...we get so many "rules" about what we can/can't do, it takes away our humanity...
Dude relax, this thread is a refreshing literary masterpiece.
I like to take men as I find them. It might not be the way you want to live, but there is nothing inherently homophobic here. Btw, behaviour is no certain indication of what individual people do, or do not, find erotic.
If homophobia has taken away your humanity, then I'd like to respectfully suggest that it might be time for you to claim your right to your individual life, and take responsibility for your own personal happiness, and well being. No rant on LSPG can help you with that.
Before you think of attacking me personally, you might like to read some of my other posts first. If you choose to take issue with what I have said here, please feel free to pm me rather than hijack a valuable thread. Thanks.