Bath House Experience

[al1011]

Went to a Korean Spa. While there was a guy who i think was with another guy. The one guy was in a tub and was turned around relaxing and starring at me constantly we caught eyes but I looked the other way. As a bi-curious guy I wasnt sure how to take it, what to do next. I did look a few more times and catch eyes but not sure what his intentions were?

Then there was another guy who sat in the loung chair near the pool, he was my age, he was sitting at the end of the chair looking at the pools constantly not sure what he was looking at. At one point I was like do i engage with him or do I ignore him???? Felt like he was bi-curious or gay too but he didn't seem like he wanted to join anyone. He kepted hitting the saunas and cold showers thats it.

Then this other guy sat at the end of the pools with his legs open looking like he was stressed out. He didnt say anything . He had his elbows down. His cock was really big and wasnt erect... Not sure what his intentions were either.

Just as a bi-curious guy these 3 situations I had no idea what I should do without appearing like stalker? So may signals, no idea if or what i would do if happened again..

 

[al1011]

Bumping this up any feedback?

 

[jaybee0560]

Went to a Korean Spa. While there was a guy who i think was with another guy. The one guy was in a tub and was turned around relaxing and starring at me constantly we caught eyes but I looked the other way. As a bi-curious guy I wasnt sure how to take it, what to do next. I did look a few more times and catch eyes but not sure what his intentions were?

Then there was another guy who sat in the loung chair near the pool, he was my age, he was sitting at the end of the chair looking at the pools constantly not sure what he was looking at. At one point I was like do i engage with him or do I ignore him???? Felt like he was bi-curious or gay too but he didn't seem like he wanted to join anyone. He kepted hitting the saunas and cold showers thats it.

Then this other guy sat at the end of the pools with his legs open looking like he was stressed out. He didnt say anything . He had his elbows down. His cock was really big and wasnt erect... Not sure what his intentions were either.

Just as a bi-curious guy these 3 situations I had no idea what I should do without appearing like stalker? So may signals, no idea if or what i would do if happened again..

Really not sure what you're asking here - what are you looking for - advice on how to guage whether they are interested in playing?

Lets say the question here is "What can I do to see if the guys at this sauna are interested in playing"

Well - that depends on a few things - primarily, is this joint a known cruise or is it just a normal spa where guys go?

If it's a cruise - standard rules apply. Make light eye contact as opposed to locking in on someone.

Touch your dick just a little bit - maybe rest your hand on the top of it and give it a little adjust - while leaving your hand there.

See if they reciprocate by putting their hand on their dick - if they make more eye contact or watch your hand more intently - that sort of thing..

If its just a straight sauna that is not a cruise at all and guys are just there - I would definitely leave well enuff alone unless there is some absolute incontrovertible sign that the other guy is interested.