If you are in a chat room, and you ask someone if it's okay if you IM them, be prepared to be rejected! Not all people are in the mood for IM's, and I, frankly, was in a heated debate about the naming of Frank Zappa's children and didn't feel a desire to strike up a new conversation with someone different. So instead of being a man and backing away, the guy gets upset and then calls me a whore. Thought I'd share this with the board. :smile: