Becoming Desensitized towards porno

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  1. Apple718

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    I have found that I have become a bit desensitized to porno. There is so much porno on the internet and so much to be seen that looking at another naked body doesn't really excite me that much anymore. I find that looking at a guy with a tight speedo really turns me on. Imagining what is behind that speedo is exciting. This one video on YouTube gets me going.

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    What do you think about how I feel, and do you somewhat feel this way as well?
     
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    A nice bulge has always been hotter to me than a naked guy in a porno, but I agree...It doesn't really do it for me anymore...lately I've found that erotic stories get me hotter than videos.

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    i agree that bulges and stories are very sexy, but i think that its not just the quantity of the porn that as us all desensetized. but the quality...
    allmost all of the porn nowadays is: muscle marys or twinks kiss violently, suck nipples, cut to both members nude and erect blowing one another, cut to mid fucking scene decorated with "yeah, ooh, take that big cock, yeah, fuck"
    to me thats the problem. no one is flacid and gets an erection on screen, we never see initial penetration characters never talk beyond the usual rediculous comments, the characters are just so fake the sex choreography is lame..

    thats why bulges and stories are very exiting.. because anyone adds the missing parts to their own personal taste.
     
  4. Apple718

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    I use to read hard copies of a magazine called Firsthand. The stories really turned me on to the point of jerking off. I love illustrations with the stories, not real photos. Who ever pays for porno on the web isn't very smart, there is so much free porno on the web these days why pay. hunGreek I feel that you are right. When I was younger I use to go to Gay movie theater's in the late 70's and I like the vintage types and porno wasn't as fast to see as it is today. When you did see it you really got off on it.
     
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    I have to agree with the original poster that there is the threat of being desensitized towards porno..so much so ..that I do not think that many people will even care to read or post anything regarding this. (I hope I am wrong)
     
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    Porn sucks. Really. So much of it is so lame, contrived, and the same old crap.

    Amateur porn is more fun, but it's also basically the same old stuff.

    It all got old to me, too. It's why I almost never save anything to my computer anymore. I know that I can always find more on the internet.
     
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    Exactly what I was going to say. I have been looking at porn for quite awhile (as a kid too..who hasnt). And it doesnt hook me as it used to, I look for more of the sexy things, like cleavage, curves etc etc. Also the bizarre things are "interesting" too but most of that is just down right not my style.
     
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    I'm still waiting to become sensitized.
     
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    It's interesting how far we have come. I remember a line from "Anything Goes" that goes like this: "In olden days a glimpse of stocking was looked on as something shocking, but now God knows ... anything goes."
    How true.
    I have always liked semi-nudity more than the real thing. I share the post's fascination with bulges. I guess it's largely the same in the straight world where men find women in sweaters more erotic than seeing them nude.
    The other day this topic came up on the daily talk show of Dr. Dean Edell (A US talk host with a one-hour medical advice call-in show). He treated the issue of nudity and said that when he was in college he was in an art class. For three hours a woman posed nude in the class. After the class was over he glanced behind a screen to see the woman putting her clothes back on. He suddenly realized he was more turned on with seeing her dressing than seeing her nude.
    Although large penis size is the topic for this Web site, part and parcel of that has to be bulges. I have been to several semi-nude pool parties where guys wore only cocksocks (pull-on pouches that cover only the cock and balls are held on either by elastic around the opening or a drawstring.) I found this much more enticing that if the guys have been walking around nude.
    Many guys who are large are "growers" and are not large when limp. Many I have talked to would trade their hard size for being able to be massive when limp. It is the creation of the bulge that is often more desirable.
    On one other topic, although most porn stars don't want anyone to see how small they are when limp, I hate it that so few porn movies I have seen allow you to start with a limp condition and, though massage or foreplay, see the guy slowly work up. Now that is a nice people of nature.
    Dennis
     
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    :kabong:What a poignant and heartbreaking thread.
     
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    I think it's several things. I for one have several videos that do it for me evertime but then again I also feel that there is a bunch of crap out there. Everyone has there own thresholds towards things. I for one think moderation is the key in life. Even if your watching regular movies after awhile you get tired of watching movies all the time. It may be desensitizing to watch porn but I have not gotten to that problem yet.
     
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    Sometimes I resort to just reading stories, as on literotica. At least my brain still has to use its fantasy, not like all those 7-second clips with all-to-artificial (but somtimes hot!) girls and gyus.

    Reaing erotica takes more time, I can control the speed I think it doesn´t further desensitisation with the same intesity as clips...
     
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    Alot of porn is indeed crappy, but I'm too hypersexual to care.~


    I generally gravitate to the stuff I like, or want to like.
     
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    I'd rather "show" more when limp, not necessarily to show off, but to have more certainty about what I'm wearing. I'm afraid to even try a pouch like that because, if I got it to fit while flaccid, I'm positive that it would pop off (or be highly uncomfortable) when hard. I'd think that it would be better to have the "flaccid fit" be more similar to the "hard fit".
     
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    I just want to add my two cents to this great topic. I think I am somewhat desensitized to porn. I watched gay porn for many years...but then I somehow started watching st8 porn (which I watched before when I was in my late teens) and I got hooked on st8 porn (to this day) because I loved watching the cocks (obviously). Lately I have found myself being turned on by other things in porn: When I watch st8 porn I get excited by the thought of the guy getting pleasure from a woman. The woman doesn't turn me on, but if she is hot, I know that will turn on the guy, so that gets me off. So, strangely, when I hear st8 guys talking about pussy and what they would do to a woman..that enough to get me hard. The biggest turn on for me wiith gay or st8 porn is if I can make up a story in my mind as the background to the scene I am watching. That makes it seem more real. As for porn, I prefer, homevideos, especially when it is MMF. Finally, even though I am gay, I watch much more st8 porn. I guess there is a wider variety of men and cocks there, than the same guys in gay porn. Sorry for the long thread...
     
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    My dick get desensitized from porn... I guess I shouldn't rub it so much!
    lol
     
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