nudeyorker
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This is something I really understand. After my first partner died I had no interest for such a long time (nearly 20 years) in pursuing any form of another committed relationship. We had such a wonderful life together that I could not imagine settling for anything but the best life had to offer. I had so many people question the fact that I was single and I always said... "I'm just picky and not willing to settle for second best."
This is also something that is a factor in the choices I make for my home, what I eat and what I wear and who my friends are. There is nothing worse than coming home to a place that you hate but you settled for. You should always eat and drink the best that you can afford and the same goes for what you wear because it is how the world perceives us. Fake friends are like fake relationships... you should never settle for less than your hearts desire because you are afraid of being alone. There is true courage in making this decision and I applaud you.
So be selective and picky because if you hold out for the best you will wind up like I did. Living and loving someone who was worth waiting for.
This is also something that is a factor in the choices I make for my home, what I eat and what I wear and who my friends are. There is nothing worse than coming home to a place that you hate but you settled for. You should always eat and drink the best that you can afford and the same goes for what you wear because it is how the world perceives us. Fake friends are like fake relationships... you should never settle for less than your hearts desire because you are afraid of being alone. There is true courage in making this decision and I applaud you.
So be selective and picky because if you hold out for the best you will wind up like I did. Living and loving someone who was worth waiting for.