i hold that a major underpinning of homophobia rests with the fact that gay men found ways to integrate getting off into every crack and crevice of our daily lives. straight men are jealous of this because the bar is that much higher to score with a woman than for 2 men to hook up.
as far as public restrooms go, there is a time and a place for everything, and that is college. used to bring my books and notes to study in the t rooms at my university and wait for hot studs to play with.
but in new york city, at least until guiliani installed 'cruise control' partitions and other eliminations of gang pissing facilities, the public restrooms were a place of awe.
at grand central station before the refurb, there were cavernous mens rooms with urinals on one side and doorless shitter stalls on the other. invariably, hot black dudes with monster dicks would be stroking all about for all to see. wild fucking shit.
also, at penn station, there are two sides of the men's room that are now cruise controlled with partitions that used to serve as after work wankathons. again, the biggest rock hard black cocks imaginable were proudly on display.
the port authority bathrooms are bereft of cruise control partitions but they are patrolled by cleaning teams and cops.
but prior to the refurbishings, it was possible to take the nyc subway and transit network from squirt to squirt with the beautiful diversity that nyc is known for sporting rock hard beautiful big dicks for your wanking pleasure.