Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 16 2005, 05:43 PM
Yeah, there really aren't a lot of guys who do both now. That's why it strikes us as being odd when someone posts in "our forum" asking us to cross over to the other side. If someone wants to posts pics, they know how and where. If they haven't done it, they aren't going to be encouraged by some noob asking them to.
Now if all you beautiful guys want to flood my inbox with your pics, please feel free...*sigh*
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Dear Madame,
I found the original post to be a bit odd, too, but I think its probably because it comes from a fetish that I don't share. But "Meet and Greet" does in fact seem to be the place for folks to meet and greet so it is probably in the right place. And the request wasn't rude in any way. It certainly wasn't one of those,:yeah prove it!" kind of posts. And the fact that some members responded privately shows that this thread and the way it was approached was probably right for those folks.
I assume you put the quotes around "our forum" to point up the irony of feeling possessive of a place as public as this. I like to think of each section of the forum as separate virtual rooms with lots of different conversations happening simultaneously. And some of those are ones I don't feel the need or desire to join in on. Sometimes I just like listening. And I thought Mindseye's first response was kind of funny. I don't really get why folks jumped down his throat.
While I'm in a good typing groove, another thing to remember is that new folks are going too join this place all the time and start the exact same conversations all over again, like in a high school. There will always be newbies wondering about the relation of dick size and noses, or feet, or if black guys are really bigger than guys from other races. If they keep coming back they will gradually get a feel for this place.
