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  1. mehgah

    mehgah New Member

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    Hi there:

    So I'm having a bit of an argument with a friend: without tainting anyone's responses, what are the defintions of the 4 bases... that is, what does it mean when you've gotten to first base, second base, third base, and all the way with a guy/girl?

    Hopefully I can depend on this community to school the lad.
     
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    I'm not sure. I think 1st Base is getting kissed.

    And I think 3rd is something sexual. Otherwise, I'm clueless. Sorry dude! :biggerGrin:
     
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    1st is kissing, 2nd is heavy touching, 3rd is genital touching, home base is sex.
     
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    No wonder some guys call it a home-run when they're in bed with me. Truely, one mentioned that, and now I finally know what he meant.
     
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    As far as I'm concerned:

    1st base- kissing

    2nd base- petting

    3rd base- oral sex

    Home- self explanatory.
     
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    Ah, see.. Now that there have been a few posts, I can explain where the argument comes in...

    Everyone agrees that first base is kissing and second base is petting or 'copping a feel'... the issue comes with third base: is third base contact with the genitals (as in could be a hand job, masturbating the other partner, etc), or is it strictly oral sex?

    Personally, I feel that it's any genital contact (short of a medical exam :smile:), but my friend feels it's strictly an oral sex base.

    Any ideas?
     
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    When I was in high school (in New Jersey, almost 20 years ago; either factor could be significant in a discussion of regional linguistics), the usage went:

    1st - making out (not just a smooch)
    2nd - contact with tits
    3rd - contact with pussy
    4th - insertion of penis (*)

    (*) not explicitly stated, but implied, that penis was inserted into vagina, as opposed to any other orifice.

    This, of course, was strictly the guy's perspective, as my high school was all-boys. I don't know if girls used different definitions.

    Also, by the time I got to college (New Jersey again, approx. 15 years ago), the term "hook up" (two words, used as a predicate) had been established to mean "shoot a load with a chick," regardless of how said load was caused or aimed.

    In retrospect, I'm now intrigued by the fact that there didn't seem to be a "base" for getting a blow job. The only explanation I can think of is that this is something the girl does, as opposed to something the girl lets the guy do to her. Since the "base" system, as we used it, seemed to be primarily a measure of conquest, that might explain this quirk.
     
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    3rd base meant finger fucking, not oral sex, according to what I learned. Of course the world may have changed since my 6th grade heterosexuality class.
     
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    It's always understood it to be:
    1st base - kissing
    2nd base - touching the breasts
    3rd base - touching the genitals
    home run/4th base - sex (including oral sex)
     
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