Bearing down using toys - advice from bottoms

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Does anyone know the reason why I would be bearing down (as when you are taking a crap) when playing with anal toys? I can be riding a 7" dildo or performing prostate massage and then get these really intense 'bearing down' sensations??? I don't normally have any session without first going to the toilet and emptying anything in there.
If you're a bottom does this usually happen or is it an experience thing to not let this sensation happen ?
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Thanks lightining,

So would it be a sensation everybody goes through? and as you said, you just have to learn to 'overide' it with practice?
 
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Thanks lightining,

So would it be a sensation everybody goes through? and as you said, you just have to learn to 'overide' it with practice?[/QUOT

Yes. The bearing down is a technique used to open your sphincter and allow for easier entry of dido or penis or other toy. As you try to insert a toy, bearing down helps open your sphincter and make insertions easier. This is something you can learn to manage.
 

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Does anyone know the reason why I would be bearing down (as when you are taking a crap) when playing with anal toys? I can be riding a 7" dildo or performing prostate massage and then get these really intense 'bearing down' sensations??? I don't normally have any session without first going to the toilet and emptying anything in there.
If you're a bottom does this usually happen or is it an experience thing to not let this sensation happen ?
Thanks

What you are experiencing is an anal orgasm. When the dildo is inserted deep enough it will penetrate what some call the "second hole". When this area is stimulated it sends a signal to you brain that there is something there (as when there is feces there and you need to use the toilet - not to sound too graphic) and will send a wonderful feeling throughout your body. You body will then produce light "lubrication" and you will feel the need to bear down. Make sure not to pull the dildo out but instead push it in further and breathe. The sensation will diminish but if you continue it will happen again.

I discovered this when using my Aneros. At first I didn't know what it was but I felt like I was cumming without any ejaculation. Over time I found that I could make myself have multiple anal orgasms to the point where I would have fluid (not poo) leaking from my hole. Honestly I find them even more fulfilling than an ejaculation from my penis and am usually spent after a good long session.

If you watch any porn with top with huge cocks you might see the bottom having anal orgasms when they are being fucked their breath catches and you can see them bear down. Guys like Andy Star will coat the tops cock in their juices and you can see the fluid run out of them when the top pulls out.
 
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So I found this that will show you what I'm talking about. BBC goes deep. Seth has anal orgasms throughout the video (as evidenced by the wetness coating the huge cock). Go to 18:45 and you can see and hear when it happens as Seth stops breathing and bears down.

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I’m wondering if that white substance is just the lube. I’ve noticed that whenever I do intense dildo play for awhile the lube will sort of cream up. But I can also experience my cock spasm from just the thrusting, especially if I pull up on it suddenly.
 

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I’m wondering if that white substance is just the lube. I’ve noticed that whenever I do intense dildo play for awhile the lube will sort of cream up. But I can also experience my cock spasm from just the thrusting, especially if I pull up on it suddenly.

If you don't see it at the beginning the answer is no.