Becoming a bottom

[EquusAZ]

So its odd - I've been a top for - gosh - almost 15 years??? And now @Aithon - though a great bottom is turning me into one? Maybe its his technique - maybe its his ability. All I know is - he starts humping and I'm ready for him. And it feels a bit odd. Good - but odd. Anyone else?

 

[Lakeshore]

My first time was shocking & definitely odd. I made him pull out, too thick. In time I relaxed enough to take him balls deep but it never felt what I've found to be good from my married, bi friends, just too thick for me.

 

[Bakugou_]

I don’t think I can bottom, too much work.
I heard some dont eat anything the entire day before, and then they have to do enemas.

 

[EquusAZ]

But the feeling is so worth the work

 

[MattDorset]

I was the same. I thought I was top with verse tendencies. Then one day a hung guy gave me the best bottom experience ever and now all I think about is which guys could give me what I need as a bottom!

 

[gentle]

Best tops is 9.5 to 10.5 average thickness. that like slow fucking. Stimulation and satisfaction is always guaranteed.

 

[Razor500]

Wow, all so new to me. The only thing that has ever entered my ass is my doctor's latex finger. Ouch. Interesting to hear you guys talk. I never hear about the stink part, or the shit part that must be part of the experience. Not being judgemental, just trying to understand it.

 

[Mogluver]

Wow, all so new to me. The only thing that has ever entered my ass is my doctor's latex finger. Ouch. Interesting to hear you guys talk. I never hear about the stink part, or the shit part that must be part of the experience. Not being judgemental, just trying to understand it.

I have found that the Docs finger is ok. However, get turned on, if alone with porn and hot thoughts, start slow kegels as one rocks back and forth real slowly in the computer chair... work it for a while until the sensations start and my hole is begging for more. Once those nerves wake up, get out of the way and you will have a hungry hole that begs for more.

 

[gentle]

Wow, all so new to me. The only thing that has ever entered my ass is my doctor's latex finger. Ouch. Interesting to hear you guys talk. I never hear about the stink part, or the shit part that must be part of the experience. Not being judgemental, just trying to understand it.

We expereinced bottoms have that figured out

 

[gentle]

So its odd - I've been a top for - gosh - almost 15 years??? And now @Aithon - though a great bottom is turning me into one? Maybe its his technique - maybe its his ability. All I know is - he starts humping and I'm ready for him. And it feels a bit odd. Good - but odd. Anyone else?

Best top is the one who is responds to your sounds and movement. The Big tops I had that was11 inches and bigger, wait until in am really wet and open. I have them to stand, while I raise my ass up and chest down. This is his signal to power fuck me. This is when I cream heavy and he has the opportunity to fuck and bust a strong nut.

 

[gentle]

I have found that the Docs finger is ok. However, get turned on, if alone with porn and hot thoughts, start slow kegels as one rocks back and forth real slowly in the computer chair... work it for a while until the sensations start and my hole is begging for more. Once those nerves wake up, get out of the way and you will have a hungry hole that begs for more.

Make sure you are well lubed and open. ass up and chest down, then you are ready to receive dick good

 

[WilliamG]

This is a great thread. It's should not be surprising that us straight and or curious guys would make the assumption that most gay men have been a bottom at some point. It caught my interest that on another thread some gay men never use anal toys. So much for stereotypes. I would assume that those who bottom have all tried anal toys first. It seems the logical step to get "accustomed" to the feeling. It would be a huge step to go straight from no anal entry to a live cock.

 

[Uncle Rob]

Being a relative new comer to bottoming in that I only had my first time about 3 years ago and have only had it five and a bit times.
I've found that obviously the smaller to average sized guys were easier to take but I seem to have had trouble in finding a guy who is willing to make the effort to relax me and loosen me up beforehand as I do whenever I am with a bottom. In fact one of the guys an Arabian chap i encountered in Paris who's cock was above average in both length and girth totally refused to use lube at all as he said he preferred to use saliva.
The time I refer to as the "bit" was a Dom oriental guy who had a really thick but stubby cock and again had no concept of foreplay or interest in lubrication. He repeatedly attempted to stab me in the ass with this blunt instrument with obviously no success having to make do with vigorously throat fucking me which I must say was quite an enjoyable experience and the first time I'd ever swallowed as I really hadn't much say in the matter lol.
Fairly recently I had the pleasure to meet up with a lovely young man who was not only handsome but so kind and attentive and he took great delight in rimming me for some time before loosening me up progressively with his fingers and plenty of lube making it one of the best experiences I've ever had.
So yes the outcome depends a hell of a lot on who you are with.

 

[gentle]

This is a great thread. It's should not be surprising that us straight and or curious guys would make the assumption that most gay men have been a bottom at some point. It caught my interest that on another thread some gay men never use anal toys. So much for stereotypes. I would assume that those who bottom have all tried anal toys first. It seems the logical step to get "accustomed" to the feeling. It would be a huge step to go straight from no anal entry to a live cock.

Not really, but you should start with a average size dick 7 inches to 8 inches. But remember regardless of size, if your top is not responsive to you and is rough, then the experience will be painful. Remember the bottom controls how much dick is going in and the speed or agressivemenss.

 

[gentle]

So its odd - I've been a top for - gosh - almost 15 years??? And now @Aithon - though a great bottom is turning me into one? Maybe its his technique - maybe its his ability. All I know is - he starts humping and I'm ready for him. And it feels a bit odd. Good - but odd. Anyone else?

Taking dick is amazing. I absolutely love a 10 inch or bigger, that is average to WOW thick. Makes me wet and ass cream. Then I am ready to be a power bottom

 

[Mogluver]

This is a great thread. It's should not be surprising that us straight and or curious guys would make the assumption that most gay men have been a bottom at some point. It caught my interest that on another thread some gay men never use anal toys. So much for stereotypes. I would assume that those who bottom have all tried anal toys first. It seems the logical step to get "accustomed" to the feeling. It would be a huge step to go straight from no anal entry to a live cock.

Back in the day, mid 70's after college, whilst stoned and sucking cock, we ended up fucking. I had never experienced or really understood how everything works, as in those days before internet, the "how to" knowledge came from word of mouth and personal experience. Lube was petroleum jelly, and once he slid in me, I felt such feelings of connection and pleasure that to me it was a good experience. I vividly remember that after he filled me up, whilst leaning over and still rock hard, being held from behind with that slow stroke of his hand on my cock, resulted in a huge cum shot. For me the first experience (he had a good sized 6-7" cock with nice thickness) hooked me for life.