Bathhouse? Anyone?

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  1. bi69male

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    Thinking of going to one of the local bathhouses for the first time. Anybody have any experience at one? What can I expect? I have all of these wild visual images of hot sex taking place in the everywhere in the open.....:tongue:
     
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    Fat old men in flip flops, sticky floors, the smell. But then I'm not a fan, I'm sure you'll love it.
     
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    there are a few in the hollywood/la/long beach area that i would like to go to. but i dont have the balls to go at the moment. (no pun intened) hehehe

    - Midtowne Spa
    this is the company i want to try. im close to the wilmington and or los angeles one.

    Midtowne Spas are clubs that cater to the gay and bisexual community. Open 24 hours, 7 days a week. We provide a social environment, where gay and bisexual men can meet and enjoy each other's company, “A Safe Place For Men To Play Safely”. We offer private rooms or personal lockers for our guests. Each club is unique, amenities such as swimming pools, whirlpools, steam rooms, saunas, workout equipment and more vary from club to club check the individual clubs home page for what is offered.


    Los Angeles Bathhouses & Sex Clubs - GayCities Los Angeles
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    i guess im alittle freaked from going cause of "Fat old men in flip flops" hilaire .... if i were to go to one...i would want to go and soak in the spa, swim, and maybe jo alittle with someone, go to the sauna or steam room. but working out while nude...not me :p i think im just plan curious to go to one and see what actually goes on behind the doors

    ive had a few friends that went to check it out and actually liked going. now that im working grave yard shift...maybe i'll go. i'll keep you all posted if i do go.
     
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    Hey like I said, I'm just not a fan, don't be freaked out by my review. If I'm honest I've been to a few over the years in different cities around the world, normally with a mate who wanted me to come with them after we'd been out or something like that, I've only been to one on my own once. I've never seen much "working out" going on, unless you count having sex as a workout.

    There are of course lots of hot guys who go to bathhouses, and some people love them and have loads of wild hot times at them, but there are often plenty of dogs aswell as the hotties and the quality of experience can vary a lot. Some places are really clean and some really aren't ( I guess some guys prefer the latter ) and some have lots of hot guys and some don't.

    I prefer my sex a little more spontaneous and about real chemistry so that's probably why I don't enjoy bathhouses. But like I said some guys I know love them.
     
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    I'm too old now for bath houses...but, in my 20's..i damn near lived at steamworks in chicago...
    I'd bring a pair of shower shoes, and ur own clean up stuff, in a back pak and poppers if u enjoy them..
    lube, is a good idea if ur looking for anal sex..giving or receiving..
    and your choice of condoms. the ones that they provide never worked for me...after a couple of thrusts, they were all shattered and torn..
    so i bought the XL's for myself.
    if ur hung, opt for a private room...guys will pester you until u give em what they want. if ur going into the blow job room...the shower shoes are a must.
    if ur just going thru the many mazes that they have, and ur don't want everyone to be watching u get blown...go to a maze that is not so crowded..if ur into viewing guys getting blown, stay in the main blow job room...u can or will be able to watch 5-7 guys getting head all at the same time..guys line up at a troft...guys who just wanna suck cock, are in the pit which puts their mouths level with the guys cock in the blow job room...it can be fun...if ur an excellent cock sucker, like big into deep throating the monster in ur mouth and taking it all the way down ur fuckin whore throat, other big cocks will slide over for their turn...if ur a cock sucker in the pit, ur considered a whore and will do anything to suck a big cock...i don't write the rules..
    if u dare to ask the cock that ur sucking back to ur room..its unlikely he will go...he is there to show off his cock...and wants a number of guys to suck him off.
    getting a room is good, cuz...u can take a break from all the sex ur having...or u can get off in the room with another guy...
    the room has a porn screen and about 32 channels of all kinds of porn..some str8..my fav..
    watch the time..its goes fast...its normally a 6 hour deal..and if u need more time, stop by the front desk to add time...if u don't the late charge is double what u would of paid and paid for the first 6 hours..
    hope its a good night for u there...i didn't check ur age, but I'd show up after 7pm...it gets crowded after 9pm but by that time all the rooms are filled..
    a room at steamworks is about 25 bucks..if ur not a member, its 20 bucks for a 6 month membership and if u just want to do this on the cheap...buy the one time fuck entrance fee of i think 5 bucks..
    if..ur into recreational sex...bring cialis or viagra...stuff keeps u hard after a few loads of sperm have popped out of your fuckin balls..and then ur good for another view hours of sex
    have fun..be careful, leave most of ur stuff locked in your car...id, the cash to get into the place and a few singles for bottled water etc...its about all u need. car keys, keep them with you in the back pak...i guess that is about it.
    and I'd pop for the room if its ur first time at a place like this..
    r
    I'm in one of these pics...its from a long time ago.
    the other one is what i hope u will find to entertain yourself for a few hours
    good luck
     

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    bi69...Plenty of hot guys go to bathhouses. The bigger issue is learning foi the ones you want to go to what days/nights are the best to go. I've been to plenty of bathhouses and have only once been disappointed (it was a Monday night). Otherwise if you are into showing off or being watched or enjoy multiple partneers (safely please!!), then you will have a great time.
     
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    A trip to the baths can be fun, gruesome or just boring, depending on many different factors.

    When you arrive, expect to find a yearly membership requirement in the $35-$70 range, plus a room fee of about $20 and an admittance fee of $10-$15. You can opt out of a room and just get a locker for about half the room fee, but you won't have a "home base". Most places will offer a "day pass" for less than an annual membership fee, but still expect to spend anywhere from $40 and up to get in. Bring a small container of lube (they sell it at absurdly inflated prices inside), some toys if you'd like and a pair of flip-flops unless you want to risk going home with athlete's foot. Some guys will dress in gear, but most will just be wearing the towel provided at the desk.

    Once inside, you'll find the locker room and nearby an area with open showers, a toilet area, a sauna and a steamroom. Some places have small gym areas with benches and freeweights. Most places have a TV room with something boring but distracting playing; it's almost never porn. Very occasionally there will be a separate porn room. Every one I've been to has a darkroom area which is very very dark.

    90% of the space at the baths involves a maze of hallways with doors to the rental rooms spaced about every 15-20 feet. These rooms have a cot-sized bench about 25" off the floor, another shelf for whatever you choose to lay out (lube, toys, etc) and a light attached to the wall. They are about the size of a broom closet. Some may have porn playing on TVs attached to wall brackets, most do not. Larger rooms may or may not be available at a price.

    These rooms do not have a ceiling. The actual ceiling is usually about 2-3 feet above the tops of the walls. Loud music helps drown out individual conversations, but the sounds of sex are clearly audible over the music. The baths are not a place to find any real privacy.

    Aside from the darkroom and (maybe) the steamroom, it's considered bad form to have sex in any of the public areas and someone from the staff could ask you either to go elsewhere or leave. This does not apply to the closet-sized rooms, however. As you walk through the labyrinth of corridors you'll notice many guys either laying on their bellies or jerking off, waiting for someone to come by and find them interesting. Guys who are fucking with the door open are inviting others to either watch or join in.

    The quality of the crowd depends on lots of factors and will seem hit-or-miss if you're unfamiliar with the club. Most places have a special rate for guys 18-25. Sometimes it's a reduced locker rate, sometimes a reduced admission. Sometimes it's only at specific times or on certain days. Some places are busy at lunchtime and dead in the evenings; some places don't pick up until midnight.

    As with any gay bar I've ever been to, the crowd will always be eclectic regardless of any specifically themed "special". A Leather night will attract not just burly rough types but those who find them desirable but who may not be the type at all. The same applies to Latino night or Bear night.

    You'll always find seniors in a bathhouse regardless of when you go. They're a fact of life. If you're not attracted, either ignore them or, if approached, tell him you're not interested. Trust me, there will always be plenty of other guys roaming around whom you'll find more desirable.

    Lots of guys prefer bathhouses because there's an anonymous quality to these places which makes them very discrete, and a get-straight-to-business quality that makes them very efficient. Some guys will pop a load and leave, others will fuck all night. Most guys are just there for the sex, though I've met couples who found each other at the baths, too. You never know.

    Some places are very swank. The Club Ft Lauderdale has weight machines and a lovely heated pool. Some places are skeezy, moldy pus-holes; there's a place in Miami like that. Most are indifferently maintained by a management who is looking to maximize the return on their investment and fall somewhere in between. I've found that there's rarely a huge difference in price between the spa-like bathhouses and the biohazards.

    And I've found that the crowd doesn't vary so much from club to club, but what they'll do once inside will. Safer sex is the rule at most nicer places, with bowls of condoms everywhere and posters going over the basics of safer-sex practices and the danger of Meth use all over. The skeezier places tend not to emphasize any of those, but will still have condoms available for free at the desk. But bear in mind that in most communities most guys who go to the baths go to all of the bathhouses depending on their mood.

    Each individual is responsible for his own sexual health; it's best to assume that everyone is HIV positive and behave accordingly. It's up to you to decide the risks and rewards of oral sex, but obviously engaging in bareback anal with someone whose health you're unaware of is extremely risky behavior regardless of what they look like or how they act or what role they take sexually. The safest sex in places like this is one-on-one or in a room where you can verify that condoms are used correctly, not in the darkroom with guys coming and going from all directions.
     
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    You don't say where you are so I can't help you out with specific ones.....
    Why not just go and see if it has a gym. Get a locker, work out a bit and investigate.....if you like it you can go back for more or not, you've not invested a lot into it.....most places let you go for the day and not have to pay an annual fee.
    Love bathhouses.....there's something for everyone in them!
     
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    There is a good one in San Francisco (Euros) not sure if its still there, on a good night you can catch some hot guys there. The best one I ever been to was a bath house in San Diego, just a mile or so from the Marine base ;-) hint hint! I always had a good time there and there were always hot guys lookin for a good release. But I have to agree with some of the above comments, some places have alot of old or dirty people and unhealthy conditions. The other thing I hate about bath houses is when a guy wants some of you, he tends to get real pushy and follow you around. But the thing I love about them is you can gather a crowd while your gettin fucked, I love being watched. Definitely assume that everyone there is HIV pos, and wear condoms, and don't let no one stick their fingers in your ass. They grab everyones cock and alot of guys have precum on their hands. I also love the private rooms and steamrooms in these places. The video rooms tend to get a lil boring. Enjoy and be safe.
     
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    That totally isn't the case in Edinburgh. Trust me. Well, I suppose it depends on which one you go to.

    Really. Another stock pic? Do tell.
     
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    Depends on where you live. I know that there are a few in my area and on certain nights, you can get tons of action. Other nights there are wall to wall trolls. Also, are you a top or bottom? There are a few gay sites with reviews on local bathhouses that might help.
     
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    never went to a bath house..but a massage parlor in philly i went to in 1993(i was 23 and stupid) was the best worst experience i had sexually in my life..
    i got great oral sex from the hot asian massuse...she was knowingly teasing me getting me close to orgasam but not taking it there(she went underneath my towel when she turned me on my back)she asked if i wanted to fuck(for more money of course) and hastily i said "HELL YES"
    and in the rush i had sex with her unprotected!!!!!!!!
    so a week later...i had chlamydia!!!
    the moral of the story...use your brains,and a condom...
     
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    Thanks for all the comments. I am in Dallas and we only have 2 here, The Club and Midtowne Spa. I'm a top that is considering being vers.....
     
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    Yeah I was wondering about the REALLY OBVIOUSLY PHOTOSHOPPED picture too wtf ?:biggrin1::eek:
     
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    So VERY VERY TRUE! Bbucko dispense wise advice. Sit at his feet and pay attention!

    But please! Say it ain't so my dear Bbucko! No out-in-the-open sex? Now, here we have a MAJOR difference in tribal sexual practices between Anglo and Latino sauna (bath house) cultures. Of course, Latinos do like to show off (or so has been my experience).
     
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    amazing how quick ur thinking one of the pics is my cock...
    think again...the upside is..u never cease to amaze me
     
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    amazing how quick ur thinking one of the pics is my cock...i never suggested or hinted i was one of the two cocks..the pic is 20 years old taken at Steam works in Chicago.
    but, i yield to your correct thinking and remarks...for they are correct, given the way you process.
    if u should want a different outcome, perhaps, change the way ur processing...for currently u know in advance what ur outcome will always be. and if u ever should tire of people running away from u rather then to you...then change the way you process...its a guarantee that you will have a different outcome.
    good luck to you...
    make it a great weekend...
     
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    Your very funny, I didn't even say i thought any of those pictures was of you, I was just surprised that one of them was so obviously photoshopped.

    P.S. the advice aswell as not making much sense sort of makes you sound nuts. :tongue:
     
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    I'm sorry, did we misunderstand something? Where didn't you say you were in one of those pictures? Of course, perhaps you're just the hand.
     
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