I'm seeing a guy that really likes to be dominated. I've been reading all of HolyBlue's posts, and have always been intrigued when DC_Deep would post little bits and pieces regarding that form of play.
Anyway.
While my personality is somewhat dominate and bossy , sometimes I find it hard to give orders and be as dominate as he'd like me to be in bed. I want to, and sometimes I can get there quicker than others, but I've found that I do have a hard time initiating it. I guess maybe my problem is that I run out of creativity. We have sex A LOT and there are only so many things I can do to him or make him do before I'm like...okay, didn't we just do this?
Another problem I've run into is that D/s sex can often times end up being mostly rough hard sex. How do you have slow passionate sex being a Dom? Would he still feel dominated if I said something like "I'm going to fuck you nice and slow tonight" instead of what I'd usually say "Get your fucking cock out so I can fuck you"...which leads to the rough stuff.
Any ideas/suggestions and further discussion on this topic would be helpful for me, and maybe others.
So! HB? DC? Teach me....:biggrin1:
Anyway.
While my personality is somewhat dominate and bossy , sometimes I find it hard to give orders and be as dominate as he'd like me to be in bed. I want to, and sometimes I can get there quicker than others, but I've found that I do have a hard time initiating it. I guess maybe my problem is that I run out of creativity. We have sex A LOT and there are only so many things I can do to him or make him do before I'm like...okay, didn't we just do this?
Another problem I've run into is that D/s sex can often times end up being mostly rough hard sex. How do you have slow passionate sex being a Dom? Would he still feel dominated if I said something like "I'm going to fuck you nice and slow tonight" instead of what I'd usually say "Get your fucking cock out so I can fuck you"...which leads to the rough stuff.
Any ideas/suggestions and further discussion on this topic would be helpful for me, and maybe others.
So! HB? DC? Teach me....:biggrin1: