Because i'm on lpsg i have no right to complain about being sent an unsolicited dick pic

[AlteredEgo]

I post opinions here, agreeing, disagreeing, expressing. It's one of the reasons I do not visit chartrooms.

This is the original post....

"I actually feel sad for men that believe that because a woman is on a big dick site that it's free reign to send them dick pics. I just had some guy message me and when I told him I actually would have spoken to him if he didn't send the dick pic, he tries to justify it by being horny. Then when I disagree apparently there is something wrong with me and I have a big head. Oh and also no sane man would want me because I'm on a big dick site... which is why I'm alone.

How fucking sad. So many sad, clueless men in one place. But the decent guys on here make up for it"

Why feel sad? Why feel "" fucking sad" ? Apparently the guy says "there is something wrong with her".

I am not being dismissive of rtg's post, I am being dismissive of his reply online, text comments.

I can't control what she reads, writes, looks at or does not want to look at. I never would want to.

If she feels it interferes in her life, there is nothing I can do with that either. Other than to say...delete it.

I can't wave a magic wand and delete online dickheads in the world........I may disappear myself ( not for dick pics)

It's a discussion topic. rtg is feeling sad being sent dick pics. I don't know what would make rtg happy? Maybe she has mentioned that, but it's late, and I really do not have enough sleep up my sleeve to miss any more.

Feeling sad for someone is a figure of speech that means you pity them, not that you actually feel sadness. You have missed the entire point of the thread, and are either still missing it, or are backpedaling. Unfortunate either way.

 

[rtg]

I would only do it if i were much much bigger

How about actually reading my original post before commenting on how you wish you could send dick pics.... In any case, your comment is most unwelcome. This is not the thread for a discussion on how you wish you had a bigger dick, sph (if you're into that) or even wanting to send unsolicited dick pics to women.

 

[Sangana]

Delete it lol

 

[rtg]

Delete it lol

FFS...

 

[XL_Lingam]

I'm new here so I don't really have the right, or the social capital, to offer many criticisms, but Jesus some of the guys on this site come across as never having actually ever interacted with a woman before. And while the women on this site and in this thread are more than capable of taking care of themselves, as a show of support, let me suggest to you dudes how the conversation should go:

Woman: "Don't send me unsolicited dick pics."
Man: "Okay, I won't."

Period. End of sentence. End of discussion. The following are not valid reactions or arguments: "Just delete it." "Oh, but you have nudes...." "Why would you be on this site if..." "But.... but....the Universe revolves around me and my penis."* (*Spoiler alert: it doesn't.)

"Okay, I won't." It's as simple as that.

 

[firsttimecaller]

And if I was on a vagina site I certainly wouldn't want other women sending me photos of their vaginas or breasts!

From the male perspective, a site where that occurs would actually be pretty excellent.

Maybe that's part of the disconnect?

 

[TexanStar]

From the male perspective, a site where that occurs would actually be pretty excellent.

Maybe that's part of the disconnect?

Only for guys that are so stubbornly socially crippled that they don't understand basic differences in how women tend to approach sex -vs- how men tend to approach it.

This forum is for 18+ and there's really no excuse for anyone to hit age 18 and not know that women, as a general rule, don't want random dick picks lobbed at their inboxes.

It takes an actual effort and general disrespect/dislike of women to maintain such a dumbass outlook. You have to straight up ignore information and requests to the contrary.

 

[Snakebyte]

From the male perspective, a site where that occurs would actually be pretty excellent.

From the male perspective: No thank you. I don't want random pics of pussies or boobs.

 

[firsttimecaller]

From the male perspective: No thank you. I don't want random pics of pussies or boobs.

That's...different.

 

[Snakebyte]

That's...different.

You must have a very low opinion of men in general.

 

[firsttimecaller]

In all seriousness, that's not a common mindset for straight males.

 

[TexanStar]

In all seriousness, that's not a common mindset for straight males.

I dunno man. Random women that you've never spoken to before?

If I was single, and the PM referenced something I've written (Like "Hey, I was reading your post about how you're into women who wear traffic cones on their heads and it just so happens that's my fetish too!"), then sure.

But if I logged in to someone pm'ing me a pic of their vag and asking me if I wanted to send them some pics in return I'd just delete it.

 

[firsttimecaller]

You must have a very low opinion of men in general.

It's not a low opinion. Generally speaking, hetero guys have no problem with some T&A sprinkled into their day.

If there were a bizarro LPSG where women were majority members and any male that signed up and posted a torso shot got inundated with women asking if they have a nice pussy and would you like to lick it, it would be one of the most popular underground forums on the internet.

 

[firsttimecaller]

I dunno man. Random women that you've never spoken to before?

What's wrong with that? Not much different than regular porn.

But if I logged in to someone pm'ing me a pic of their vag and asking me if I wanted to send them some pics in return I'd just delete it.

Yeah, you look, enjoy or get a little queasy, then respond or delete.

After a few hundred you might even get bored of the practice. I doubt though that it would be taken as an affront to your personal sanctity or something.

 

[TexanStar]

What's wrong with that? Not much different than regular porn.

Being sent something is different than me going out and finding it. I only in detail at like 0.5% of the porn I come across anyways (mostly it's me scrolling by thumbnail pics going "no... nope.... uh uh... no way... "

Again, if you want every random vag in the world showing up in your inbox, that's totally fine. That's your thing and nothing wrong with it.

I don't think it's unusual though that not all guys are gonna be into that. There's lots of women who have photo galleries here and most of them I've never looked at. It's usually just if someone posts something interesting that I'll go the step of taking a peek.

 

[firsttimecaller]

Again, if you want every random vag in the world showing up in your inbox, that's totally fine. That's your thing and nothing wrong with it.

I'm not saying I, or any other guy wants that per se, but relatively few would be aghast at the prospect.

I don't think it's unusual though that not all guys are gonna be into that.

I never said anything to the contrary.

I said if you are one of those men, you are a bit of an outlier.

Most men don't mind seeing random (hopefully nice) boob's sprinkled in their day.

 

[TexanStar]

I'm not saying I, or any other guy wants that per se, but relatively few would be aghast at the prospect.

I never said anything to the contrary.

I said if you are one of those men, you are a bit of an outlier.

Most men don't mind seeing random (hopefully nice) boob's sprinkled in their day.

It'd be weird. I would assume they're fishing for dick pics to blackmail me with or something.

If I want to see boob pictures there is an abundance in easy reach (more than I have time to look at).

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Even if I were at a title or pussy site, I still wouldn't send random people my photos. That's what this thread is about.

I rarely send my husband photos because it takes far more than that to excite him. I know he wouldn't enjoy random photos of people he doesn't know.

 

[Nramz]

thought I'd drop an unsolicited dick pic in here

 

[deleted924715]

The men who come in here - Women's Issues - to glibly post that it wouldn't bother them the other way around, or to dictate how the OP should feel or act are outing themselves as the same type of thirsty, entitled manchild that the OP has described. You are protesting too much. You obviously have a dog in this race.

The other guys, the ones who get it and who took the trouble not only to post their support, but to try and educate other men... you guys are awesome