I built a California King size platform bed that has raised panels at the foot and on the sides at the head of the bed where the nightstands go. There are 4 large drawers with full extension Blum European style drawer slides rated at 250#. The drawer boxes are dovetailed solid oak and the drawer face is a raised panel with 2 colonial style solid brass pulls. My wife stitched together a cotton futon that we used for years but now we have a firm store-bought mattress. When sitting on the side of the bed our feet don't touch the floor, and yes it is an almost perfect height.
I sleep on the right side of the bed when you are on your back looking towards the foot of the bed. It is a habit that was established right away in our relationship. We lived in a 1957 28' trailer while my wife to be finished college and the first night, after being together all of 3 weeks, we tried sleeping the opposite way and it just did not work.
I sleep on my belly, my wife sleeps on her back most of the time. And that is where we wake up. She used to hog the covers but has gotten better because she has a real heavy blanket that is doubled up on her side of the bed. I sleep pretty warm and prefer no covers or the least amount necessary. I sleep in the nude, my wife wears an XL t-shirt that is loose on her.
I dream of sensual women, fluid movements, mind blowing orgasms and work - damn it. I also apply my mind to problem solving on internet startups that I am working on and other ideas that I am developing. I dream of wilderness, mountains and Montana. But since I only get 6 hours of sleep at best I don't have enough dream time to accomplish all that I would like to do. And why is it that the phone will ring or my wife will ask a question from the kitchen, waking me up from the most fantastic sex dreams when I am so close to blowing my biggest load ever in the most eager, wettest, warmest pussy I have ever experienced?