i appreciate you being upfront and honest as well being genuine from what i can tell in trying not to offend these topics always kinda leave me with a bad taste in my mouth (i think it does for other black men hence the lack of responses from them when it comes to these topics, especially with how often they come here) so i think ill give this a once over..an try and break this down
I'm not trying to argue that this is about race and I'm certainly not racist but one thing I've never understood is the obsession with 'BBC'. The idea that they're somehow better, bigger, more exciting etc. It's all rather objectifying as well with all the "my wife wants a bbc" posts out there.
I got that your not a racist lol thanks for making that clear, i think porn adds to that stereotype more then anything and everyone watches porn...to add to that its really a numbers game if you break it down the U.S. population is 12.6% black thats really not alot of black men if you think about it so plenty of people grow up not really being around black people im sure that adds to this...with anything you don't really know/understand/relate to your either gonna fear/hate it (racism) or be fascinated by it (the bbc fetish) and of course those who dont feel either way, thats pretty much what i get from it....
To me, it's not the color of the cock that matters. All big cocks are exciting and great as are lot of the men attached to them. I've seen plenty of other big cocks of different races and I don't think it's a valid thing to say black men are the only ones with big cocks. Or that black men on average have bigger cocks. It's a porn myth. And I just feel like this whole BBC thing is a sick fetish I don't understand based on false information and objectifying ideation. A sort of 'stunt' cock if you will.
I think my number thing touches on that a little...who really knows who's the biggest on average, and it's apparent people care...cause people post their personal statistics on which race is hung/not hung on average here all the time (based on sex parties they attend/work in the medical field/gym experiences only comparable to that of a bigfoot sighting that always go "i swear he was atleast 9 inches limp" lol)...i will agree this fetish has its extremes ive been called a nigga in pm or had "nigga fuck me" messages from non black people on other sites before ive even said anything more times then i can count, its weird cause i cant ever tell if its from a place of hate or extreme eroticism (on their part) its usually best not to respond to the message and think nothing of it or at most assume its not from a bad place...im lost on your stunt cock comment...
Why do black men even participate in this? They're being used as a piece of meat in this sort of fantasy and it's certainly degrading to them.
I think i mentioned it before but some are willing to be anothers fantasy, some arent...im sure it works the same way for white women and men of other races in some cases..or to go even farther women who participate in sex with others who have a fetish with age, breast size, ass, hair, feet etc...really no different, it just the opposite gender in this case and i guess and really specific
So, why the obsession with BBC?
I don't get it! Anyone else that doesn't?
I dont either but my first response is my theory...not to sound like one of those guys, but i usually notice its women that dont really date/socialize with a black man/men who usually ask this question ( i see this one alot on the internet too) and it would be refreshing to hear this question from a woman who actually does to be perfectly honest