Becoming a sugar baby

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  1. Gecko4lif

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    I have recently be invited to join a... organization... of people that consists of young men and women who are paid by Sugar mommas and daddies for dates, sexual favors etc. The mommas and daddies who join are vetted financially so as to prevent any hoodwinkery.

    Now I am very conflicted as to my opinions about this. One 1 hand im flattered at being approached but on the other hand it seems like quite a skeevy thing to do. But then again I have sex with women now for free so why not get something out of it?

    What are your opinions?
     
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    Sign me up!
     
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    How old are you lol
     
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    i have a suggar brother. treats me real good
     
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    I've never done it before and I haven't had much experience with it but the little exposure I have had makes me think it's pretty pathetic. Obviously it could just be what I've witnessed but there's a guy in town who very obviously treats younger men to financial benefits for being with him (which I find odd because he's good looking and looks 10 years younger than he really is).

    At events his "sugarbaby" basically is forced to follow him around like a puppy and the guy dictates who he talks to, what he eats and drinks and when it is time to leave. The younger guy was talking with a group of us when the older guy walked over, grabbed the drink out of his hand and made him leave mid conversation.

    Obviously your situation could be different but it seems like these sugardaddies and sugarmommas enjoy having financial power over someone. I'd probably put up with it just long enough to get behind the wheel of the Aston Martin the guy in town owns but other than that I don't think I would enjoy being subservient to someone.
     
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    Thats the thing. Im not in a bad spot financially so it wouldn't be like i'd be living on the street without them. At the same time it seems like a very strange lifestyle choice.
     
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    28, and I clean up GOOOOODDDD
     
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    Too old. sorry bro.

    18-25 only
     
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    This reminds me of the old joke....

    Guy says to a girl: "Would you fuck me for a million bucks?"
    Girl: "A million bucks? Really?"
    Guy: "Yup, a million bucks!"
    Girl: "Well, for a million bucks, yeah."
    Guy: "How about fifty bucks?"
    Girl: "Fifty bucks! What do you think I am, a prostitute!!???!!"
    Guy: "We already established what you are, now, we're just talking price."

    If you are fucking for money, then you're a pro. Do it if it feels right to you, if not, don't.
     
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    It seems skeevy because it is. And you know it or you wouldn't be conflicted.
     
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    dang. I would love to get paid for what I'd do for free.
     
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    Ugh. So true.

    Ill probably pass :frown1:
     
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    My thoughts exactly.
     
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    As it so happens I am interviewing potential sugardaddies. I am much older than the usual sugarbabe most are in their 20s but I have my assets haha. I don't see it as paying for sex, it's more like having a wealthy bf that takes care of you. I don't act any different with them as I would with any guy I date. The only problem is that you have to wade through a lot of bullshitters but that is normal when dating anyone.
     
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    The money is good for a reason. The supply of attractive people willing to fuck for money is small but the demand is strong as ever. The supply is strong because most people still hold on to the fact that they believe trading sexual favors for money is morally repugnant.

    I'm not saying it's wrong or immoral - live and let live - but having to explain your foray into prostitution is something most people don't believe is worth the extra cash.
     
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    Doh! You mean.. that's not a pick-up line?
     
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    Non-sense of course it is.

    "Hey bro where did you get this car from?'
    "I bought it"
    "How? You havent had a job in a year"
    "Oh yeah I let this older ceo suck my dick"
    "... what?"
     
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    HA! Yeah, something like that. Or people may just assume you're a drug dealer. Slinging coke versus slinging cock is really only a matter of a vowel and a consonant and state versus federal regulation. Both may involve having to put things in your anus, though.
     
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    In a sense, we are all whores for money--we just do it in different ways. We all have to cowtow in some form or another for our daily bread. It is just some people do it in sexual ways, or pseudo-sexual ways. It still amounts to prostituting yourself, a deal exchange of something you have for money. Only your moral values should dictate if you do it or not, but don't try and sugar coat what it is, or what it isn't. There is no shame in being a whore, only trying to pretend you are not a whore when you are.:biggrin1: Just be honest with yourself and others about the expectations and how far you are willing to go for a buck.
     
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    can i sign up im 18
     
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