So VERY VERY TRUE! Bbucko dispense wise advice. Sit at his feet and pay attention!
But please! Say it ain't so my dear Bbucko! No out-in-the-open sex? Now, here we have a MAJOR difference in tribal sexual practices between Anglo and Latino sauna (bath house) cultures. Of course, Latinos do like to show off (or so has been my experience).
Although it's been about 15 years since I've been to one, the bathhouses in Paris followed the same general pattern I described above (swank to skeeze) except that there were places for public exhibitionism and sex in addition to the tiny, private
cabines.
There was an especially clean and well-equipped place just north of the
Grands Boulevards where a little muscleman and I cavorted in the jacuzzi trading blowjobs and another within spitting distance of the
Gares du Nord et de l'Est that had a rather nice glory hole room outfitted with dozens of holes in all sizes and heights where I gorged myself while be jerked from behind by a splendid piece of Gallic masculinity all in the open.
But the Anglo-Saxon puritan streak dies hard even in Sunny SoFla. Beyond some titty tugging and deep kissing, very little happens in the common areas of the places I've been to as recently as a month ago. Though, as I've written, few have qualms about rutting with the door to one's room ajar. This seems to be acceptable to the more circumspect sensibilities here.