Been Turned Down For Being Too Big?

[deleted8693001]

I’m an average sized guy and wonder.. have any of you large dudes been impossible for your partner?

 

[bs8bi6]

Been turned down many times.

 

[deleted8693001]

Been turned down many times.

Any stories

 

[deleted4500261]

Nope. Never been turned down over that. It’s never been an issue really.

 

[TragicWhiteKnight]

Feels like it happened 1 in 3 times when I was younger. I've gotten much better at both foreplay and smooth-talking to at least get some action more often than not, but I've had plenty of flat refusals too.

 

[lbj15]

When I was in college, I was staying a summer in DC, and a super petite girl who was famous for getting around came and stayed with us. We'd been flirting all night, and about 30 minutes after we crashed, she crawled into my bed. After giving her what at least appeared to be back-breaking sequential orgasms from oral, I figured I was in, but she turned me down, settled for a pretty spectacular blowjob.

"OK," I thought, "maybe some of the rumors aren't quite true, and she doesn't put out on the first date." The next day we hung out on the Mall for 4th of July, and on the ride back we got stuck in traffic. She went down on my while I fingered her as we inched through. Got back to the house, she turned me down again. Now I was perplexed, but whatever.

Wasn't until 6 months later, when she was fucking a friend of mine, when she apparently mentioned to him that she turned me down because I had the biggest dick she'd ever seen, and she'd had painful sex from smaller, but still large, ones. One of the nicest things anyone has ever said about me.

We ended up fucking at the end of senior year. By then she'd discovered lube.

 

[lbj15]

Also my high school girlfriend (age 18!) was a virgin and we tried having sex a few times and it simply didn't fit. That wasn't a great way to start things out.

 

[deleted882309]

I should be so lucky

 

[WadWorshipper]

We ended up fucking at the end of senior year. By then she'd discovered lube.[/QUOTE]

Oh man, that is so sad! If only you'd have known that was her issue you would have brought out your lube and been having fun all that time! Well, I'm glad things finally worked out! (or in, actually....)

 

[UKGay50]

I’ve not come across a cock yet that has been too big

 

[Redheadchi]

I had an ex GF who told me if she’d had known how large I was she wouldn’t have agreed to dating me. She had a medical condition which made sex with anyone above average painful. We lasted six months before she decided it’s was too much and wanted more enjoyable sex. Wish she’d had been more open because I would have suggested swinging, oh well lol.

But Ive always been turned down for anal. Only tried once and didn’t get my head in before she tapped out.

 

[deleted12590281]

Yeah that happened a lot in my younger and more inexperienced years (18+). The girls weren’t used to a cock my size, and I wasn’t very good in smooth talking, warming up, always bringing lube and so on.

That has all changed the recent years, but I still get turned down once in a while. I have even experienced being turned down for a bj cause the girl had a big exam the next day, and didn’t wanna hurt her throat

 

[rope9839]

Never flat out refused. I've had a few tap out really, really quickly. Those always seem to end in a hand job, rather than head. I've had three relationships I can think of where the size of my dick was constantly an issue during sex. Admittedly they all had very small / tight vaginas, so it was extremes on both ends. Those relationships never lasted long.

 

[Mikehuntishuge]

I had an ex GF who told me if she’d had known how large I was she wouldn’t have agreed to dating me. She had a medical condition which made sex with anyone above average painful. We lasted six months before she decided it’s was too much and wanted more enjoyable sex. Wish she’d had been more open because I would have suggested swinging, oh well lol.

But Ive always been turned down for anal. Only tried once and didn’t get my head in before she tapped out.

You would have been a hit in the swing scene. You with a huge cock and her with a pussy to tight for anything over average.......you could have made some swapping dreams come true!

 

[luvnlg]

I was at a sex party and found a friend i know from other parts of my life showed up. i thought it would be fun to play with him. we made out a bit and i reached around him to feel his ass, he was very tight and said said' nope that aint gonna work for me. I dont bottom often and certainly not with that.'
We both laughed and went on from there. Lickily we still see each other around and remain friends.

 

[thongboy]

I top more than I bottom because of my cock, but I'm never offended if a bottom says no. And when I bottom, I know how to take a long cock like mine, but I still say no to one that I think is too thick

 

[5607961]

I have been once and it was a bummer but also hot

 

[deleted18388141]

i did turn down many guys because of big penis, sometimes it would work, but sometimes guys don't know how to take it slow, or just wanna get it in and have their pleasure; big no

 

[Harry Hotdog]

Only time I've been turned down is when she is still sore. Sometimes it takes a couple of days for her to recover. So yes, if my dick was smaller, I would get more sex.

 

[jdoe86]

Mostly because of my girth. I had a girl who really wanted to fuck, but once she saw my girth she backed out. She couldn't get more than the head of my cock in her mouth so I had to settle for a hand job with her licking my cock.

And I have had a few guys back out of anal once they saw my size. They were very new to it or virgins, so it was understandable.