Being a man is a test very few men ever/consistently passes.
We all try to be men doing things that we think are the things men are suppose to do
but we often don't feel man enough ... most of us the clever books say.
For me being a man is being honest with myself, having confidence, standing up for
what I believe in, getting angry when it is appropriate to do so, pissing outside, not
wearing moisturiser which is not labelled "for me" (yes I have fallen for the marketing),
having a wank, having cum stains in my underwear sometimes, looking after children,
being kind, and fierce, not always knowing the answer but being a little stubborn to
ask for help ... and many many more things.
Would love to actually meet men in London from this site if anyone is keen.