This is my first post, so forgive me if there is lack of protical. DC and others have made some very relivant points.
Due to my upbring and initiating into sex at a very early age, I always thought of myself as a "bottom" or "submissive". When I first truly cared about the person I was with, I discovered a different side of myself existed that I didn't know was there. As a result of this, I learned that people are multifaceted and that even though the consexual quick fuck can be fun, when you truly care about another person, I think you feel more free to express yourself sexually and allow the other person to do the same.
By th way I was raised in a Mormon community, if this has any bearing at all!!
