I had a friend who was big grower. He and I were about same soft. We were on swim team together for years. Saw him many times in locker room but never hard of course. Then in college a gal wanted to do us both. I assumed he would be comparable to me since we were about same soft... WRONG!! He blew up like a dang zeppelin! Had to be at least 8 inches long but the girth is what was amazing. I am 5.5 at thinnest part just behind head. He was wide from front to end and had to be at least 6.5 or 7 inches circumference! I'm betting 7 or more really. What a grower! She kept grunting between his strokes, "SO....UNG....DAMN...UNG...THICK!"