one thing is missing for the bottom: when the top cums, the whole fuck loosens up because of the extra shot of lube he's fired into you. But once again, adequate lube from the start takes care of that problem.
 

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I have bb all my gay life. When I came out bb was consider to be the norm and not no more dangerous for a gay as compare to his str8 counterpart. The bottom does feel a height physical sensation. As the cock pumps the your ass you feel a sensation of pleasure, heat, and the cock massages a trucnk of nerves that runs along the anus as well as stimulates the prostate.
 

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Bareback is so much better than condoms. It feels nicer for both partners. It's also more romantic as you feel more close to him. I only do it with condoms until I've known a guy for about two months and we are both monogamous (and HIV -). You need to be more clean though for bareback.
 
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Bareback is so natural.Your flesh fully contacting hers.Like the classic Archmedis experiment one feels the outer surface of the cock goes in and out through the cunt rubbing her inner walls fully without the feeling of that latex barrier separating the flesh .And better the woman be on pills having no fear of pregnancy so that she invites you to cum deep inside her .If the fear of regnancy be there better fuck her ass and deposit your cum deep inside her anus than spray outside.
 

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I love hearing people say not to bb with strangers or poz peeps. Gee. Thanks. As a poz man who's responsible that makes me feel as attractive as a leper. Ugh.*

Do you have a certificate of your fella's blood results.*

Thanks for exposing the HI virus. Idiots who want to diss us poz peeps as "not worth it" or " too much hassle" can go a d get fucked.*

Oh, and the "double entendre" of that is deliberate.*

I didn't ask for an STI. Did they?*

Turds.*
 

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Wanna judge Poz people any more?

Why did I get it when you didn't? (I NEVER bb'd before I got diagnosed. EVER. Not ONCE)

Posts like these make me furious when you see people's HIV phobia. I'm hell of a lot more than that!
 
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I met a girl last week, very sexy and fun. We did bareback anal (my first ever bareback experience actually), it was very good and hot...i enjoyed it..

bitch then tells me shes an escort, lol smh. Need to get tested asap
 

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Hey Auz - I don't think anyone means to be insensitive - HIV is something that some people have and does not define the person - I have a lot of + ve friends and regularly put people straight about their bigotry or blarzay attitude. Very few people choose to be +ve but with the better meds live a typically normal life (if here is such a thing.

Some people refer to HIV as the worst thing you can get from being non-condomed - there are a lot worse diseases to catch - so we should all be careful str8 or gay -

With regard to the Thread Topic.. I have topped and bottomed bareback and wrapped and prefer bareback - the sensation is better for both I feel





"It's not worth it". Imagne how that feels. First the "it". Um that refers to me, the person. Am I not worth it? I didn't fucking ask for HIV.
 

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"It's not worth it". Imagne how that feels. First the "it". Um that refers to me, the person. Am I not worth it? I didn't fucking ask for HIV.

You sound a little bitter. Understandably, up to a point.

But life, and these kinds of conversations ( online / offline ) are a combination of logic, and feelings/values ...

Logically, most people ( maybe including the past versions of you :confused: ) would prefer not to have HIV, given the option. That's all they are really saying ...

I've had friends pass away. And some people who were HIV positive in the 1980s are still alive and well. The losses, in the apparently random context of who lives, and who dies, sometimes sadden me.

But, that doesn't mean we should not value another person, just as highly, whether they are living with HIV or not. I think things have moved on, quite a lot, with treatment, viral load testing, and so on ... but some people's minds are still stuck in the late 1980s. Again, that's nobody's "fault", it's just that people did need better information in public health campaigns back then, and some of it didn't really get updated, in individual people's minds. That's how everything goes - science, culture, religion, politics - we don't always move at the same pace.

But most of us see sense in the end :smile:

We know that a person is a bundle of thoughts and feelings, interests and skills, a grainstore of experiences, and things to enjoy, things to give. It's a state of Grace. And we know that that applies, whatever tiny things might be in their blood.
 
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The real difference for me is in loving and trusting and experiencing the history that's there between my husband and me. There's difference in sensation, yes, but it's not nearly enough for me to ever consider fucking bareback outside of a trusting, loving, long-term, monogamous relationship. (I know there are folks who play safe with others and go bare with their primary partners! I'm not hating on that, but monogamy is what works for me.)

And, to be honest, good oral without a condom feels better than anal with or without a condom anyway.
 

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The female (internal) condom is definitely closer to bb for both top and bottom. And coconut oil will not deteriorate the condom material - so you can really feel the heat.